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im in love with my bff's boyfriend
I have a best friend, and we have always had each backs..But, she got this boyfriend, that she had a crush on for a long time. I didnt like him, when she was crushing on him, but now that i really know him...i really really like him. I've been flirting alot with him..and kidding around with him. I wanna know, if there is anyway i can tell him? OR at least tell my bff, without her over-reacting.HELP!
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i think u should tell your bff the truth. try to get over the guy if you really want to keep your friend. it is your decision the guy or your bff
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noo way , not without her overreacting. but depending on the type of person she is, her repsonse will either be "you bitch..." or "i understand" .. but dont go telling other people you know or even him because shell find out and things will be worse off. talking to her and explaining whats going on is probably the best way.
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I think if you say anything to her about it she is gonna really go off on you about it. I don't think you should say anything to him either. If you have your heart set on this guy you will have to wait until they are no longer an item. Even then I think you need to let a little time pass first. If you say anything right now I think you will lose your friend. Is a guy really worth all that? You probably just like him right now because he is around so much. Maybe you should find yourself a guy to go after other than him. :)
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Man, this is betteR left to youRself. If you do not act on these feelings.. no haRm will be done. If you go aRound blabbing it.. you could lose cheRished fRiendships.
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I really wouldn't tell either of them. There are other guys out there and you don't want to loose your best friend over a guy. Sorry, but best friends bf's are off limits. And I can practically garentee that your friend will over-react if you tell her or if she finds out, no matter what she's like, people tend to be protective of the ones they're dating (and I will be really surprised if she didn't overreact). Sorry if it's not what you wanna hear but you have to move on. Hope I helped.
~IceAngel13
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i would personally keep this to myself and find a new guy to like. i know if i had a boyfriend and my friend also liked him and was always hitting on i wouldnt be so happy about. plus a friendship is worth more then a guy. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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okay i think you should tell your BFF about how you feel but tell her your willing to never put your friendship before a guy. Trust me i no how it feels i had a friend you liked my exe boyfriend and she told me and i kind of flipped out but i appoligized and she forgave me and turned out the guy was JA <3 ash and good luck
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Wow this sounds like a situation I was in 2.5 years ago. But with me i went behind my bestfriends back told her boyfriend he broke up with my bestfriend and him and i started dating and she was mad at me. then him and I broke up after 9 days of dating but got back together a few times and this time we've been together for almost 6 months! I don't advise you do what I did. Tell your bestfriend that after getting to know him you kind of have feelings for her boyfriend to and you wanted to let her know instead of keeping things from her because bestfriends shouldn't do that. If she over reacts then theres nothing you can do but tell her that your not going to split the two up but you do think he deserves to know also. You just want to get everything out in the open. Thats how I would handle it now. And I hope i helped.
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