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i need help because im not one of those people who fall in love easily but im afraid im starting to but the problems are is one im afraid to get hurt and 2 well i always have to fall for the ones i cant have and that hurts even more so any advice please
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Being in love sucks at your age. I remember. Kids are so fickle. BOys and girls change their minds all the time. There is NO WAY to get involved with some one at your age, and not end up with a broken heart. But if you wait until you are older. Boys mature, and girls mature, and both see the benefits of long term relationships. Young kids just want to say they belong to someone, and that he/she is cute. It is much different when you are 18 or older. Thats no guarantee that you won't get hurt, but that seems to be the time that young men and women really take the time to get to know each other, to see if there is a possibility for a long long long term relationship. There is not much chance of that now. These boys don't even know who to get a job, never mind take care of someone, or suppor them, so they are only thinking of one thing. It is NORMAL for their age. But it will change. But you'll save yourself a lot of heart ache if you wait.
Michele
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well i am just like you but you cant hold the fear the whole time you like some one okay when i was 12 i liked this boy and i was afraid to aks him out but all i did was get his phoine number if you are to shy you can get a freind to go up and get it for you when you get home if call him talk to him for a few minutes sit with him at linch try to be as nice as you can to him and you cant get hurt
hope i helped brittany
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well first of all everybodies fafraid of getting hurt. noby likes it. all you cn do is just take the plunge and go for it because you never know you might pass on the one person who is right for you because you were too scared. just go for it. broken hearts heal even if it doesnt feel like it at then time! and as for your second point anyone can have anyone. i know what you mean though, theres always this one person who you really like but you think that they are well out of your legue and so you forget about them. i used to feel the exact same way as you, but fairytale ending do happen. because that one guy asked me out and i took the chance. so you can have anyone you want! believe me! dont sell yourself short, be confident and just go for it!
hope i helped!
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Well you might think you cant have them but Im shure you can. First off, dont tell yourself you cant have them. You are you and if they dont like you for that its there problem. But some ways you can try to get their attention it to try new things. do your hair diffrent. put on a little blush and sparkling lip gloss. you know stuff thy might notice. But dont try to act diffrent or dress to dirrfent because then they'll thinkk your easy and it will be obvuious. Try hanging and getting to know them more to see if its whatyour really intrested in.
About love, its not really a thing you can fall in and out of. like you can love your boyfriend today but not tomorrow. thats not love. love is a passion when you know that you want to stay with that persin. So I wouldnt call your situations love. But no matter what you will always end up getting hurt one way or another so your going to just have to let it go and try to move on. Dont think about getting hurt think about all the fun to look foward to. Well I really hope I helped
Bianca
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Yeah, I always like the ones I can't have either. Be realistic. Don't become so obsessed with one person that you can't even think about anything else. That will minimize your hurt.
~*Tiffany*~
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be friends first and get to know them well. enough to kno how they think and feel for you. if it sounds good go ahead and fall in love .
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