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My best friend just passed away :-[. she was only 13 and she died of cystic fybrosis. i miss her soo much! we have been best friends since the day we met .. when we were 3! every night i cry myself to sleep because i miss her so much! She passed away last week. PLEASE HELP ME! what can i do to keep her with me and what can i do to make me get over the fact that im never gonna see her again!? thanks a lot ..

my mom had the same thing happen to her her best freind died three weeks ago from lung cancers and she had two sad little boys and they had one sad father what they did was they kept pictures of her and kepted her ashes from being creamated your freind will always be there in your heart i promise she loves you and wants you to be happy and not be sad keep picture of her

HOPE I HELPED YOUR FRIEND BRITTANY

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me and my parents have never got on i was kinda sexual abused by my dad (not going into detail) and my mum never did anything about it i didnt know what was going on as i was young at the time, now its 5 years later i know there was something wrong about it, i have cut my wrist many times and mum and dad know i have tryed to kill myself just endded up on a drip for days my friends and boy friends will do anything for me but i dont feel like its enough at the moment im always gettin into arguments with my dad whenever i say u hav hurt me he like denies it and says he has never touched me (which is complete bulls**t) and he knows it, i want to do anything i can to hurt him to get him abck for the times he has hurt me and all he seems to do is punish me hes really stubborn and wont listen to anything i say at all he just wants to take things away from me and i dont know what to do anymore, going into hospital and cutting my wrist didnt seem to make him think that he was the one hurting me, my mum wont listen to me and whenever i say something to her she goes off crying and my sister does the say i feel like im all allone all the time and dont knwo what to do aymore :'( when id did get a social worker they didnt believe me because my mum dad and sister lied and now i have a counseller all she does is go on my parents side and it p**ses me off!
what can i do????
btw im 14!

dont being trieing to hurt yourself when your dad is abusing you what you can do is hide a hidden camera with a tape inside of it showing what your dad does send it to one of your freinds moms and get them to send it to the law you cant stay with that kind of family any longer if you do your parents can get to the point of throwing stuff and hurting you worst dont try to kill yourself you still have a long life and if you try to follow advice you might end up in a better life with out getting hurt

hope i helped ,Brittany

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my dog is a 7 month old schnauzer, and he has been throwing up! he also has really bad hip problems. my dad keeps saying he will die really early. i am crying just typing this up. i dont want my puppie to die! does anyone have any helpful tips on how to cure throwing up? my mom said she gave him peptobismol... but he just threw up in my room so i dont know what to do! please help me fast!
i rate all fives!

awww!!!! I am so sorry what i would do is take your dog to the vet ask them if they have any medicare if they dont try giving your dog peptol bismol every night before you give it that go to yahoo and see if it is good for your dog if it says it is try giving it to your dog every night my dog that past away 3 years ago i gave him petol bismol and he seemed fine after that nothing happened while you are at the vet ask what kind of medicine is good for your dog

brittany

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I babysit every Sunday for 3 kids. 2 girls ages 5 and 7, and one boy who is 9. I bring coloring books and board games, but after a while we just run out of stuff to do!!! These kids get bored easily, and everything I own that they would like, they have used. After a while, I become bored and very tired, and so every week i am reluctant to go. What should I do, and quitting is NOT an option!

what most babysitters do is when you get sick of the kid you send them for a 2 hour nap while they are taking a nap you can sit on the couch and relax do that every day and start using that as a rutine if the kids start to wine either give them a little spanking and say it's time for a nap or put a movie inside the tv and let the kids sit down and watch it when there parents come to get them tell there parents to bring some of there bored games and use that as one of the rutines if they get sick of your game i am prtty sure they have some bord game at home or somthing they can bring to play with



hope i helped Brittany

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is there a place (in the woodlands) where you can get free or cheap babysitting classes?? plz help me

what i would do would be i would tell that lady that you are busy and recently cant babysit your kids if she asks any questions or needs any help like you said tell her to ask her son maby he can baby sit or you can say i have school tommorow and have tons of homework and i dontneed 5 kids crouding aeound me while doing it remember be nice about it

hope i helped love brittany

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are boobs really important to guys? should i be "showing some skin" to get boys to like me? girls are always talking about who they made out with at the last party..should i be doing stuff with guys to get more popular?

no because some girls are considered sluts that do that with guys. You dont have to expose your body just to be popular. it also depends on your age and if you are ready.you dont have to do somthing with a guy/girl to make other people like you. thats what i would do but that my opinion
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
~~~Brittany~~~

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I used to like this guy, and I never knew he had a girlfriend. I've liked him since December, and he's shown "signs" of liking me by staring at me and smiling. When I found out he had a girlfriend, I cried a little and thought I'd never like him again. Then, a week later on Saturday night, I talked to him on AIM. We had a lot in common, we like the same movies, show, etc. We stayed up talking until 11:30 at night, he flirted with me (kinda) and I thought the next time I'd see him he'd be comfortable to talk to me at school, but it was just like it used to be. He just would stare at me, constantly. I know his "girlfriend", and it still seems like he likes me too. He's two years older then me, and he considers me as "young". What should I do?
-Broken Hearted.
~I rate high for good answers.~

if you want him to like you like you think you have to bring the word to him boys are shy and there sign to showing they like you is staring he might have a girlfriend but he could dtill like you in some kind of way a way i would ask is writing a note write do you like me because i like you or somthing like that and maby you can bring up yalls relationship more and talking until 11:30 is another clue that he likes you listen to my advice i hoped i helped


brittany

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Yestersday I was walking into a classroom and this boy walks up and pops my bra strap then walks away real fast. What the heck?? He's a loser so I would never like him. Then later on this girl asked him "whos hotter me or Jordan (this other girl" Then he goes "Lets just say that (me) is the hottest" Whats going on???

boy always pull on girls bras straps and girls always come up and say those kind of questions because the are weird there is nothing to worrie about


hope i helped


britttany

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I get embarressed so easily! i cant help it! if something just a little bit bad happens to me i get so embarresed! are there any ways i can help this bad habbit? thanx! i rate high!

you should laugh with the people if they are laughing remember they arent laughing at you they are laughing at what you did if they arent laughing then think of a little fuuny joke to say and maby you wont feel so embareesed hope i helped brittany

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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?

I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!

Thanx!!!

welll..... the only job i can think of is going over to peoples houses and cleaning them and ask for 8 dollars a hour you can make money that way


hoped i helped brittany

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Ok I am 16/m and my father recently passed away. He was the only one taking care of me and my little sister, Sarah.(my mother diched us when Sarah was born.) Sarah is only 6 and I've been trying to take care of her and myself but it's not working. We don't have any other relatives that she can go live with and I can't keep taking care of her. My school counselor has been trying to help us anyway he can and he recommended handing her over to the state. He said that it would be easier on the both of us if I did and it would give her a chance at a better life. He said that there a lot of foster families out there who end up adopting the children that they take in. Does anyone know how the "system" works? I mean if I do give her to the state will she be safe or is she better off with me? It's really hard for me to take care of her and I don't feel like I'm a good parental figure. I have a job but it doesn't pay enough to take care of the two of us. So if anyone knows anything about the foster care system or whatever it's called please let me know. I want to make sure that it's safe for her so that I can determine what will be better for her. Thank you.

John

keep her i know it is a big responsibilitie but thats the only part of family you got when she gets to the age of 8 she will start to be mature and you wont regret giving her away if i had a little sister and somthing happened i would keep her because when yall both grow up yall can have a big relationship maby you get her to go down to peoples houses and clean it for twent buck a day then she can afford to live with you lol


hope i helped love brittany

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I am constantly insulted by my sister. Before, she would make fun of me, which I would just shrug off, but lately, its been getting to a point where I just feel like there is no point to anything. I cant even cry when she says things to me, I just shut down, and let her go on and on.

Like tonight, I walked into the living room, and she began to swear at me. She said that I am a psycho, and that she cannot wait for me to leave for school (college in the fall) because I am worthless. I have not even said anything to her at all at this point, I really don't know what I did.

What I really dont understand is how she will talk to me one night insultingly, and then the next day she wants me to go shopping with her.

I really dont understand it-if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it

dont get a bad temper with your sister but go and tell your mom and dad what she has been saying dont scream at her because you will be the one guilty if you tell you r mom or dad they can take care of it if you cant tell your mom or dad talk to you sister calmly and let her know that everything she says is hurting your feelings
hope i helped briittany

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Okay so i have this friend who i have been best friends with for 8 years. Just this year she made a new friend which I'm totally cool with but lately I've been pushed aside. She is always with this other girl and never is with me anymore. I don't know how to talk to my friend anymore. Also, she told my other friend Valerie that this other girl is more so her best friend then I am. I don't want to be jealous but i can't help being it. I've been best friends with her for 8 years and out of no where I am being replaced! What should I do

well freind ship doessnt last a life time what i would do would go and find one of your other friend sand start hanging out with her and when your freind see it she might be the one getting jealous because she knows that you dont care what she is doing she will think that you dont even want to hang out with her and maby she will start hanging out with you again i had the same thing happen to me when i went to school one of my best freinds was hanging out with another girl what i did was found another freind and started hanging out together then my best freind came up and wanted to hang out with me and now we are best freinds and still a big group she is still hanging out with her freind and i am hanging out with my freind and now were a big group and that helps and brings up your relashionship better hope i helped

brittany

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me=13/f him=13/m
my friend is trying to set me up with her friend on a blind date i have no problem with this but he is not going to like me no boys like me ???
i have no idea why boys dont like me also i cant manage to hold a relationship together for more than 2weeks help me please any advise is good advise
thanks
from w.o.o

well if you arent good with boys then cancle the blind date you wouldnt want to get to dumped and be all emberessed

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i need help because im not one of those people who fall in love easily but im afraid im starting to but the problems are is one im afraid to get hurt and 2 well i always have to fall for the ones i cant have and that hurts even more so any advice please

well i am just like you but you cant hold the fear the whole time you like some one okay when i was 12 i liked this boy and i was afraid to aks him out but all i did was get his phoine number if you are to shy you can get a freind to go up and get it for you when you get home if call him talk to him for a few minutes sit with him at linch try to be as nice as you can to him and you cant get hurt


hope i helped brittany

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This guy rlly liked me and we hung out alot and held hands at a dance i had... then he asked me out but i didnt rlly noe him soo i said no i lik u but i wanna get to noe u more!! so after the dance me and a few friends went to his house and we cuddled on the couch and we kissed!! Then i had to leave..... so when i left he asked my so called friend to sit with him and she did and they held hands and kissed, she did stuff to him too!! What am i suppose to do i still like him?? and idn why?? he keeps saying sorry too?? help please

well if you say no to going out with him he wont think you like him what i would do is i would talk to him get to know him more and start hanging out with him and maby he will get to know that you like him more maby he was hanging out with your so called freind to try to make you jealous he probally likes you and when you turn a guy down but like him and he likes you then he is gonna try to make you jealouse some how

hoped i helped Brittany

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Ok me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 about 5 weeks now. But i recently found out that his best friend likes me and i have liked his bestfriend since last year. I dont wannna hurt anyone by saying i dont wanna going out w/ so and so but idk what to do. Should i dump my boyfriend 4 his bestfriend because i have liked him longer or should i stay w/ my boyfriend and just have a big crush on my bfs best friend? I dont wanna hurt anyone!

what i would do would think to my self whos nicer to you who hangs out with you more i know it would be hard but you need to tell one of them you can write a note to his best freind saying that you like him and stuff if your boy freind gets mad then at least you will have another boy to go out with

hoped i helped (love Brittany)

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well i'm in the 8th grade and 14 years old.. this is my 2nd year at the school i am now and ive met alottt of friends, boy and girl, there is this boy is my homeroom and study hall and his name is ryan.. we've been good friends since 7th grade and we even dated for a little while during the summer.. lately i think that i started to have feelings for him and hes been giving me alot of attention.. hes always giving me hugs, writes me notes, and for example today he like rushed to get the seat behind me in study hall and he was like giving me massages and playing with my hair and taking pictures of me on his camera phone.. i really dont know if he was flirting with me or was just being friendly.. but then i was going through his cell phone today and saw text messages from this other girl that says like i love you and stuff.. i know that hes not with her cuz this other girl has a boyfriend.. but im just really confused right now.. can someone give me some advice on this situation?

I think you should flirt with the guy a LOT. That will make the other girl jealous. (if she sees you). If she has a boyfriend, then why would she like HIM? Usually and normally, when a girl likes another guy and she already has a boyfriend, she would have broken up with him but I think she might be cheating on her boyfriend or trying to anyway. If the guy doesn't like HER, than she's out of the picture! LOL. If Ryan doesn't like her, then, you really don't have anything to worry about because he won't go out with her if he doesn't really and truly "love" her like she "loves" him. If yall went out, and yall both like each other still (supposedly he likes you) then flirt with him and see if he firts back. If he does, there's love in the air!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
Email me for updates at lynessa_123@yahoo.com O.K?
Luv ya lotz!
~~~Brittany~~~

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