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i really really like this guy, so how do i get him to ask me out??
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Ack, one way NOT to do it:
Sit on AIM and tell him over and over that you know he's got something to ask you.
I have a friend who did that ^ to one of my good guy friends, and he was ... more than confused and uncomfortable because he didn't want to ask her out, and she wanted him to. Don't do that - it's funny for me now, but I wasn't the one being put on the spot nor was I the one who was rejected.
Drop hints. If he doesn't know you like him, tell him. Don't go all romantic on him, that'll scare him off. Don't go tell him you love him the moment you tell him you like him as more than a friend either. That's scary, too. Just tell him that you like him. On AIM, E-mail, in person, on the phone - whatever works. Start hanging out with him. Go to the movies with him and some friends, (or just him!) go mini-golfing, go to a park, an amusement park, some gardens, the beach (if you live near one) etc, etc. Just hang out. If he likes you back, then he'll probably ask you out. If he doesn't like you back, just hang out with him. Maybe he'll like you more after he's gotten to know you better.
-FunnyCide
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you can't really get a guy to ask you out, but if you tell him you like him, then that's giving him a hint that you are available! if he likes you and knows you like him, there's a possiblity that he may ask you out! just don't hide how you are feeling or make him think you don't like him(don't play hard to get, guys hate that).
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well boys are stupid! lol! they dont take subtle hints so we have to work especially hard to get them to notice us. he need to feel comfortable around you before he is even oging to think about doing anything. so make an effort to go up and talk to him, start simple. smile at him when u pass him and say hi wen you see him and look pleased to see him. be interested in ehat he has to say and dont forget to flirt as much as you can (but not over the top because you dont want to throw yourself at him) REMEMBER smile and give him lots of eye contact!
hope this helped!
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get to kno each other alot. let out your feelings to him if your havin a bad day. let him feel really special. and make sure that he makes you feel special too. BUT ONE THING ! you can't make other people ask you to go out. i wish the world was like that but it just isn't.but getting together alot helps. grabbing a drink or a lunch date or the movies will get you a little closer. take it from there and it will be almost time!
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Talk to the guy you like. Flirt with him. Or if you are a more daring kind of girl, ask him yourself. Some guys just can't tell when a girl likes them. Get to know him if you don't already, and one day ask him or slip him a note.
Good LUck,
~*Tiffany*~
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Hold him hostage
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