im going out with this girl sort off and we love each other and has said that to each other but i dont want to feel in love i dont want to be in love with her and i dont want her to love me back i dont no why its how i feel so i told her that and she said well i cant not tell u how i feel about u because i said can we jus like not say our feelings for each other but now she wont even talk to me what should i do?
Alright, here is the deal. For the first time, I have been asked a question to which I haven't an answer. I apologize. The thing is, I've never been in love... probably nothing even remotely close to it. I haven't the tiniest clue on where to begin instructing you. :/
Seeing as how I fail to relate in the slightest bit, I asked my best friend for his assistance. His name is William. He's 19. He has an advice column: ULTRATUNAMAN (but I think he lost his password, for future reference. But, of course any questions for HIM can be sent here).
Here is what he has to say:
"well first off dude what you need to do is apologise to her for breaking her heart. and secondly think about this. this girl will someday be some guys husband. and she will someday be with someone who really does want to love her. do you want to screw up her feelings towards love because you "don't want to feel that way"? do you want to alter her perception of love just because you can't handle it and aren't mature enough for it? you've got to think here man. this girl will be in love with someone some day and that someone wants to have her, 100% of her, not a fraction, not a part all of her. so you've got to apologise and patch things up as best you can because if you let her go like that she's going to feel as though she can't be loved, as though she is undeserving, and not good enough or not pretty enough. and to stomp on a flower that has yet to even bloom is murder. do not kill off her feelings, her hopes, and her dreams. go to her, apologise, but stay firm in your stance just the same. say how you feel but at the same time be a shoulder for her to cry on cause i know chicks at that age can get pretty naieve about the issue of love and become something of an emotional wreck when it is destroyed. just lok at it like this: somewhere on this earth the girl that could be the love of your life could be being mistreated by a guy she loves too and she could be going through the same stuff. and you know as much as i do that when a guy knows a girl he cares about is hurt he'll do anything to protect her. on that same note, do not hurt a girl that some other guy could someday care for very deeply."
Anyhow, I apologize again for not being a help, myself. If you ever feel the need for a second opinion, feel free to come back. I promise you I'd try my very hardest to help you out. In the mean time, I hope you were able to find some comfort in his response. :)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
I found a website that will offer blunt answers. I think you'll find it suitable:
- http://www.dancesafe.org/documents/druginfo/speed.php
♥[?]♥ my boyfriend wants me to things (not sex) that i dont really wanna do but i want him to be happy. what should i do?
Find a happie medium. The whole point of being with someone is to better each others lives. Relationships are give and take - they're a 50-50 partnership. Each of you will need to compromise for the greater good.
So, if he should have an activity that's not to your own personal taste, (as long as it's not hurting somebody) join in, or support him (whatever the case requires). If he likes dirtbiking, go watch him dirtbike. Then the following weekend, let him go horseback riding with you, at your request.
You see, it shouldn't really matter WHAT you're doing, as long as your doing it TOGETHER. You should be appreciative just to be able to spend time with him, so enjoy what you can, and make the best of it.
I think the thing to remember is, that just as vital as it is to spend time TOGETHER, it's EQUALLY important to spend time APART. He can be a major part of your life now, but he shouldn't be your WHOLE life. I think it's definitely crucial to be able to upkeep your separate lives, if you can make sense of that? It'll keep things new, fun, and fresh. :D
♥[?]♥ Is it true that drinking a lot of milk can make boobs bigger?
Unforunately, no; sorrie. There's really nothing you can do to make your breasts bigger. They offer vitamins which promise to do this, however they are not recommend to children. How old are you anyways, Hun?? If you are a younger teenager, I don't suggest you bother worrying about this. Chances are you still have many years left to develop, and you're breasts don't stop growing until you're around 19 or so. This honestly isn't a big deal; you probably have PLENTY of time. You'll fill out, and things will be fine, I promise! :D
♥[?]♥ Ok...I always wash my face once a day. Sometimes 2 times. I can't keep the zits from coming! I need help. How do you prevent zits and blackheads!!?!?!?!
I say it's always best to use a simple acne and oil fighting product; such as:
http://www.neutrogena.com/ProductsDetails_69.asp
(which can be purhchased at Walgreens for $4.49)
follwed immediately by:
http://www.neutrogena.com/ProductsDetails_44.asp
(which can be purchased at Walgreens for $6.99)
Also, if you're willing to entertain the idea of a facial, those are awesome. Certain types target specific problems, so make sure to read the label. It's a fun, easy and CHEAP way to renew your skin. I usually get some friends together and make a night of it, but that's just me. :P If you're interested though, we keep it simple.. and use:
http://www.walgreens.com/store/product.jsp?CATID=100310&navAction=jump&navCount=0&id=prod1099072
(that one claims to spefically target oily skin, but there's many different packets produced by that company.)
So yeah, those are the products I use, and I can honestly say I have seen nothing short of fantastic results. [:
♥[?]♥ hey does anyone know what the AIM virus does? I got it and I know it sends im's to everyone else on your buddy list, but is that it? please answer a.s.a.p NeLLiE x0x
P.S. Is it also true that you have to uninstall and then reinstall AIM? thats what my friend told me...
You need a certain AIM virus detector. I have a link you can nuke it with: http://www.jayloden.com/aimfix.htm
Go there, and just click "DOWNLOAD". It's 100% FREE. It downloads in SECONDS, AND it does NOT download ANY other crap with it, ya know??
Once it's downloaded, save it to your Desktop (just so it's easy to find), and run the program. It will kick you off AIM (for about 10-14 seconds), while it scans AIM for this virus.
Once deleted, you can sign right back on. It's SPECIFICALLY an **AIM** virus detector; meant to detect EVERY one!! I've used it before, and it always fixed my problem.
Also, it wouldn't be a bad idea to pass that along to your friends, just incase they clicked it, too. :]
♥[?]♥ Can you tell me eyeliner and liquid eyeliner brands? Oh and I want to see you're opinion on what is better to use.
And is there any COLORED mascara? Like.. purple, pink, etc? If yes, what stores are they in?
When it comes to liquid eye liner or pencil eye liner, it's just a personal preference as to which we use. Certain things suit certain people. However, if you ask... chances are that most people will tell you that pencil is a better choice for them. It's a great start for a beginner who is just getting used to it. If you mess up, pencil is A WHOLE LOT easier to clean up and re-do than liquid is. Also, if you plan on carrying it around in a purse or pocket.. you risk the chance that the liquid may ruin [though I don't suggest carrying eye liner in your pocket]. If you DO mess it up, just take a tissue and slowly run it along the rim of your eye lid.. it'll come right up.
And as for products, I think the two best brands of eye liner out there are "Meryl Norman" and "Beautique". "Meryl Norman", which can only be purchased at "The Meryl Norman Cosmetic Studios", is pricey [typically $8.50 - $15.00], but it REALLY IS good stuff. It goes on wonderfully, and stays on all day! On the other hand... I happen to think that "Beautique" is INCREDIBLE!! However, I've ONLY seen "Beautique" at "Sally's". Good news though, it's only .99 cents. TRUST ME.. I would NEVER EVER EVER buy crap make up!!! I get only the best, so please, please, please, please DON'T let this dollar price throw you off - you'd be cheating yourself out of the best product out there!! I'd *PREFER* "Beautique" out of ANY other brand of eye liner on the market!! I could easily go out and buy a $15.00 pencil, but I'd RATHER get "Beautique"! "Beautique" glides on smoothly and REALLY LASTS ALLLLL DAY!!! I CAN NOT promote this item enough!! And if you still have doubts... for only .99 cents.. it's worth a shot!! [:
I'm sorrie for the long reply. I get too into these make up questions, but if you'd like further assistance, don't hesitate to ask! :D
♥[?]♥ Hey Mackenzie. It's Teza. I have a question about my birthday.
My birthday is next on the 9th and I am probablly celabrating it on a Saturday. I need ideas on where to go. I'm just going to invite like 6 of my closest friends though.
Park? Zoo? Laserquest? Go karting? Tennis? Golf? Amusement park?
Or keep it at home?? You could RENT some movies, pig out on junk food, do make overs, camp out in the backyard, go swimming [if you have a pool, that is] put on a fashion show, sing karaoke, play group games.. such as Twister and Trivia Pursuit. I know keeping it at home may SEEM lame, but honestly... the best birthday party I've EVER had was at home. There's something so theraputic about being surround by your closest friends in a familiar environment - it's totally stress free!! (That was my 15th birthday, by the way..) And it's definitely not a lame thing to do, trust me!
PLUS, you could do is make it a themed party. Such as, a mini rave [minus the drugs ;D] Or make it like a little ballroom dance kinda thing? Or how about a laua??
Also, you neglected to state a BUDGET, so I'm not EXACTLY shore what to run on here. However, since there's only six people in attendance, how about going to a resort spa for a few hours? I'm not quite shore on the price of this one, but could get your finger nails and toe nails done, get soothing facials, a tan, receive a foot and body massage and so on. I'm shore that would be GREAT fun!! Might be a bit pricey, but if you keep you number of guests to a minimum perhaps you might be able to work things out. I definitely say it's worth calling on. After all, it IS your 14th birthday!! That's a big occassion that only comes around ONCE in a LIFETIME! Just be creative, be open, put on your thinking cap and think, think, thiiiiiiink!!!! I'm shore things will turn out great!!
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ Alright, my boyfriend is turning 14 and I don't know what to get him for his birthday. We've been going out for 5 months&&& we're really serious. For my birthday he got me a necklace that's silvergold or whatever it's called and it's a heart and theres 3 little diamonds inside. What should i get him?!
HELP. any suggestions AT ALL. will help.
BIGGGGGGG TIMEEEE PLEASEEEE.
(I hope I'm not too late on this!! :x)
Well, you never mention a budget, so I'll just throw some ideas out there for ya.
If you're interested in getting him a store bought gift, try keepin' it simple. Spring for some posters, a leather jacket, nice cologne, a gift card, a nintendo system, or some DVD's.
You could always take him to a fancy dinner.
Another option... you could MAKE him dinner!! If you're up to the challenge, you could try stuffed chicken breasts with potatoes of some sort with a fresh garden salad and sundaes for dessert! Ooooh, or LASAGNA!!
And if you wanna get creative, how 'bout you just go to the park?? Bring a blanket and some music! And pack a picnic lunch, which doesn't have to be difficult. It can consist of turkey sandwiches on slice bread, grapes, watermelon, pretzels, twinkies etc. And make shore you bring a crap load of bread to feed the duckies!!
Another possible suggestion... you could always make him a poster or a photo album. You could deck it out with markers, photographs, quotes and so on.
How about making him some sort of little quilt with protective clear pockets that you can insert pictures into, and take them out to wash easily?
Just in case you were interested in preparing a meal for him, here is a page of a BUNCH of QUICK and EASY meals which can ALL be prepared in 30 minutes or LESS guaranteed!!!
This lady is my all time inspiration!!! I wouldn't suggest her if she wasn't fabulous!
*It's important to remember that it's the thought that counts with these things. Exspense doesn't measure love, so whatever you do I'm shore he'll love!! Just be creative and have fun!! :D
♥[?]♥ What is a good birthday present to give to my boyfriend?? im all out all ideas
Well, you never mention a budget, so I'll just throw some ideas out there for ya.
If you're interested in getting him a store bought gift, try keepin' it simple. Spring for some posters, a leather jacket, nice cologne, a gift card, a nintendo system, or some DVD's.
You could always take him to a fancy dinner.
Another option... you could MAKE him dinner!! If you're up to the challenge, you could try stuffed chicken breasts with potatoes of some sort with a fresh garden salad and sundaes for dessert! Ooooh, or LASAGNA!!
And if you wanna get creative, how 'bout you just go to the park?? Bring a blanket and some music! And pack a picnic lunch, which doesn't have to be difficult. It can consist of turkey sandwiches on slice bread, grapes, watermelon, pretzels, twinkies etc. And make shore you bring a crap load of bread to feed the duckies!!
Another possible suggestion... you could always make him a poster or a photo album. You could deck it out with markers, photographs, quotes and so on.
How about making him some sort of little quilt with protective clear pockets that you can insert pictures into, and take them out to wash easily?
Just in case you were interested in preparing a meal for him, here is a page of a BUNCH of QUICK and EASY meals which can ALL be prepared in 30 minutes or LESS guaranteed!!!
This lady is my all time inspiration!!! I wouldn't suggest her if she wasn't fabulous!
*It's important to remember that it's the thought that counts with these things. Exspense doesn't measure love, so whatever you do I'm shore he'll love!! Just be creative and have fun!! :D
♥[?]♥ okay i have long hair right now its almost past my boobs, haha sorry for the detail.
i want it even longer! now!
do you know any tips on how to make your hair grow faster?!
thanks xoxo brittany
Brittany, I think I'll link you up to some websites this time, if you don't mind? I think they'll provide more help than I could, on this matter. :)
Old enough to support yourself AND a child, alllll by your lonesome. :P
♥[?]♥ whats the fastest way to get rid of a white head(like a pimple)
Pop it. Wash your face as you always do. Don't touch it. (:
♥[?]♥ I just recently stoped taking the pillso that I could have a baby and today I had a strange discharge inside my vagina. It was very think and a white substance that came out in a sticky stretchy way. Please tell me what it could be and why.
Not to seem rude, but if you feel you're old enough to have a baby... I would hope you'd make sure you are properly educated on the female anatomy. I realize you're not a doctor, so perhaps you should consider paying a visit to one?
Some guesses for ya:
Could it have been ejaculant? Or, the ever popular, all-too-common, in-your-best-interest, healthy female discharge? What about a yeast infection? Unless it caused you pain or carried an overly pungent odor, I wouldn't worrie about it, quite yet.
If this becomes consistent over the next week or two, then would be the time to seek a medical opinion. (:
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ I just started a blog on xanga and I was reading your description and it said you have been on xanga for 2 years. I wanted to know how to add in stuff like music,ect. Could you help me plz? Oh, and by the way, My page is titled the boy page. I though i would use it to talk obout boy stuff.
PS:I was searching through the columnist and I found a background I liked and i asked her where she got it and she said you gave it to her.
You have good taste and you realy give good advice.
Well, thank you! :) You ARE definitely talking about XANGA, right? I just don't recall giving anyone a background, for Xanga...
And if you want help, you're going to have to be specific about your needs. I have no problem helping you, but I need to know your exact requests.
For music, though, you can find a song at one of the following:
- http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music
- http://www.xanga.com/music_galore
- http://www.xanga.com/musicurl
- http://www.xanga.com/XxAaNnGaA_MUSIC
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Beyond_Amazing_Music
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XxX_MUSIC_4_U_XxX
Once you've found a song on one of those pages, click the link to hear it. Chances are it will play on Windows Media Player. In WHICH case, simply go up to "FILES".. "PROPERTIES" and copy EVERYTHING in the "LOCATION" slot.
Then SIGN INTO Xanga.. go to your "LOOK & FEEL" page. Scroll down to the "MUSIC" section, and put it in the "MUSIC" slot.
It's a piece of cake.
Lemme know if you need additional help with anything. :)
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ Hey! You give really good advice, but i have 2 q's. 1) how do you write words in bold like in your profile, and 2) how do you do that one thing where you wrote "kelsey is my cup of tea. i reccomend her." and it went to her column
asap please
i really appreciate it!!
Thanks
1] To make your text bold, the code would be: < B >TEXT HERE< / b >, only without the empty spaces between the < and >
2] And for the links, the code is: < A HREF="WEBSITE URL HERE">YOUR TEXT HERE< / A >, only without the empty spaces between the < and >
Make sense?
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ Mackenzie! My name is Hollis, I'm 22 and I'm pregnant with a pair of twins, a boy and a girl. I went on to BabyNames and got a list of boy names and girl names. My husband really doesn't care what our children are going to be named, so the choice is up to me ;). I'm asking people's opinions on names, and I've observed that you have very strong opinions.
Here are my girl names:
Halcyon
Trinity
Juno (my younger sister is also named Juno)
Hortense
Artemis
And my boy names:
Peregrin
Fallon
If these names just aren't your style, could you at least pick one that doesn't sound as bad to you as the rest?
Thanks in advance
Hollis :)
Hiya, Hollis!! Congratulations on your two bundles of joy, first of all. :D
True, these names wouldn't be my first choice, but I can see past my own personal perference to accept them for what they truly are, no problem. :)
Of the choices you've given me, I think Trinity is a beautiful name for a female. I think Halcyon would do fine, as well. If you want my honest opinion, I don't find Artemis to be a very flattering and appealing name in the slightest. But, that's just my thought.
And of the two male names, I think either name would be a wonderful choice. While Fallon isn't too terribly common in today's society, I'd say it's definitely more known than Peregrin. When I hear Peregrin, I hear a message of strength and independence; it's just what I feel - sends strong emotion, I thought. I like it.
I definitely understand your wanting your children to have outstanding names, and I can not say as I blame you. I, too, perfer less common titles; though, I haven't put much thought into caring what the meaning behind them meant (but I also don't have children, so it doesn't matter). However, I'd say some of my favorite names would be Malaysia, Ephram, Imbruglia, Serenity, and Belbin. ;)
But I wish you luck in deciding, Hollis. [: Know that I'm here if you feel you're ever in the need for another opinion.
Take care (and update me?:)),
♥ Mackenzie ♥
♥[?]♥ besides launch.com what is another good website to listen to music for free
???
i rate 5's for good answers
You can listen to music for free at all of the following:
- http://www.xanga.com/xanga_music
- http://www.xanga.com/music_galore
- http://www.xanga.com/no_shit_just_music
- http://www.xanga.com/musicurl
- http://www.xanga.com/XxAaNnGaA_MUSIC
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Beyond_Amazing_Music
- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XxX_MUSIC_4_U_XxX
♥[?]♥ is there anything wrong with naming a guy cat snuggles?????????????????????????????????
aka. snuggle-sox
Of course not! It's an adorable name, and if it suits kitty, then Snuggles it is! :)
