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embarrased!
I get embarressed so easily! i cant help it! if something just a little bit bad happens to me i get so embarresed! are there any ways i can help this bad habbit? thanx! i rate high!
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you should laugh with the people if they are laughing remember they arent laughing at you they are laughing at what you did if they arent laughing then think of a little fuuny joke to say and maby you wont feel so embareesed hope i helped brittany
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why does every one rate so high, jeez if u want an awnser, ask dont say I rate high that makes it harder to come up with an awnser!
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just relax and smile. the worst thing you could do is frown and look un happy.smiling is a way to have fun . maybe giggle to. try it
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I know exactly how you feel - I get embarrassed all the time and I always go bright red!! If you think you are getting embarrassed I was told to practice deep breathing - just breather really slowly in and out and by concentrating on that it really helps. Could you think of a question to say immediately before getting embarrassed so you can change the subject? Hope this helps a little
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always smile and laugh it off like it didn't bother you at all...that way people will be like o okay shes okay with it and they wont feel sorry for you
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Maybe you get embarrassed because you should. I think many people these days have just sort of lost the ability to be embarrassed. Maybe they need to be sometimes. I really don't know of anything you can do to make it stop. Maybe you have higher morals than the others. Not necessarily a bad thing. Don't worry about a rating... I know I didn't help much just wanted to tell you I think you are okay to be embarrassed. :)
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The reason we get embarrassed is because we care too much about what other people think. So the answer is to simply care less about what people think. Simple answer, but it doesn't mean it is simple to accomplish. Take it one step at a time. When something embarrasses you, just take a deep breath, count to ten maybe, try to laugh at yourself, etc. And when you get embarrassed think about how it will really affect you in the LONG run.
Examples:
-You trip in front of every one.
-People forget things so easily. They'll forget your little accident in no time. How will this affect your life later? It won't. And if you still remember this incident in the long run, you'll be able to laugh at yourself.
-You say a stupid answer to the teacher's question in front of everyone.
-Like I said before, people have bad memories. It doesn't affect your life later, and you'll be able to laugh at yourself, even if not everyone forgets it. Plus, you learn from your mistakes.
-You talk to a really cute guy and the back of your skirt is actually stuck in your underwear.
-If he thinks you're an idiot, that crosses off another jerk on your guy list. See? That's a good thing. And if he still likes you and thinks you're a cute dork, you've definitely scored.
See, in every situation, there's a good side. And even if there's absolutely no good side, it won't really affect you in the long run. Just think about that.
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Just dont fucking care what other people think because if you do, this little embarrassment problem will keep happening.
EmO_ChIcK
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well, maybe you care too much about what other people think... i mean people aren't like waiting for you to make a watching you and stuff... think about it reversed: would you care if those little things happened to other people? you should proly try to just go w/the flow and have a good time!!! hope i helped...
~BrIANA~
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