Question Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 7:40 am
ok..so theirs this guy nd ive liked him forever!! and im friends w/ his cousin nd she said he liked me!! but hes been ignoring me lately..nd he hasnt called in like 3 days..nd he's been flirting w/ this other girl a lot..nd so i get that he prolly doesnt like me anymore..but i like him waaay to much..what do i do about it?!
emilyjessica0x answered Thursday November 17 2005, 3:42 pm: TELL HIM! He is never going to know if you dont tell him...and you'll keep getting upset about him flirting with that other girl...i hope my advice helped...Please visit my advice column!
happy-helper answered Thursday November 17 2005, 2:57 pm: Perhaps it's jealousy you have with this other girl which isn't abnormal, it's human! So, surely, you just have to try and "win him over", i.e. flirt with him, start conversations, you ring him up, ask him what he wants for christmas and perhaps get it you. You need to prove that you're a lovely person and that you're worth going out with him!! :)
G'luck and be confident! Don't forget to smile!
x Steph x [ happy-helper's advice column | Ask happy-helper A Question ]
precoz answered Thursday November 17 2005, 12:30 pm: in my point of view i think he's way over you . try meeting new people . you might share a common interest with someone close to you. there are plenty of ways to get over someone going out with friends and just having a good time can work. [ precoz's advice column | Ask precoz A Question ]
dhrutts answered Thursday November 17 2005, 11:27 am: Hi There,
I think you should try to get to know him a little better first. Try hanging out with him some more and ask for his number. Test the water first and try to see whether he is interested or not.
If you feel that he is interested, then by all means ask him out. If you are too shy to ask him yourself, then perhaps you could get a friend to do it for you. If he says no, then don't feel awkward about it...perhaps a good friendship can come out of it :)
Well, firt you gotta see if this guy likes you too, and you've got to make sure of it. Why not ask him to come somewhere with you and your mates and then ask for his number. And once you get chatting you can ask him out again, but with just the two of you. If he says no than i
guess you're probally better of without him and he doesn't like you any more than a mate but if he says yes, it's his way of saying he likes you alot too. And so that's your signal, you can ask him out or send signals for him too :oP go for it girl!! But don't take it badly if he doesn't like
you more than a friend, plenty more guys for you!!
Flirting is harmless fun. Maybe it's his way of being nice. It's when they take it further then that, that you have to worry about.What I would do is this. Just ask him if he would like
to hang-out with you sometime. Maybe get his phone number or give him yours if it's ok with your parents. Just take things nice and slow.
Or if your to shy, get your friend to ask him for
you. :)
Hope this helps..good luck to you. [ dhrutts's advice column | Ask dhrutts A Question ]
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