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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!

Yes. Your period is ususlly irregular when you first start getting it. Don't be worried it's completely normal.

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if my eyes are dark blue-green wut color eye shadow should i use to make my eyes stand out?

Neutrals are always the best. Or any other light color really. I have the same color eyes and I like using gold. Light pink usually work to as long as you have a pale - meduim tan complextion. Try to avoid bright greens, blues, purpes, ect. I hope I hepled!

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I just had surgery and i can't really walk very well and i have to go to registration at middleschool in 2 days. I am not sure if i will be better by then and i am nervous that people will think i am a weirdo if i walk around limping. What should i do?

Don't really worry what people will think. After they talk to you they'll know nothing is wrong. However, if it makes you feel better use a crutch. It may make you feel better and it would probably be easier for them to understand. Nevertheless, there is no need. People won't really care because they'll know you just have a minor injury because limping isn't that odd. I hope I helped!

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what do you do when your friends don't like your boyfriend? please help me!!!!!!!

Ask your friends what don't they like about him. That way you can see their point of view. If they just don't like him explain that they don't have to like just that they should be supportive of you. If there is something else then thank your friends and break up with him. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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OK so i go to this camp during the summer time,and theres this guy who goes there and was in my class last year and i found out were going to 2 other camps with each other!But the thing is that i'm starting to kinda like him.But somtimes he would say mean things to get older guy friends.But it was in a humorus way.Usely hes nice though.My main point is should i like him or not?(sry its soooo long)

Yes, you should like him. There really isn't any way to control your feelings. If you really think he's good then there is no stopping you.

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Hey guys.. My little cousin is turning 16 in January and we really want to help her throw a party, or throw one for her. For my 16th birthday my twin & i just had like a big cookout in out backyard because its in June and its nice. But for January we dont know what to do. Ideas or birthday party stories would be great.

Thanks everyone,
LoveMonkey728

A fun thing to do for a Sweet 16 is have a theme. Masquardes (sp?) are always fun. Some other great themes are any decade themes, a style of music, or pretty much anything you can think of. You should get a DJ for this and have dancing. I hope I hlped! ♥ good luck

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im only 13/f and i have had 3 boyfriends but never done anything more than hold hands and hug?? i havent even gotten my first kiss! is there some way i can get it soon or do i just have to wait?? i rate high!

You just have to wait. Many kids don't have their first kiss untill their late teens. That is the honest answer. You don't need to go so fast because your friends are. Everyone finds love at their own pace. You don't need to find a boyfriend faster because your friends already had their first kiss. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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can u help me. im 5'5 and i weigh 109..HELP am i fat?

No. You are not fat. I weigh more than that and I'm shorter. Besides, muscle weighs more than fat.

P.S- If this is eruz all I have to say is you've had more clever ideas..

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im 13 years old and im a girl. i just want 2 know if there is any jobs that i could get at my age. and please dont say babysitting because i dont really want 2. please and thanks!

Sadly, other than babysitting, there are no other jobs for 13 year olds. Unless you start your own business. You can garden for people, make something, walk dogs, ect. It's actually better because you won't get tax dollars taken out of your pay check. With other jobs (like fast food places) you have to be 14 and more common 16. So try starting your own business. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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My boyfriend is really fast. and like is always horney. we are in 8th grade and he tried to finger me =\ and then he braged about how he tried to his friend. next time should i let him? should i talk to him about thet bragging thing? PLEASE HELP ME !!

No don't let him if you don't want him to. You're only in 8th grade and your boyfriend is a really a bit to fast for that age. You should confront him about bragging to his friends. I don't know why he's bragging if you said no though. But stick to your word if you're not ready. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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im depressed. i have ALL the signs of teen depression [ i looked them up ]

i dont feel myself lately. i dont like me. i cant sleep. i cry for no reason. im really mean to people around me. this year my grades went from A's and B's...to all F's.

ugh...any ideas on how to tell my mom? i want to tell her i need to see a theripist but im scared of how to bring it up and stuff..

To tell your mom just come out and say it. Make sure you are not already in a conversation when you do this. That would just be too akward. You go also try seeing your school guidance consuler. They can help with the beginning steps, tell your mom, and help you find a good psycharatirst (sp?). But make sure you tell someone. You could have another disaese. My brother's friend didn't feel himself lately. They brought him to the doctor and it turned out he had lukemia (which has no conection with depression the person just felt sad and not hiself). I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do?

If you really want to swimming you should. And if you do you have to wear a tampon. However, in my opinon you shouldn't go swimming. It's your first period so you may put the tampon in the wrong way. And you would either experince much pain or it would leak all over the pool. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I need a pet! should i get a dog or cat? i dont want it to smell bad! so what smell better

I've read the answers and everyone says get a cat. However, in my opinon you should get a dog. Yes, dogs usally smell worse but cat's litter boxes make the entire house smell like crap. Dogs go outside the house. Also cats can sometimes give you the cold shoulder. Nevertheless, you should go with the animal that you like better. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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13/f
ok i've never had a bf ever in my life. im kind of over weight and i dont think im very ugly but im prolly not really pretty eaither. i do have some guy friends but not real boy friends. i really want a bf cuz i always see my friends with there bfs kissing and holding hands and hugging etc. i've never been kissed either so i feel so left out cuz all my friends have please give me some good advice and please help me!!

Nothing is wrong with you. All these kids your age getting boyfriends so young is worthless. It's either fake love or it will go to far. It's OK to not have a boyfrind. Don't change yourself. If you want to lose weight just try jogging. Everyone finds love at their own pace. Don't think you're slow most kids these days are just too fast. Maybe you could have a friend help get you a date. I'm not saying boyfriend. Wait to call the right one your boyfriend. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey...

Well im a beginner in field hockey and i just recently took a camp, and am hoping to try out for the team next year at school... and I need a stick so i was wondering for those who have played what they would recommend; for instance what brands that are good and which to avoid. Also since i am a beginner i dont want to spend like 200$ on a stick so make it reasonable like under 60$.

thanks!

Don't worry no field hockey stix costs $200. Heck, none even cost $60. Some good brands are STX and Gray (or at least I believe that's what it's called). There aren't really any brands to aviod. Both brands usually cost around $20-40. To see what stick fits you it should be around your waist. I'm sure you already know that but a few brands don't make variations in size. If you need anymore help ask me, not very many people play field hockeey but I do and have a lot of knowledge about it. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Hey I always get eyeliner that smudges.... any ideas for one that doesn't or very little smudge?

I'm sorry but most eyeliners do smudge. There's nothing you can really do to stop it. However, you can try buying a water-proof eyeliner. They usually don't smudge too much. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I'm really confused because it says I have 1 new feedback and everytime I click on it, no new rating shows up. I'm really confused about this...help anyone?

Sometimes the scripts go a little crazy. It'll go away pretty soon. That happens every once in a while. Don't worry nothing is wrong.

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my boyfriend asked me to have sex with him and i dont want to but i dont know how to let him down easily.. what do u suggest i tell him ?

Just tell him. It's not too hard. You don't need to let him down easy if you really don't want to. And if he gives you any trouble dump him. It doesn't matter how much you think you love him (you may but it's not likely looking at the age group on this site) you have to let him go. Too many girls are throwing themselves away today. Just say no. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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how do you make those hearts? and no, i dont mean these

& hearts ; without the spaces.

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does anyone know wat can give you more colors on AIM ?

http://www.justfuckinggoogleit.com

^^This is not a joke. I swear.

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