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OUTCAST?!?!


Question Posted Thursday May 26 2005, 2:40 pm

Ok so today I found out thta otmmorw someone in my class is planning to havea boy girl party! I wasnt invited. It not thta im a geek or w/e becasue there is only 20 ppl in my class!like 9 ppl werent invited!


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Additional info, added Thursday May 26 2005, 2:48 pm:
ALSO RIGHT IN FRNT OF MY THEY ASKED MY FRINED. .

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dreamingkat answered Thursday May 26 2005, 3:23 pm:
While it was rude to ask your friend in front of you, the person having the party probably couldn't invite everyone he or she wanted to invite. Half the class wasn't invited to this particular party.

It's normal to feel a little envious when your friends get to do something fun and you don't (for any reason), but don't let it ruin your friendship with them.

It also sounds like your school is divided into groups - with the popular kids and the geeks (and probably a few other groups). If you are concerned that one group is worse to be in than the other, maybe you should see if you (or your parents, or a teacher) can help the groups get along better. It happen a lot, but there is no real reason for anyone to be an outcast. It doesn't have to be like that. If you can help your school become a friendlier place for everyone, neither yourself nor anyone else will have to worry about being an outcast. Then not being invited to a particular party will turn into having an evening to do something else, not a cause for anxiety.

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OrangeChikn answered Thursday May 26 2005, 2:51 pm:
That's really rude of them. But is that person even your friend? Or do you just want to go because everyone else is? If you do really want to go, confront them. I'm sure that they'll either:

A)Explain their reasons. Maybe they can't have 20 people over

or

B)Invite you.

Good luck,

~*Tiffany*~

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PrInCeSs_ask answered Thursday May 26 2005, 2:46 pm:
don't ever think that you are a outcast! i am having a boy gurl party (monday) if you wanna come! lol. but maybe she/he had a limite to ppl she coulg invite. just you are tottaly not an outcast.

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