This guy rlly liked me and we hung out alot and held hands at a dance i had... then he asked me out but i didnt rlly noe him soo i said no i lik u but i wanna get to noe u more!! so after the dance me and a few friends went to his house and we cuddled on the couch and we kissed!! Then i had to leave..... so when i left he asked my so called friend to sit with him and she did and they held hands and kissed, she did stuff to him too!! What am i suppose to do i still like him?? and idn why?? he keeps saying sorry too?? help please
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? brittany_x31 answered Thursday May 26 2005, 3:28 pm: well if you say no to going out with him he wont think you like him what i would do is i would talk to him get to know him more and start hanging out with him and maby he will get to know that you like him more maby he was hanging out with your so called freind to try to make you jealous he probally likes you and when you turn a guy down but like him and he likes you then he is gonna try to make you jealouse some how
zapreth answered Thursday May 26 2005, 3:25 pm: He's a guy. Your friend is easy. These two facts are obvious. You hurt his ego and she literally stroked it. I'd say go out with him and give him a chance. The whole POINT of going on a date is to get to know someone, so your reason for turning him down made you seem uninterested and a liar. Then you kissed him. How many mixed signals is a guy suppose to deal with in one night without doing something a little stupid? I think he did what any living person much less a male would do after they'd been played with like that. He didn't do anything wrong in my opinion. Also that he is still interested in you is a miricle. I'd have dumped your confusing ass and looked for someone else. Go for him. [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
PrInCeSs_ask answered Thursday May 26 2005, 3:20 pm: i say forget him . if you want to get to kno him more that is fine. but going with your "so called" friend that's un-called for. saying sorry is help. but to kiss your friend in front of you is sumthign a cheating guy dose. [ PrInCeSs_ask's advice column | Ask PrInCeSs_ask A Question ]
Michele answered Thursday May 26 2005, 2:59 pm: He has already shown you that he thinks about no one but himself. I can't believe he did that to you and you still like him. why not say, hey just come over here and use me, because I am not worth being treated with respect. This boy, (and most young boys are the same) is only interested in having sex, getting aroused, and using girls who are willing to "cuddle". The girls are thinking "oh, I think I am falling in love" the boyis thinking. "I wonder how I can get in her pants". It is a fact of life. Take you time and be careful. You were right to say that you want to get to know him better, that was good. And now you do. he is a creep. with only one thing on his mind. So don't go there. Unless you want to be hurt more than you are now.
IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Thursday May 26 2005, 2:49 pm: well i think you should forget about him! he cant be that sorry if he just went and did it, especially if you had only just left. i mean if he really liked you then you should have been the only thing on his mind and how much he wished you could have stayed. and if he would do that to you with your so called friend then he wont think twice about doing it with someone you dont know. your best bet is to leave him well alone. you will soon find someone that's right for you and isnt goin to do that! forget him! hes isnt worth it!
hpoe i helped! [ IveGotPinkJazzShoes's advice column | Ask IveGotPinkJazzShoes A Question ]
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