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he just stopped..
so. my friend and i are kinda in a big fight. and.. he's winning. i mean. he has a good reason. he called me a poser [[well, that's not the good reason]] for cutting and he said i cut to get attention or what'ev.. so like. he's really mad at me for cutting. and he posted this on my myspace.
"You're such a fucking idiot
I wish you'd fucking stop
You think you really are
But you're really really not.
You've got no-one fooled
So stop tryin to put on you're little act
Put your notebook on the shelf.
You're really fooling no-one, but yourself, in fact.
Cut the fuckin drama
I will no longer tolerate this stupidity
Seconds after reading this you'll be cryin to your mamma
I refuse to tolerate your imbecillity.
You're such a fucking idiot
You make me wanna shout
You're such a fucking idiot
Find a gun, and blow your fucking brains out.
Get out of my life
Leave me alone
Bitch, you're whack
Take that shit home."
and this....
"If you really wanna kill yourself that bad
Go a-fucking-head,
Put your finger on the trigger
Of a gun full of lead
The people close to you
Feel the same fucking way I do
Go ahead, do it, you'll fill out lives with bliss
I highly doubt you will be missed"
and it hurts
alot...
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honestly, i think he means well. he cares about you, but its pretty obvious he doesn't know how to handle this situation.
cutting is not normally something people tell others about. especially if, to others, you have nothing wrong in your life.
if you have a reason, you need someone to talk too.
if you have no reason. then i'm sorry, but he's right on the part that you need to stop.
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He's either:
1. RUBBISH at handling situations.
2. He's not the friend you thought he was.
Want to salvage your relationship? Stop cutting. If you can't stop, get help. Tell him you need him at this point in your life. If he sticks by you and apologizes for that atrocious "poem", all is well. If not.. then why the hell do you need someone like that anyway.
He may be "right" in this argument.. but he's going the wrong way about it for sure. For all he knows, you really could be on the verge of suicide and his little rhyme is certainly not going to help.
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Tell him he can't write poems for shit.
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Hey there,
Well first of all, perhaps your friend is scared and doesn't know how to help you with this sort of issue.
Perhaps he's had someone close to him do this before and he lost them and is afraid that it's going to happen again.
Other wise he is just very mad at you for doing this to yourself instead of asking him or someone else for help.
He obviously thought that you knew he was there for you and then you've done this instead of talking to him about your problems, he's probably hurt.
That doesn't give him the write to post those poems on his site or talk to you like that but as I said... he's angry.
Perhaps you should talk to him and apologise for not coming to him but you developed this issue and it was too hard for you to control in your mind so you eventually took it out on your body to make yourself feel like you were in control of it.
He doesn't know what you are going through but you shouldn't expect him to know. He's obviously in shock.
I say do the right thing and talk to him about it, he might have cooled down by now.
Hope I helped. :)
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It doesnt seem like his is a good friend a good friend would help you out of this. A good friend wouldent give up on you i wish i could help you out but id need the real reason why you cut.
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