My Fiancee ended our 3 1/2 year relationship a year ago. I just can't seem to stop thinking about him???? Especially on the weekends??? I wonder if he thinks about me??? When he ended the relationship, he told me he will always love me but we need to move on. I really don't go out!! I was alot to blame with the ending of my relationship, I have tryed to call him leave messeges, write him letters etc. and I haven't heard from him in a year!! Can you give me sme advice how to move on and im thinking I will never meet anyone again, I'm scared to be alone for the rest of my life.
Heptune answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:30 pm: Put this man behind you for good. Don't call him or write to him, because every time you do, you hurt yourself again. I know it will be hard at first, but resist the urge to try to keep contacting him. You will feel better about yourself if you stay away from him.
Turn your thoughts and attentions to nurturing yourself and doing things you enjoy doing, either by yourself or with friends. Go see movies, take bubble baths, learn new skills, make your home into a cozy nest and make yourself comfortable and happy. If you are happy with yourself, other people (including men) will be happy with you. [ Heptune's advice column | Ask Heptune A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 4:24 pm: you seem stressed out. relax everything will be ok. you need forget about him and move on. they are a lot of guys out there that would love to go out with you. why wont you go and take so time to you and your friends and go out party do soemthign new anything to get your mind off of him. i mean it isnt really that bad to be single. at least now you can do whatever you want without worrying. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
xOxdancErcHyckxOx answered Tuesday June 21 2005, 3:37 pm: Well god has a plan for everyone..life can sumtimes suck but every bad thing leads to a good thing. HAng out with some of your buddies n party..live life to its fullest and im sure someone would be happy to have you
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