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Ok you see my best friend in the whole world has really REALLY bad breath! Wich I really don't care but when sge smells it (her breath) She always says OMG Brittany you breath smells so so bad! I mean I always brush my teeth and always chew gum and eat ice brackers (I have 0 cavities) So what should I say to her? Uesally I just say "Oh I do?" So what should I start saying?

Start offering her mints and gum. If she doesn't take the hint add a "no offense but you need it a bit right now" to your offerings. Try not to be too obvious or that will offend her. Once in a while ask her to check your breath and ask if she wants you to check hers. If she let's you say something like "I can kinda smell what you ate for lunch" and give her a mint. Try not to point it out too much so she doesn;t get mad. I hope I helped!

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My best friend is 13 and I'm almost 14. I got my period last november and she still hasnt gotten it.

So we were talking about it one nite because i got it that nite. So she was like damn it I want mine and I was like you shouldnt. Than she was like my mom told me that when your friends get their periods your more likely to get yours around that time too. I was like really thats weird.

Now is this a true statement or a wild guess I mean because to me it sounda a little out there.

Its a little weird so i didnt know where to put this question.

It's not nessicarily true. Sometimes both you of you may have it around the same times if you have a lot of the same habbits. If you have completely different sizes (one larger one smaller) this probably won't happen. You may have it the same week but it may be different. Usually girls and their moms have the same period pattern. I hope I hepled!

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okay so me and this guy are "together" he said... people have been asking me if were dating, but i have no clue... one of my friends asked if we were dating and he said yea... but when he talked to me he said "i see myself as your boyfriend", like whats the difference from being together, dating, going out and being boyfriend/girlfriend?? he told me theyre all technically the same, so what does he think we are then?!?! (are we bf/gf??

Yes, they are all the same. Moreover, that means he sees you as boyfriend and girlfriend. If you don't want you two to be that way then breaking it off with him is my advice. I hope I helped!

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My mom has this huge bump on the crease between her nostral and her face. It's about the size of an ususually large pimple and has a black dot on the top. Is it possibly a blackhead? It looks big for a blackhead. It's not red or anything.

Chances are it's a blackhead. Like rainbowcheerie said the bump may not be one but the dot on top probably is. However, if it's been there for as long as you can remember than it's not. I have no idea what it could be if that's the case. I hope I helped!

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is there any way to get rid of double chins? i rate 5s for NON dumbass answers

Exercise. There is no way to know where your extra weight is going to come off but eventually you will lose your double chin. Just exercise and eat right that's the only way. I hope I helped!

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tomorrow for a labor day picnic, im inviting a handful of my friends over. I cant think of anything to do and how to entertain them. I have no pool, and they all do so theyll probably think its boring. i have nowhere to go cause my neighborhood is in the middle of nowhere. im trying to think if something else to do besides eat, watch movies, and play Twister, cause thats what we always do. please help, i dont want them to be bored! and we cant go anywhere.

Here are some ideas:

water balloon fights

sparklers (illegal but cops will only tell you off if they see you with them)

dancing

playing some kind of ball game (depending what balls you have)

playing cards

playing capture the flag.

These are just a few ideas. If you need more leave one in my inbox. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think

It's not true. You just like them better. There is nothing wrong with being friends with guys. Don't listen to those people they're idiots.

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so i used to have normal-big boobs.. then i stopped eatting so well and they got smaller. is there any food that will help me make them bigger?

There isn't a certain food you should eat. The problem here is you need to gain weight and not all of it is going to your boobs. As in you may get a little chunkier around your stomach, butt, arms, legs, ect. Just try to eat a little more. However, do not eat unhealthy foods just try to have a little extra than usual. I hope I helped!

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i have serious problems saying no to people. i dont know whats wrong with me.. please no smart comments.. its harder than it sounds
i practice saying no and stuff but when it comes to the time i just.. cant
i think its because ive had some bad history with my boyfriends hitting me when i wouldnt let them so as far as they would like

any adive ?

With your history you may have more of a problem then you think. You may want to seek professional help. Or at least talk to your guidance counsler for help. You may still have a fear of people hitting you. I hope I helped!

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my friends gf broke up with him and hes really depressed and shes such a bitch to him was and still is im like forget about her u can do some much better hes like no i cant! im like watever yea u can i dont knw wat to tell him

You need to be there and support him. When he's ready to move on you can help. Take him out and help him meet new girls. If he really liked this one you need to give him time to get over her. But slowly start to show him how much better he can do. I hope I helped!

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hey i'm not really thin and i have glasses and brown/blonde hair and i was wondering if someone could tell me some make up tips for people with glasses and brown/blonde hair and what types of cloth would look good basically what'll make me look hot!?

OK I'll start with make-up. If you don't like your glasses try wearing contacts. If you don't care then it doesn't really matter because it's what you think of you that matters. Anyway,don't use eyeliner many girls wear it and i don't thnk it looks good. But if you want to use it wear brown NOT BLACK. Try and wear a light shadow. A light gold goes with any eye color. And a pale pink would look nice with your hair. Also use mascara but only on your top lashes. For your cheeks and skin start off with an oil free liquid foundation for pimples and acne spots. Then put an oil free poweder foudation (with a bronze color) on your whole face. Whoops sorry you should do you face make-up before your eyes. Then after all that your lips. Use a light pink with a tiny bit of shimmer in it. Then you're done with make-up.

For clothes try going with a scremoish indie look. That's the 'in' look and well in my opinon the most fun. Start shopping at stores like Delia's and PacSun. They have the best clothes to me. Sometimes they can be expencie so if you have an outlet center nearby go there instead of the mall. Also if you're not the skinniest person (I'm not that small either) never buy anything too tight. That will make you look bad. I hope I helped!

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Okay heres where ill start. I'm a pretty girl whos fun to be around and nice to everyone. I asked about a guy named A who was new. So him and me are always looking at each other and I can sense chemistry between and attraction. The thing is today i had straightened my hair and it was getting frizzy so I put it up and than took it down and he smiled and said I like it better down and I just giggled and aww thanx. Than my friends were like ask him out but i didnt. soo he starts talking to this pretty girl named Ceci and I was like confussed.

Does this means he likes her or does he like me or should I hang out with him or what?

And the popular tough pretty girls at my school like him so I'm scared of getting beat up too.
What do I do about that

Just because he talks to Ceci doesn;t mean he doesn't like you. Yes you should start to hang out with him and eventually ask him out. If you are afarid of getting beat up travel in packs of friends. Safty is in numbers so they won't touch you if you're in a group of people. I hope I helped!

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i REALLY need help on this 1!!! im new at this advice thingy and i want to give great advice! how do i give good/great advice????
PLZ help me!!!! *i will rate high on good answers! :)*
from,
stuck in it!

Well, always be honest. Yes, some people will rate you down but that's the best advice you can give. Tell it like it is but try not to be sarcastic because that's annoy. You really just need to tell them waht you really think the best answer is. I hope I helped!

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i would really like to become a fashion designer

ive already made some clothes... i just need a way to advertise them.. like get people to know my clothes are out there

for the school talent show i wanted to do a mini fashion show but we have a time limit... 2 minutes

if someone has any ideas please tell me!
i rate 5s!

You can have a very mini fashion show for the talent show. Bring out "models" (your friends) and have them stand there and show people the outfits and talk a little abou it. Then after the talent show you can hand out business cards so people can call you and ask for you to make stuff and such. I hope I helped!

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I'm a girl. There's this boy, we hang out. He likes me, I'm 98% sure. He was hurt during and after his last relationship for a really long time. While we hang out and cuddle and just be together we talk and he told me that he see's a future with me and it scares him. I didn't necessarily take this as a bad thing. However, the more I think about it, the more I wonder. What are all of your opinions on this?

Second part.
Also, he doesn't seem too ready to date any time soon. Then there's this guy, who I really really used to dig when I was like 15. I'm 18, now. We're friends, but I think he wants to try something more. I like this other guy, in the above paragraph, however, I don't know if I should wait for him, or see if I like this friend of mine. My gut feelings are telling me that I'm young, and should play out both fields. What are your opinions?

K Thanks.

You should play the field. However, do it the right way. Go on a date with one of them and tell them it's not anything serious. Then go on a date with the other on and tell him that. You should follow your heart after that. Yes, guy number one may not be able to commit to a relationship yet but he may be worth the wait. Try to date friendly with both of them and see which one you can really see yourself in with a long relationship. I hope I helped!

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Ok... for neone who has a clue out there-

if a guy plays with your hair, WHAT does it mean?

It means he likes you. He also thinks you're pretty. He probably would like to go out with you.

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why was the site down? well i just heard it was.

ill rate...

The serious is hosted down South, close to Louisana if not in it. I got knocked out by Hurricane Katrina

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what does it mean to hook up?

Some people think of the meaning different than the other as in:

becoming a couple

making out

having sex.

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what are some good scary movies?

Both the rings
The Exercist (sp?)
Texas Chain Saw Masicure
All Chuckie moives
White Noise
13 Ghosts
Alien

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i think i am going to go trick or treating with my friends so what is a good group costume idea?? or any good individuals if you feel like it too. funny ones, pretty ones, but not like famous ppl or common things-cheerleaders, opposite sex, devil, cat, angel, fairy, etc

thank you

You should do a group coustume from a movie.

Examples:
Wizard of Oz
Grease
Chicago
Matrix
King Aurthur (or better Monty Python and the Holy Grail)

Or go as a group of something else. like mofia workers for example.

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