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what should i do if im still in love wiht my ex-boyfriend and he likes me too but he doesnt really want a girlfrined right now and i want a boyfriend right now and there's this guy i kinda like and he asked me out and i said yes all i can think about is my ex but we dont talk that much anymore maybe once a week he doesnt know about my new boyfriend! my ex go's to a differnet school too so its kinda hard to talk to each other but we still like each other! i dont know if i should stay wiht my new boyfriend or what! please help
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This happens to everyone. It depends on who dumped who. If you dumped him, I would forget about him but if he dumped you, its OK to think about him. Hope I helped!
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Well you should try and give your new boyfriend a shot. I mean you obviously like him, and who knows.. once you get to know him you could like him even more than you like your ex. Just give him a chance and let him show you the boyfriend he can be, but if you find it's not working out or you still really want to be with your ex-boyfriend, then I'd suggest breaking up with him because that's not fair to him and you shouldn't be with someone that you don't really want to be with - esepcially if you have stronger feelings for someone else. So first, give your new boyfriend a shot and see what happens. I wouldn't tell your ex because then he'll think you don't like him and he might never ask you out then =/ just don't flirt with him or do anything with him. Just be friends until he is ready for a relationship. And then wehnever he is, you gotta decide and listen to your heart. New boyfriend, or old boyfriend? I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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You should go back to English class and learn what a run-on sentence is.
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This sounds way to familiar lol. uhm no you may like each other because well you love him right. so there will always always be that feeling there but remember why yall broke up and just remember that things can never go back to the way things were when yall were first together. but if your happy with your boyfriend then deff. stay with him. if not, then its to early for you to be dating. give it some time, get all your flirting, partying stage over with and settle back down.
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woahhh that sounds really familliar to a situation i was in and all i have to say is donnnt go to the ex boyfriend... if he doesnt want to have a girlfriend right now but he says he likes you thats just leading to trouble it means he does like you, but he still wants to hook up with other girls also. the best way is to move on.. you liek your new boyfriend right? give it sometime then soon youll forget about your ex and everything will work o ut
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i tink its pretty unfair to stay with your current boyfriend now if you have no feelings for him..even if u still want a boyfriend just to have one, its not right to him. Plus, if this other guy goes to another school and you don't talk all that much it might be kind of hard to get with him unles you really wanna start talking to him al ot a nd trying it again..altouhg it seems like he's just not interested at hte moment. So to sum it all up, stay with the bf if you have feelings, but if not end it.
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Dear Undesicided,
Listen I know what your going through all of my friends have had this happen to them before too!!! Listen what I think you should do is just be with your boyfriend it's good to just move on. First of all think about why you two broke up in the first place? Then tell yourself all the pros and cons of getting back together like yeah you like him but he's not ready for a girlfriend maybe you still like him but you should move on and let him move on. Maybe he doesn't want a girlfriend right now, maybe he just needs a friend? You should keep your boyfriend if your that crazy about him but if you have mixed feelings right now, break up with your boyfriend because your not being fair to him by saying your like him one minute but then thinking of your boyfriend the next. You should just let both of you move on!!!
much love and good luck,
bubblesamin
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