Ok I'm taking birth control for almost a year the first 6 months i took ortho tri cyclen then i wanted to try yasmine and that didn't work then, and then i tried orto cyclen and been on it for four months and i usually use condoms but one time last month i didn't. i'm pretty sure i'm not pregnant because i got my period when i'm supposed to and i did take a pregnancy test and it said negative but i'm scared because some people bleed every month and think there not pregnant when they are(because you can spot) so i want to make sure if there is any other way to test, or is hard to test because i'm on birth control
Most likely you aren`t pregnant your taking the same pills as me and i never use a condom.. I also took Yasmin at the very beginnin when i started birth control but i changed pills when i changed doctors.. If the test says negative then most likely thats effective.. Also i`d think if you aren`t ready for consequences that could possibly happen including pregnancy maybe having sex isn`t a good idea right now.. The pill is very effective so i think tryin to relax would be good for right now hun.. ♥ Dez
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Me my friend are going to start a t-shirt line that says stuff on it like random sayings, eventually we'll go into pants like sweats and necklaces or whatever. thing is we need a name for our label i was wondering if anyone had some ideas??
The sayings are going to be dirty(lol), funny, and random but we will do some design stuff too the look will be kind of punk/urban/suburbs kinda look so yeah just to give you an idea. Thanks so much!!!!
I would use yours and your friend`s intials.. ♥ Dez sorry if i didn`t help much..
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Whats a career is in the medical area where you dont have to deal with a lot of blood and surgery?
Physical therapist.. ♥ Dez
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What's it like to make out with someone? Because my boyfriend said he wants to make out with me. We've never kissed so is that all he means? I guess this is kind of a stupid question but please anser anyways.
Well kissing someone is very special to some people.. and usually while kissin you kiss eachother on the neck ears or any other body parts and you might even touch each other maybe not like your personal ones you might not want touch but like his stomach back or the back of his head to make it more tasteful and sexy.. ♥ Dez
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My bf didn't kiss me for a long time because he was nervous and didn't want to do anything wrong. We finally did, and it was great since I care about him but otherwise, I didn't really like it. I don't really know how to describe what I didn't like. He opens mouths mouth too much and it's slobbery and wet. Kind of passionate, but wiping off my mouth afterward is definetly not. It reminds he of getting licked by a dog or something. Yuck... I don't know what to do because we've kissed several times since that and they all seem the same. Should I say anything? I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know how scared he is of doing "wrong". Please help!!! I care about him so I don't want kissing, a display of affection, to be what gives us problems. That just seems silly to me.
Hey i can relate to this..
Well my boyfriend use to be a really sloppy kisser as well.. I think it was mainly because he has bigger lips then me but i mean i still liked kissen him even tho i did have to wipe my face afterwards.. This is how i get his kissing to change..Well one night we was kissin on his bed and i kinda was like baby slow it down and lets not open our mouths so wide then after we kissed like that he complimented me an said thats better.. and then ever since then we have kissed like that.. i mean i don`t think i was mean about it or anything but see it might be harder for you cuz he was scared of doing something wrong anyways.. so just after you tell him be like you do fine i`d just like to keep our mouths closed a lil bit more.. *not like completely closed but a lil bit would help you and tell him to swallow his spit..* ♥ Dez
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Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality?
Gosh i don`t get it either.. People are stupid in my opinion.. Not everybody is like that tho.. i personally think personality should come first.. ♥ Dez
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I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy?
Well you can keep a girl by..
..Not lien
..Not cheatin
..Stayin faithful
..Don`t crowd her too much
You should get to know your girlfriend and you`ll eventually figure out what makes her happy.. Like you`ll figure out what things not to do and things to do.. ♥ Dez
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It's my boyfriends 21st birthday in about 3 weeks and i want to get him something really special, i was going get him some kind of gadget but i've decided its not special enough.
if anyone has any ideas please share :-)
Also if i get him a watch and have it engraved, would it have to be made out of a certain kind of metal or maerial so they can engrave it and is it expensive to do? thank you
i think engraving a watch/bracelet would be a GREAT! idea.. ♥ Dez
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ok! Well this summer I was on a very intence swim team, and volleyball team! I weighd about 84 pounds! Then after summer when volleyball and swim team stopped, i started to eat more and i just stopped exercising what so ever! And i dont have gym in school! Now i weight about 112 pounds! I really want my body shape back i've tried to hold back my eating but i cant! Please help me what should i do?
Just start exercizing.. Nobody says you can`t stop eating maybe try eating healthier too.. ♥ Dez
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ok I know I always talk bout my bf in here but. I want to know is it scary when u first like make out with someone? Like I want o and stuff but it's scary
yea being nervous at first is very normal but after a couple times you`ll be completely comfortable and okay.. ♥ Dez
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Is it normal to have the feeling like your going to pee during masturbation? even when my boyfriend fingers me i feel like i have to pee even if i pee before. Is this normal?
Yes its normal.. I find it annoying it damn it.. ♥ Dez
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Is hair removal of any kind bad for you?
Ithink its better then shaving.. And actually i htink it takes less time and you don`t have to do it as often as shaving.. ♥ Dez
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The guy that I'm seeing is a real pig. He has a beer guy because he'll go out drinking all the time with his friends and down 12 beers. He farts all the time and has bad breath and body odor. He has red veigns on his nose from all his drinking. Also he dresses like he's thin, he'll wear tight jeans and t shirts but it looks ridicuous because he's about 30 pounds overweight.
It's really hard for me to get turned on by him. It's not just the way he looks sometimes he can be a real jerk. The last straw was when I phoned him on his cell on he told me to only phone him if it was after 6.
I want to dump him but I don't know how to go about it. Should I tell him that his appearance turns me off or would that be too mean?
Eewwyy what did you ever find in this guy in the first place.. Damn he sounds like really NASTY!
I`d tell him he don`t turn you on.. And i don`t think thats mean maybe because i`m a bitch haha.. But he should get the hint after that.. And no female deserves a guy like that go find you something better.. ♥ Dez
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I ma starting a business in selling pretty and urban jewellery but i cant think of any names. Just wondered if anybody has any ideas.
Hco Babe had nice choices and names for that.. ♥ Dez
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ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?!
Ask him whats going on..
Tell him not to have you just hangin like that and not know whats up with you and him..
♥ Dez
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Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them????????
yes be faithful to your girlfriend and tell her..
About the guy i`d personally think he`d have no problem with you bein bisexual.. but thats your decision to tell him weather or not cuz i mean he isn`t your boyfriend.. Now maybe tell your girlfriend that your going out with him as friends.. Cuz you didn`t make it sound like it is more then friends but theres a possibility you could become more.. Just let her know whats up...
♥ Dez
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Ok here u goes. I'm 17/male. And there's our neighbor sta**/Female who's 30. The problems that I think she sexually desires me. It all starts when she began to smile to me 2 month ago just after we moved to this new neighborhood. Anyway I was surprised last morning when she called me while passing her house. (She was outside and I respond her). So she handled my hand and moved it inside the shirt &I touch her breast. I can't deny that I felt erotic in that moment." I WANT U": Were her words. She told me that she wants 4rom me to have sex with her. Then I removed my hand quickly saying that I am late for school and I run away.
I am confused….should I refused or agreed?? Because she really success to seduce me and SHE'S REALLY HOT and SEXY and I am physically attracted to her. I know that she's older… What should I do????
Ps: I flirt many times and had sex 3 times.
Thanks 4 advices. Justin
Email:justin_frogy@yahoo.com
Hey Justin..
Well if you`d like to have sex with her then i`d go for it.. but i`d personally wait til you were 18 so she can`t get in trouble if somebody finds out..Cuz i`d hope you wouldn`t want that to happen..And since your experienced a lil bit with wemon it wouldn`t be like your losing your virginity with her.. i`d just wait til you feel ready and of age to mess with this lady.. Good luck ♥ Dez
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My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing?
Hun i can completely understand this my Aunt Rindi recently passed in April and my uncle as well as yours wants us to go through her clothes and Me,My mom and my other Aunt haven`t done it yet.. i don`t want her clothing either and the day we was pose to do it the car broke down and i was so happy.. i know it was going to be upsettin and i have cried enough so i told them i wanted to wait a while and they excepted it.. Just tell them how you feel about going through these clothes of your Aunt`s.. Ask i you can just put em in your closet or something to get em out of the basement and tell them you`ll go through them soon as your ready.. ♥ Dez
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I have a problem. I don't know if my ex likes me.....I am going to this makes the 5th ballgame tomorrow and I am going to see how things will go ! Last night he sit with me and my friends Oddly. The reason he was sitting there could have been because of me or because of my friends BF Logan which he is good friends with. Me and him talked ALOT last night. my friend said "I know who she likes." and he looked back and they blurted " Kody! (thats his name)" and He started smiling at me. He always jokes with me and he walks me to my bus. So.....
Well he might like you but scared to mention it and being shy but you said he jokes alot so its really hard to tell.. I would just move on hun.. maybe when you get a little bit closer maybe ask him if he likes you.. ♥ Dez
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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?
Just becuz he said he doesn`t want to go out with you doesn`t mean he doesn`t like you hun.. Just give him tiem and you should probably ask him yourself don`t get your friend to do it cuz that might be the reason he said he ain`t want to go out with you.. ♥ Dez
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