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hi could you help me think of a screen name

i would like it to be something like a street name

like juicystreet
or phunkavenue

something like that

thanks!
lexi from maryland

Well are you talking about your street names? Cause since your from Maryland, I would have no idea what those would be so just IM me at MELii x MARiiE with more street names but with the two you just showed me it could be:


PHUNK x AVENUE
xx PHUNK AVENUE
xox PHUNK AVENUE
PHUNK AV3NU3 x

JUiiCY x STREET
JUICY/JUiiCY STREET x
JUICY xox STREET
xox JUICY STREET xox
JUiiCY x STR33T

..there's just millions of ways you can switch around the x's or you can add some o's.

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Quick recap-in love with a best friend of 5 years and want ot go farther than just friends. i have been very forward and recently i confirmed his suspicion that i like him (didn't say love-don't want to freak him out). after that, he started avoiding me. other friends have talked to him and say he likes me, but he doesn't act it. I am not shy at all so asking him out isn't a problem, but i don't want to if he is thourghly not interested. if i can't be his girlfriend, i want to at least be his friend again. what should i do? we are both 15.

You just need to talk with him and be honest. Just pull him off somewhere where you two can privately talk and ask him whats up. Just tell him you've been hearing from people that he has feelings for you and you want to know if that's true but also add that if he says know, you'll be fine with it. That no matter what answer he gives you, you still want to remain friends in the end cause you'd hate for this to ruin your guys's friendship. If he does say that he's not interested, then just be like," Alright then. Can we at least be friends?" At first I might be a little awkward, but if you just keep the conversation going between you two and don't think about the past, then you can become friends again. This has happened to me before ( except we broke up ) but we ended up friends and it's like we never even dated. I hope I helped =]






Love,
MELii

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So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???

Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.

Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside.

You shouldn't even be threatening them about calling the police. You should have already done it by now! Do you know how serious this could become? You need to tell the police what's going on and get them put behind bars. If not bars, at least charged for harassment ( so then maybe the'll get scared and back off ) and have a restraining order put against them. The quicker, the better. Immediatley tell your parents what's going onand have them call the police. And report ALL of them. Not just the guitar teacher. Him and his perverted friends. =/ I hope I helped.





Love,
MELii

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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?

Well he might like you.. he just doesn't want to go with anyone at the moment. He might like being single for awhile and like have no girlfriend, and doesn't want to get one anytime soon. And also, just because he called you hot and flirted with you.. doesn't mean he likes you. Girls always misinterpret that signal. Like I said, he could like you.. just doesn't want a relationship. OR he could just be a huge flirter ( which wouldn't be great to date anyways. Huge flirters are basically known to cheat =/ ) I hope I helped.





Love,
MELii

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kinda of very weird question ever asked---- seriously is there any way to judge whether a female had sex earlier in her part of life or not? jus by looking at her....? No offense...jus info

No there really is no way to tell. People think by looking at peopel they can, but they really can't. Like girls that dress slutty. People instantly assume they've had sex millions of times, and they might have not actually. They might have not even done anything yet. But just be looking at her? Well, if she's walking out of a room a guy and her walked in together and she has a goofy smile on and her hair really messed up and she's all sweaty.. then yes she had sex. Or him and her exercised, possibly.

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well i go with a dude and he brought me a 100$ pair of earings,and i brouht him a 150$ 24 k bracelet and he let a girl wear it and she broke it on pupose what do i do.

Well first of all .. you should be asking him why he even let another girl wear the braclet in the first place, and then I'd either have him go talk to her or you go talk to her and have her pay you the money you spent on it. "You break it, you buy it". And then obviously you should know not to buy him something like that again and something expensive like that if he's just gonna have another girl wear it and break it. =/ I hope I helped.





Love,
MELii

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I got a g/f! Thanx 4 all ur support everyone! :D
But, 2 more questions, how do I keep her? How can I make her happy?

To make her happy and to keep her. Just be yourself and be loyal to her. She obviously likes you for you because otherwise she wouldn't be going out with you. So just be yourself and treat her nicely and just be sweet. Every now and then tell her you love her and just hug her, hold her hand. Be a gentleman =] There really is no way to "make her happy" like I mean, all the time. There might be some fights or some upsetting here and there.. but what relationship doesn't have that? ( who knows? Your guys's might be perfect I hope it is =] ) but if you get through those, then you'll know you both want to make it work and everything. =] But just be yourself and that'll make her happy =] I hope I helped!






Love,
MELii

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do oyu even know who loves you?

Are you talking about the last question thing that said like," I love you " or whatever? Then..no because they didn't leave a name..?

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I would just like to find out how my daughter and boyfriend can get help regarding there son (10months) getting injured at Nursery, burnt by boiling water on his hand and top part on arm(wrist).

This has caused a great deal of inconvienience to them taking time of work and travelling to the hospital to change dressing every 2nd day. This has also caused stress on my grandson and my daughter?

Well first of all I would seriously consider hiring a lawyer and talk about sueing the hospital for some money to pay for the hospital bills and for the care for his injuries and such. Why the heck would they put boiling water near a baby?! I would also suggest to your grandson and daughter to possibly take a little vacation somewhere. Just to go somewhere to get tehir mind off of it and to relax and let the stress go down a bit. Or maybe you could possibly find someone else to watch the baby for you. I'm sorry this has happened and I hope your daughter and the baby and the boyfriend all feel better soon.

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I've been going out with my guy for 8 months. My mom likes him, but she's about the only one. The teachers at school all hate him because he's a little too goofy sometimes. They a seriously very hard on him for any little thing, but not with anyone else. Our classmates don't seem to like him either. He hangs with the boys but they aren't real friends. They're actually pretty cruel. My cousin, who is my best friend, doesn't like him either and she's never even met him. We talked on 3-way though. I get so made at her because she calls him ugly. How supportive of my "best friend". I don't know what my dad thinks. He's never met him but he hears a lot of what I tell mom about him. I think he just doesn't like me having a boyfriend. Anyway, sorry this is long. My point is, why doesn't anyone like my boyfriend? He's a really awesome person and we have so much in common. I love him so much but I feel like nobody else cares at all. It's depressing.

Really, who cares what other people think? They have their opnion of him, and you have yours. If he makes you happy and you want to be with him, that's all that really matters is your happiness. And your friends and family should respect that. Tell them and let them know that all the comments their making about him is hurting your feeling and you don't appreciate it and they should just be happy for you and if they could please keep their comments to themselves, cause their comments aren't helping. If anything, they are only making everything worse. They should try to get to know your boyfriend a little more. Especially the ones that have never even really met him. Prove them all wrong and show them what a great guy he is. Maybe invite him over to your house for a dinner sometime to meet the family. I hope I helped!






Love,
MELii

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Hey! Me and my ex boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 1 month ago. And since then I have moved on to sometime else that is wayy better for me. But I feel like something is holding me back from loving him. Could this be because I sill am not over my ex boyfriend? What should I do?? Thanks for the advice

Well I can see why you might still have feelings for him. You dated a guy for two years, and then after all that time, it's over? Of course there's still going to be some emotional attachment to him and your going to miss him because you are so used to seeing him and talking to him and everything. You may never fully get over him. Sometimes its really hard for people to get over long relatioships like that. But you have to try. Just stick with this guy and see what happens. After awhile you may find yourself thinking of your ex less and your current someone more. But after time if you find yourself still constantly thinking of your ex and you really miss him, break it off with your current someone. It's no fair to him, and obviously you don't have as strong of feelings for him and you shouldn't be with someone if you don't like them as much. I hope I helped.





Love,
MELii

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I need some good websites to find myspace layouts!!!! mines boring right now.. thanks for the help

xoxo**

Here are some sites:

www.whateverlife.com
-this site has some really cute designs. The layout I currently have that I'm in love with it I got here.

http://groups.myspace.com/awesomelayoutsbykt
-This girls layouts ARE awseome. I love them so much. I've gotten some really really cute ones here in my time. =]



I hope I helped!





Love,
MELii

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Why is it that everyone focuses on the sex of a relationship before a relationship has even started, why do people judge each other on looks rather than personality?

I honestly can't tell you why people put sex before an actual relationship. I guess that it's because of the fact that sex feels good and people love it. And that's all they want. They want a no-ties sex relationship and that's all. People don't tend to be in relationships cause hten they figure," sex with only one person?" and then they realize that that's not what they want at all. =/ I find it sad. And for looks, of course everyone judges on looks. People are always thinking," Well I don't want to be with an ugly person? How is that going to make me look?" And all they care is about themselves. I find personality is the best thign to look out for. It's just sadly alot of people out here in the world are so wrapped up in themselves and their own lives that they hardly care about others. =/ Just don't be like one of those people. I hope I helped.





Love,
MELii

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okay i like this guy and he has a girlfriend we talk every night & day and im pretty sure he likes me too. we kind of mess around all the time and i just want to know what i should do i mean i've told him im not going to mess around with him until he brakes up with his girlfriend and he said he would but he hasnt what should i do?

Well obviously stop messing around with him. That's not fair to you, and that's totally no fair to his girlfriend. You don't want to be the cheatee, do you? =/ Just let him know where you stand. Tell him," Look, I'm not messing around with you until you break up with your girlfriend. This is competley not fair to her." But even if he did break up with his girlfriend, I'd suggest you two never even start to date. A guy who you helped cheat on his girlfriends, just going to have some girl help him cheat on you the very next week probably. No good will come of it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. ( Unless theres the rare occasion of that special guy who will end his ways.. but highly unlikely ). So no good will come of this. So he should break up with his girlfriend and never date you either. He doesn't deserve either of you. I might even suggest telling his girlfriend whats going on. She should know about it. Just IM her or something someday ( well find out her screename and everything first ) and be like," I'm sorry I hate to break this on you but your boyfriend's cheating on you.. with me. Well he was, I ended it with him, and so should you. I'm incredibly sorry that this is happened and I hope you can forgive me." Or something like that. I hope I helped.






Love,
MELii

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I have a friend who asked me out last night. I like him, but I wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship so I told him. I thought about it for a while... and concluded that I'd like to go out with. Only, I'm not sure if the offer still stands.

I'm kind of shy, and I'd like to approach him. He's not shy, but I think he was shy about asking me out. We were on the phone and he asked me out over the internet. I overheard him telling his friend "So I asked Karen (me) out, and guess what she said. She said she doesn't know if she wants a relationship." and when he said that it made me realize that I'd like to give him a relationship a chance because I really like him.

How should I go about bringing up the subject of going together back up? I'd really like for him to ask me again, is there anyway I can like hint around?

Well first of all. There really is no point to hinting, it is basically a huge waste of time where in the end, the guy never even understands that you were hinting to him in the first place so by the time that's over.. you could have probably gotten to the point like, 10 times. Anyways, just go up to him and be like," Hey I thought about your offer the other day and I was just wondering if it's still open..because I thought about it alot and I really like you and I would love to go out with you." Or something like that. Guys also love it whenever girls are like that.. shows confidence. And plus, you BOTH can't be the shy ones, otherwise you two'll just be sitting there too shy to do anything. Whenever he said the thing about asking you out, he just might have meant that in a " oh man she said she needs to think about it.. whats she gonna say?" kind of way. He just might have been showing that he was worried you were going to say no and reject him. I hope I helped.






Love,
MELii

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f/15

what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help

Well you should try and give your new boyfriend a shot. I mean you obviously like him, and who knows.. once you get to know him you could like him even more than you like your ex. Just give him a chance and let him show you the boyfriend he can be, but if you find it's not working out or you still really want to be with your ex-boyfriend, then I'd suggest breaking up with him because that's not fair to him and you shouldn't be with someone that you don't really want to be with - esepcially if you have stronger feelings for someone else. So first, give your new boyfriend a shot and see what happens. I wouldn't tell your ex because then he'll think you don't like him and he might never ask you out then =/ just don't flirt with him or do anything with him. Just be friends until he is ready for a relationship. And then wehnever he is, you gotta decide and listen to your heart. New boyfriend, or old boyfriend? I hope I helped.






Love,
MELii

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Hey can any1 tell me what beer pong is?
thanks!

It's just a drinking game. What you do is you have a bunch of cups filled with alcohol on each side of the tables, and the objective is to hit hte ball into one of the cups. If you were to hit the pong into your oponnents cup, he'd have to drink the alcohol. If your opponent hit the pong into your cup, you'd have to drink the alcohol. I hope I helped!






Love,
MELii

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Why do girls help a guy cheat on his current girlfriend, then date him after they break up? They've already proven that this guy is totally willing to cheat, so do they actually think he wont do the same to them? Are girls really that stupid?

Yes, sadly some girls can sometimes be that stupid. They're so wrapped in the guy they're just thinking,"well once he ends it with his girlfriend me and him can finally be together." Yet sadly a week later, there is probably another girl thinking the same thing about you. =/ They just think that the guys going to change suddenly and end his ways once he starts dating them, but sadly it hardly ever works. =/ Theres a few guys other there that realize they love a girl and stop, but rarely. =/ Once a cheater, always a cheater. Well unleast until they grow up. And sadly, growns ups sometimes do it too. I hope I helped.






Love,
MELii

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Remember the question about the boy in the car wreck? That's my boyfriend. He was in a wreck two weeks ago today and is stuck on the couch watching tv all day because he's got a few cracked bones.He should be totally better in a month. Here's my question.

I dont want to sound selfish.

I do everything I can for him. I buy him Sonic and cigarettes every couple days. I bake him cookies and make him fudge. I bring him a PS2 and movies and games and my iPod. I spend hours sitting on his couch with him watching poker and Family Guy and Everybody Loves Raymond because he says he enjoys my company.

All I'm asking for is "I love you" or maybe a kiss or a hug or something that was his idea instead of mine, or maybe a phone call once in a while.

I didn't have this problem before his wreck. This leads me to believe that I'm just being extremely selfish.

I don't mean to be though. I just need to be reminded that I matter to him. That's all.

I feel forgotten about. He doesn't call, I have to. He doesn't say "I love you" first. I have to.

What should I do? If I talk to him, what should I say? I'll give you a 5 for a serious attempt.

Well like you said he was in a car wreck, and he still might be a little shooken up about it and not to talkative. It's just something that happened in his life that's going to be distracting him and be on his mind for awhile and it's going to change him for a bit. But hopefully whenever he's healed, he'll be back to himself. If he's still the same afterwards, I'd ask him why he's become so different. I'm sure he really appreciates everything you are doing for him, he's just shook up a little by the accident. He also might be wanting to see how much you love him, you know? Like," what if i were to die in that car crash? How much would she have loved me?" ( you know what I mean ) so maybe he's just trying to see how much you exactly love him and everything. Like I said, see what happens after he heals and if he doesn't change, talk to him about it and ask him if anythings bothering him. I hope I helped, and I hope your boyfriend feels better soon =]






Love,
MELii

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i think this guy is cute but im afraid to tell him bbecause im scared he wont talk to me im really afraid of rejection so what should i do should i tell the guy or keep to my self.

Well first I might want to try and get to know him. And you shouldn't be nervous about that, cause if your ready to tell him you like him, I think you'd be ready to talk to him. Just get to know him awhile and let him get to know you better and let him see if he develops feelings for you at all. And then after awhile I'd tell him then. So then he can see how he feels about you and where you guys stand and everything. Cause even if you two weren't two date, you could still be friends and that'd be better than nothing, huh? =] Just whenever you tell him be like," Hey I need to tell you something I've been wanting to tell you for awhile now. I like you.. alot. I don't know how you feel back but I just needed to tell you and please don't let this make everything awkward between us. I would not want to ruin the relationship we currently have over this if you do not feel the same." But if you already talk to him and everything, then sure tell him =] I mean, nothing ventured, nothing gained. You'll never know what'll happened =] I hope i helped!






Love,
MELii

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