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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 7 months. He has been talking to some stupid girl from another state and it bugs me wicked badly. So one day I was on myspace and I purposly looked for a guy from my school who is completely gorgeous. We started talking and became best friends. He knows i have a crush on him and he tells me he has one on me. I feel so attached to him. I really do like my boyfriend a lot. I have already broken up with him twice for this kid and we got back together because i cant help but be with him. By the way, my boyfriend hates this kid because he thinks he tried using me for sex, even though we never did anything together but hug. My boyfriend would be wicked pissed if he found out that we talk. It is extremely complicated and i dont know what to do. I need advice desperatly. Who should I pick? If you need more imformation I'll send you some. Thanks.
You should break up with your boyfriend because he honestly deserves better than you.
Get over your issues with your father. You don't develop trust and faithfulness issues out of thin air.
There is something wrong with my mind. I'm positive that there is.
I'm 5'5 and about 165lbs. When I look in the mirror, I feel physically sick. I can't STAND looking at my body. I feel like a gross obese girl. I'm a dancer. My teacher is always telling me to suck it in, and I just can't anymore. I tried anorexia, but my parents force me to eat. I've tried bulemia, but I can't make myself throw up. I would love to get down to maybe 140lbs.
I feel the need to get very skinny very quickly. I've become ADDICTED to americas next top model. I just love looking at how skinny most of them are. I just want more than anything to be skinny. I will do whatever it takes.
I'm obsessed with nutrition. I count calories like it's my job. My passion is shopping. I just can't bear going into a fitting room and trying on size 12-14 jeans.
I'm very self aware. I realize that I have an unhealthy obsession, but there is truely nothing I can do about it.
Please, don't tell me to focus on a healthy diet an excersize. I'm SO sick and tired of carrots, salads, and tiny portions of meat. I try to excersize, but I never have any motivation.
What I'm looking for now is just some advice. If anyone feels that they can break through my unstable mindset with some personal stories or other bits of advice, please, I just need help.
Thank you for your time.
I love how you say you're not motivated to exercise after you just listed two eating disorders as strategies to lose weight.
In conclusion, you're lazy. You MUST exercise to lose weight, there is no way around that. If you don't want to exercise, then you don't want to lose weight. You don't have a choice.
Oh, and see a therapist.
So my family is the richest by far in my town. My town is small, but we are probably the richest in our county and the counties surrounding us. My Grandpa was a doctor since he was in his late twenties early thirties. He died at the age of 75. All of his money went to us. My mom is an RN and makes good money. My dad is probably the biggest rancher in our state.
Recently a girl's dad in my school (who used to work for us) got an oil rig job. They finnaly got money and I was happy for them. Now they really get to live a little compared to living how they used to. Well she got a new car (mustang) when she turned sixteen. She is a year older than me. I just turned sixteen and I got a Dodge Ram 3500 dually Mega Cab 2008. Her dad saw what I had got and came up to me and said "I like your truck. Too bad it's not as nice as my daughters." I blew it off like I didn't hear it, but then his daughter came up to me and asked me what year mine was and how much it cost. I didn't answer how much because I knew that was snoody. Then the other day I was talking about a cruise I had been on with some friends and her dad happen to over hear me. He said "Tia will be going on a cruise of the next three summers." And every time I get something new she gets something just like it. She is constantly telling me how much her clothes cost when I own the same clothes. It's really annoying and I'm not sure what I should do about it. Any suggestions to get them off my back?
Also I'm not the braggy type. I like to keep to myself about the money I have. I only told you my families money to let you know where we both stand.
Yes, they are jealous, but there's not really anything you can do about it.
But you can always start wearing cheap clothing that obviously didn't cost much just to see how she reacts.
hi i really need an answer. i usually don't ask a question here but this is urgent. i'm doing a school project and we're doing a lot of research. i got the animal angelfish and i can't find nething on google about it. If ne1 knows what the prey and predator of angelfish are, then plz answer. i'm begging u. this is a double major evaluation and i never, i repeat NEVER get nething below a 90. help me!
Did you even bother trying?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angelfish
I found that in less than 15 seconds.
Does anyone know where I can find a pic of a clown holding an M16? I know it is a wierd question, but it is a long story...lol
http://www.4tuning.ro/gal/albums/kitch-tuning/funny/normal_funny_clown_gun.jpg
Closest I got. Better a machine gun than a pistol as listed below.
i like this cute guy @ school. he is really shy! I THINK HE SEES THAT im like looking at him but how do i get him to talk\notice me! PROBLEM! im really shy around guys! hellllllllllllllllp! plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! ps im like 4or5 years younger than him !
You have no chance.
is it weird for a 10 year old girl to be so interested in biolagy and health because my sister is 10 and she is a huge tomboy and all she does on the computer is look up stuff about brain surgery and other stuff that has long names and is hard to pronounce is that weird should i be worried for any reason i mean she is always talking like a retierd doctor all sientificly or whatever is that weird for a girl her age thanks in advance to whoever takes there time to read this PPPPEEEAACCEEE
It's good, because she'll be a benefit to the world with her teh smartzorzness, and maybe she can teach you to use periods and decrease the number of run on sentences.
You should... leave her alone. I mean, if you have to ask if it's weird to be into scientific shit, you're probably not a great influence.
ok so im making this movie there is going to be 2 13 year olds (one is me) 1 14 year old 1 15 year old 1 12 year old 1 11 year old and 2 10 year olds i just dont know what to do i want somthing that incloudes all uf us i have no idea what the movie should be about can you guys help please please please i need it by march
After nuclear wars destroy the world, you are all forced to live off of each other as food.
Let the coin tosses ensue!
Everybody is always telling me how I'm gorgeous, and I'm just soo prety and one of the most beautiful girls they've ever seen. And guys tell me I'm hot. The thing is, I don't feel it. Like I know I am somewhat attractive, maybe just pretty, but there are always all these girls telling me that I'm so gorgeous and they wish they could look like me. I know that I am pretty, but I don't feel like I'm as pretty as other people say. How am I supposed to know if I'm pretty or not? Like besides what other people say becuase I just don't feel as attractive as what my friends all say to me. And this isn't a self esteem issue, at least I don't think it is...
Yea, you probably aren't all that attractive. Never mind that people say you're beautiful all the time, I'm just going to side with you on this one.
is there anything wrong with anal sex??.. i did it over the weekend and yea, i liked it.. hurt really badly, but i liked it. thanks for the advice!!
Everyone that has answered is a downright fool.
Anal sex is extremely unhealthy and can result in physical damages including anal prolapse, fissures, and hemorrhoids. Let's not forget the infectious diseases, either.
There's a REASON it hurt really badly; you're not supposed to be doing it! If you take a hammer and pound some nails into your fingers, it hurts. What does the pain signify? It means stop fucking doing that. Your body is telling you something, and I suggest you listen unless you want your ass to fall out.
So theres this guy that treats me like shit. i seriously try to be sooooo nice to him and i usually am. but he never reconizes it. I always have to text him first and call him first. and when i dont he doesnt do anything i tried not being the first to text,call etc. And he didnt seem to care. Im trying to get away from him, but its so hard. I know it sounds stupid like if i was an outsider looking in on the situation id be like leave him now. but i cant its so hard. any tips on how to leave someone and walk away before i get really hurt? thanks!
He treats you like shit because you're being obsessive.
Ease off a little (a lot) and he'll no longer treat you badly.
Ok, well, I'm 15. And I found these two guys that I really, really like. The one's 24, and I know it's illegal for us to do anything like sexual or anything, but it's not about that. If he does make it that, I will stop it. The other guy is 17. And I know the choice seems so easy, that I should go to the guy that I can actually date, but I can't get it out of my mind; what if he's the One or something like that? I actually really feel he could be the One, but like I said, I'm 15, could it work?
Go for the 17 year old. It is not a normal reaction for a 24 year old to be even remotely interested in a 15 year old.
When you're 24 and you think of your friends and other people your age, you'll be disgusted by the thought of that age difference.
you are sooo funny, I read some of your column and you are quite the comedian.
Keep up the good work and one question:
How do you get away with saying the things you say on this site without getting banned?
Whatever your answer is, just keep on being funny. It is very entertaining. :]
Thank you. Much appreciated.
Oh, and I don't get away with a good deal of what I write. I lost count of the number of times I've been banned after 15, and this isn't exactly my first column.
Is it normal for a guyfriend to call you baby?
err at nite when you text he text you nite sweety/sweetiepie/honey xoxox ? even call you out sweety on the phone?
is that normal or does he possibly LIKE me, more then a friend?
Doesn't really mean anything. I call some of my girl friends my catatonic sex toys.
how do you get rid of hiccups?
Put salt or sugar on your palm and lick it off with the back of your tongue.
does anyone know any way to have leonardo dicaprio at my 16th birthday party???!! I need to know I love him
Next to impossible. You're more likely to find Osama bin Laden hiding in your fridge.
does anybody know of some amazing songs. Any genre just they have to be amazing. Please leave a long list.
Forty Six and 2 by Tool
http://youtube.com/watch?v=Tja6_h4lT6A
Not Even Jail by Interpol
http://youtube.com/watch?v=E06FENcvQ7s&feature=related
Disarm by Smashing Pumpkins
http://youtube.com/watch?v=QQtLoJlQD6E
To Defy the Laws of Tradition by Primus
http://youtube.com/watch?v=hQHonLACois
Weak and Powerless by A Perfect Circle
http://youtube.com/watch?v=fj43n63cJN4
In that order.
so. my friend and i are kinda in a big fight. and.. he's winning. i mean. he has a good reason. he called me a poser [[well, that's not the good reason]] for cutting and he said i cut to get attention or what'ev.. so like. he's really mad at me for cutting. and he posted this on my myspace.
"You're such a fucking idiot
I wish you'd fucking stop
You think you really are
But you're really really not.
You've got no-one fooled
So stop tryin to put on you're little act
Put your notebook on the shelf.
You're really fooling no-one, but yourself, in fact.
Cut the fuckin drama
I will no longer tolerate this stupidity
Seconds after reading this you'll be cryin to your mamma
I refuse to tolerate your imbecillity.
You're such a fucking idiot
You make me wanna shout
You're such a fucking idiot
Find a gun, and blow your fucking brains out.
Get out of my life
Leave me alone
Bitch, you're whack
Take that shit home."
and this....
"If you really wanna kill yourself that bad
Go a-fucking-head,
Put your finger on the trigger
Of a gun full of lead
The people close to you
Feel the same fucking way I do
Go ahead, do it, you'll fill out lives with bliss
I highly doubt you will be missed"
and it hurts
alot...
Tell him he can't write poems for shit.
Im not quite sure i understand why people wish at 11:11...help me understand please??????
and does your wish come true.
The song is When You Wish upon a Star, not When You Wish upon a Clock.
Someone [my sorta kinda friend] asked me if I wanted to go smoke weed in the woods with him...I was with my other friend and she is a big flirt and is all like okay! [she didn't actually smoke anything, she was just playing around] but she walked off with him and I had said no. My kinda sorta friend was like, but you need a buddy to smoke with and I said, well I'm not that buddy. [I know the repructions of doing drugs and drinking and all that, so I declined on his offer knowing I could get hooked on it and throw my life away]
So then, my friend ditched me afterwards, not even telling me she had gone and didnt even say sorry the next day! She left me alone by myself, and i felt like a loser. How could my friend ditch me and say I'm uncool? Am I uncool because I don't want to do drugs? because I know I'm not uncool for doing that, so what's her problem? She always calls me emo and a downer, and I'm not even emo, I have friends that are "emo" but I'm not. what did I do to deserve this?? Any comments and answers would be greatly appreciated because I'm completley confused.
thanks in advance for whoever read that and took the time to answer my question.
Take this as a valuable learning experience; your friend is not the friend you thought she was. Good friends don't ditch you for no reason to smoke pot and then not apologize about it at all.
I'm not saying she's a bad person, but she's certainly being a bad friend.