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Okay i asked your guy's help once before about my girlfriend. But I have a serious situation, one of my ex-boyfriends called and asked me out. I haven't came out with this yet so nobody knows except my best friend and my gurlfriend and her aunt. I couldn't turn him down cause he's driving three hours just to see me. I wanna go but I don't think he would like the fact that i'm a 15 year old Bisexual and I have a girlfriend. And I don't think me girlfriend would like me going out with some guy!!!!!!!! Should I tell them????????
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ummm okay, well first of all, we should hook up ;D haaha and second, since he was already your ex-boyfriend I think he would've known by now that you were bisexual... as for your girlfriend, I'd say, drop the ho and grab the hose
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Yes, it would be better then losing both of them.
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If you wannna then thats not a problem but tell your girlfriend because she will wondering and then you'll have to lie and then she weill get even more mad. So just tell hger the truth...i hope my advice helped...
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Who do you feel that is a better commitment, your current girlfriend or your ex boyfriend? As they say, honesty is the best policy but I suppose the truth can hurt and in the long run, suck! But, you need to follow your heart. Ask yourself why the past relationship ended, was it him, was it you? Whoever/whatever it was, you don't want it happening again do you?
Best of luck! :)
x Steph x
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yes be faithful to your girlfriend and tell her..
About the guy i`d personally think he`d have no problem with you bein bisexual.. but thats your decision to tell him weather or not cuz i mean he isn`t your boyfriend.. Now maybe tell your girlfriend that your going out with him as friends.. Cuz you didn`t make it sound like it is more then friends but theres a possibility you could become more.. Just let her know whats up...
♥ Dez
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If you go out with someone else while you're dating another, it's cheating. Is your relationship with your girlfriend worth a fling? Is this guy worth jeapardizing your relationship with your girlfriend? She's there, he's three hours away. Who do you think is going to be worth it in the long run?
think if you do decide to go out with this guy, you should set your girlfriend free. Bisexual or straight, cheating isn't fair to the party being cheated on.
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Hi There,
There is absolutely no reason for you to feel humiliated. And don't ever let anyone's cruel, mean talking get to you. At this age, a lot of people struggle with their identities and their sexuality. Your ex, while she was dating you, was probably struggling very hard with things.
He was confused and most probably scared. Put yourself in his shoes: the whole thing surely hasn't been at all easy for him
My advice is for you to ignore any cruel comments from anyone and to simply be there for your ex. There is nothing wrong with who you is now and there is nothing wrong about your previous relationship with him. When you guys dated: you didn't know that he is gay and he probably
wasn't 100 % sure about it yet. Now that you are biis no reason why you can't just be friends. Don't feel humiliated. I am sure that he never meant to trick you or fool you....I am sure he did care about you; i guess he was just confused about a lot of things and struggling with alot.
Keep your chin up and don't worry your head about
other people's cruelty and prejudices. Turn down any stupid remarks with dignity and stand up for your ex. Tell others to get a life and to stop poking around in other people's affairs, and they eventually will.
Take care of yourself and of your friend, and don't let any of this bring you down.
Takecare
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I think its probably a good idea to let them each know about it.
If you don't and they find out somehow the sparks are gonna fly. Better they hear it straight from you now so they can deal with it. :)
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