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it's basically grinding.




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MELii

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone if you're not attracted to them pysically?
I have feelings for an older man (he's 45 and I'm 26). He isn't very good looking, he is overweight and has grey hair.
He is really nice to me though and we get along and have a lot in common.
Most younger guys that are cute don't make me feel the way he does.
Should I go for him or just stay with guys that are closer to my age?

I don't think it really matters if theres an age difference. I mean some people happen to come across someone they really like ( possibly love ) and they're happy with, so who cares if they're ___ years older? If they make you happy and you want to be with them, then I say be with him. He probably has the maturity and knowledge that some people your age might lack. I think it's great that you've found someone =] And it is possible to be in love with someone if you're not attracted to them pyshically. Whenever someone's attracted to someone physichally, that's not really love. That's basically lust. But whenever you love being with them and they make you happy and they're just amazing then that's love. I mean of course you need psyhical love too, but I think emotional rules over. I wish you the best of luck and I hope I helped.







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MELii

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is it ok if i dont know why i like the guy i like? i mean ok i know i like him but i dont have a clue why hes not hott and yea i guess hes kinda cute hes just average boring guy not really boring but you know what i mean just kinda there and i like him and i dont have a clue why i do! any ideas why i may like him and is it bad that i dont have a clue why i do? thankx

Its not bad at all that you don't know why you like a guy. Really sometimes its just theres something about that person and it attracts you to them and you start to like them. Like the saying "Love at first sight" not saying your in love, just saying people can just look at eachother and notice theres like interesting person and they're attracted to them. Try adn get to know him adn see why you like him. He might be really sweet and nice =]



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MELii

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Okay...I went out with this guy(lets call him Corey)and we always had so much fun with eachother. We were always laughing together and i thought we were perfect but out of nowhere he dumps me because I went on vacation. I cant help it my phone wasnt working from thousands of miles away!! lol Anyway, that week he goes out with this other girl, who hates me (for no reason) and they go out the whole summer. I couldnt wait for the school year to start because then I would have him all to myself. (they were going to seperate highschools!!)Now, We have like 4 classes together and we flirt ALL the time. I got him and his girlfriend to break up, and i thought he would be all mine. He told me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me. BUT, this really good friend of mine, Tiffany comes out of absolutely nowhere and steals him from me!! She starts to like him and now they are going out!! She stole him and now she thinks she is soo cool because she has my boyfriend!! OMG!! I cant take it anymore. I cant watch them be together while I try to hide my feelings. What do i Do? Should i confront her and tell her everything or keep it to myself?

I don't think you should confront her about anythng because if you do,it's only going to cause awkwardness and possibly fighting =/ and it's not like she's going to dump him cause you told her that. If anything, she'll just flaunt it more because she'll be like," Heh my boyfriends hot, I have the guy you like" you know? So it'd be best to avoid confrontation and keep everything to yourself. And then wehnever those two break up, go and make a move on him. Maybe ask him out so then you two can start dating =] I hope I helped!





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MELii

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i love you i cant deny it. i love you i love you i love you!!!!!!!! :-P

hehe ill see you in school tomorrow. bibi

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Hey I asked you the question about my boyfriend and the whole living away from him and not seeing him. Thanks for the answer you gave me it made me realize that our relationship is worth saving. And that he is worth waiting to be with even if it isnt very often. Thanks so much you give good advice :) IM me sometime on AIM if you want DizzyMizzLizzie8 or FoolintheRain :)

Aw thanks so much! =] Yes some guys are definetley worth waiting for, aren't they? =] I'm so glad that I helped you and if you ever need any other help again, just feel free to IM me at MELii x MARiiE or leave me it at my inbox =] Or just freely IM me. I'd love to talk to you =]





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MELii

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Me and my friends have been friends for 10 years (3 boys 3 girls) and one of my friends has a crush on me, i like him to but i do not want to rewin are friendship, i like him and he likes me but my other friends think it would be a bad idea if we started dating so they do what ever they can to keep us apart, i'm to scared to go out on a date with him, just incase i screwup the friendship of 6 friendship...what should i do?:(

I can see why you don't want to take the chance of getting your friendship ruined, but don't you wanna take the chance to see if you could get a relationship started? And even if you and him were to break up, you can always still remain friends. Thats what I did with my one ex. We've stayed friends, and now it's like we never even dated. There was no awkwardness or anything. But just think. You guys have been friends for 10 years now. That means you guys have a pretty strong relationship and I'm sure you two are not going to let it stop if you two break up. It sounds to me like you two could get through any possible bumps you ever might have =] And just explain to your friends how you like him and everything. If they were your friends, they'd understand and want you to be happy =D and besides.. at least ONE date wouldn't hurt. =] I hope I helped.





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MELii

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So I have this friend whose a guy. (I'm a girl btw). I was going out with this amazing guy for about 3 months. Well I thought he was ohh so amazing until I figured out how he acts towards other people. And things went bad and we were over. So my friend is really cool and he was always telling me about this mystery girl who he was obsessed with like I was always thinking he would make a great boyfriend for whoever she was. Then the other night he told me that girl was me. And then I kinda got freaked out and thinking about im. I mean he would be a great boyfriend and he's cute and funny. But I just don't know what I want to do right now.. stay single or go out with him.. I'm afraid if I decide to go out with him it'll ast a long time... umm I need help!

Well already by seeing you say " I'm afraid that if I decide to go out with him it'll last a long time"... that already shows that you don't like him at all ( well at least not like that ) because you don't even want to have a long relationship with him. I would just tell him that you don't want to have that kind of relationship with him, just a friendship. Only go out with him if you want to and you want it to last long. I hope I helped.




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MELii

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I seriously have no idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. I want it to be something really personal. Please, any ideas would be appreciated. Here are some of his favorite things:
Movie-Donnie Darko
the Boston Red Sox
poker
Author-Kurt Vonnegut..and reading in general. He reads a ton.
Music- Iron and Wine, Max Richter, The Smiths, Bright Eyes, ect. . . soft, pretty, folksy-type music

Well if you want to make it something really personal, then theres nothing better than a homemade present =] it comes straight from the heart and it shows how much you care about him and that you were thinking about him =D a cute idea would be to make a photo album maybe and put pictures of you and him in there and write down little memories you guys have had together and write a message maybe on the inside cover that says maybe something like," I love you so much and I hope you have an amazing christmas. I can't wait to fill these pages up with more memories

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Is Lindsay Lohan going with Talan, from Laguna Beach?

um.. i haven't heard anything about that, and you know news people. the minute it happens, the minute its out on press, so.. but it is possible i guess. I doubt it though.

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whne is the right age to start wearing makeup??

well there really is no "right age", but the usual age every girl starts to wear makeup is 12-13. Usually 13 though. That's whenever I started wearing makeup.




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MELii

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My boyfriend got into a pretty bad car wreck about ten days ago. He's at home on the couch with 3 cracked vertebrae and a cracked pelvis. He's in a lot of pain and he's getting really sick of just sitting on the couch all day. I buy him food and cigarettes, sit and chill with him, and I've let him borrow my PS2 and some other stuff...but he's really getting bummed that he can't move that much. What can I do to make him feel better?

try renting some moves ( his favorites ) and watching them. Another good thing would be having all of his friends come over sometime and just chill out with him =] I hope I helped.



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MELii

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i cant find any thing on how to get back with my guastiond becaause i cant please im me at ktwsexistar or rockmysox1329 please ur friend or something of it,,,,, klesey

i would if you'd get your butt online, lol.

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well thanx you answere that reel quick if you wud like to talk to me otherwise you can im me at rockmysox1329 or ktwsexistar thank bunches but im stil afraid to tell her !!!! but thanx well toodles by the way my name is kelsey

Haha yeah I answer all my questions really quick cause I'm usually on all the time cause I have nothing else to do, lol. =] I'd love to talk sometime =] MELii x MARiiE. Remember if you wanna talk anymore about any problems or anything, always just come to my site or IM me =] Like I said, I'm always on. And my names Melanie =]




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MELii

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Hey Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 weeks, and i know it seems early to be having these questions in my mind but I do. He seems to like me an awful lot and I really like him too. The thing is he's kinda clingy and I want to see him and be with him too don't get me wrong, but it seems like hes too clingy for only knowing him for a little while. Another dillema is that he lives about an hour away from me so I usually only see him on the weekends, if that. He calls most every night and I talk to him on AIM alot. It's just hard not seeing him very often. Also we have some things in common but sometimes we have nothing to talk about at all and it gets kind of awkward. I dont know maybe i'm just over thinking the whole situation. On the good end of it all he does make my heart beat a hundred miles an hour and I often find myself staring off and just thinking about him. I really care about him alot. It's just i'm not sure if it's worth staying with someone that we have almost nothing in common with. PLEASE HELP ME!
sighned, Not Sure I am female and 14

Well just because you don't have a million things in common with him, doesn't mean you should break up with him or anything. Haven't you ever heard the saying," opposites attract"? And there IS one thing you do have in common: you both care for eachother alot, and that's enough to keep a relationship going. Yes, I know long distance relationships are hard, but if you last through it, it only shows how more dedicated and commited you are to make everything work out. =] My boyfriend lives more than your boyfriend does and I couldn't be happier. You just need to plan more things with him. Try hanging out with him on the weekends more and everything. Cause even though you hardly see eachother, wehnever you do.. it can be great and you can have an awseome time =] Yeah about the silent awkward moments.. what conversation doesn't have some? You just need to think of some things. Ask him how his day was, whats he doing, what is he thinking about, talk about movies, animals, just anything that comes to mind. This also helps you discover more possible things in common. Whenever my boyfriend and I talk on the phone, wehnever we mention something we're doing we can just make a good long conversation out of that sometimes =] I know its hard, but you gotta try =] I hope I helped.





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MELii

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well i have an x boyfriend we went out for 3 years and then we went out off and on and then 1 time he made me cry and then my friend made me promise that i wasnt going to go out with him again and i didnt but the last week he told me he liked me again and now i love him i want to go out with him but i want to keep my other friends friendship and she not the kinda friend who wud understand but she is a true friend but that dosent make sense lol!! plese help me i cant stand his smiling at me ani longer!!!

I would just talk to your friend about it. Just be like," Look, I know I promised, but he likes me again and I really really like him and I really wanna go out with him." OR something like that. Because also if she is the true friend you say she is, then she will want you to be happy and everything. I hope I helped.





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MELii

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what should i do? so here's my situation.. i like this guy named joe. he went out with one of my friends, i mean she's my friend but shes not like my best friend or anything. well they just broke up in septemberish, but they're still hecka close, they're still best friends. anyways, i always thought he was hecka sweet and cute but like i could never like him because he liked his girlfriend so much, but now that like they know they dont like eachother and hes single i can like him. anyways we hung out on friday we went to the mall with two of our friends, one a girl and one a boy, but he was being all flirty with me and stuff so i was just like okay but then like the more i talked to him and stuff the more i realize how perfect he is. then later we went to our other friends house and we were watching movies but we were hecka tired and he layed next to me so we were like spooning and he put his arm around me and fell asleep on me. he also always tells me how pretty i am and all this stuff. and like he goes out of his way to bring me into a conversation. i don't know what to do. do u think he likes me or what? and if he does should i even try to go out with him? i dont want to tlak to his ex girlfriend jsut yet. i'm not going to say anythign to anyone yet. i mean if i find out he likes me, then i'll do something, but i was jsut dwondering if he does what should i do? do you think my friend would be hurt even though they broke up mutually and they're still best friends? i dont know so my two questions are.. do you think he likes me? and if so, what should i do about it?
17/f by the way

I definetley think he likes you. It sounds like he likes you ALOT which is awseome! No guy would do that stuff if they didn't like the girl =] I think its good that your not telling anyone yet so then no word gets out to the ex-girlfriend incase she might get upset. I'd give her some time for her to calm down and get over this whole thing also, and then I'd try to talk to her. Just ask her if it's alright if you could go out with him and everything and just talk to her about that and get that out of the clear so there's no lurking jealous ex in the background or anything. And then after that, I think you should totally ask him out =] It sounds like you two like eachother alot =D I hope I helped.






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MELii

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(15/f)Well my life is really hectic right now. Some things have happened recently that are really stressful for me...well i just havent been myself lately && my boyfriend has noticed it. Things arent the same like they used to be. Dont get me wrong i love him a lot but idk if i can handle a relationship anymore. All we do is fight now, and im just always moody now and he deserves way better than me. With everything going i just cant handle the whole bg/gf stress. Yes ive tried talking about it to him but he doesnt get it... I told him we were over last night (that was deff. the hardest thing ive ever done)...its just horrible that i had to do that because its like now all i feel is like sh**.. First i was just like "I have to do this" and now i feel like I need him more than anything. Weve been dating for 7 months, and its like i just blew it. He told me that if i did this that he was never gonna take me back && i did it, so i lost him :(. Idk what to do im so confused. And i cant take a break because those things never work out and besides he said he wont take me back anyway. Hes online right now and he nor I have imed each other. he was really hurt when i told him and he was seriously about to cry :(. Now all i can do it cry because i feel like such a low-life loser. I do love him but its just difficult, really really difficult...If anyone can help me out with this i would really appreciate it..xox

I would just IM him and explain to him everything you just said to me. About how everything's just really stressful for you at the moment and you guys are always fighting, and you don't want to do that to him anymore and tell him that you love him so much, but just don't want to make him go through that and you'd though it'd be best to end it, as much as it hurt you. Just let all your feelings out and try and possibly be friends with him. Cause he'll always be there whenever you need him then, but he won't be there in the boyfriend sense. You need to IM him and try talking to him. I hope I helped.






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MELii

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my friend wants to leave her house because she is being verbalyand phycicaly abuses what are the consencunces if she leaves with the polices

Some of the consequences are that your friend might not see her parents for a long long time, and she'll probably put into a foster home unless she has somewhere else to stay ( with grandparents, friends, somewhere ) before she turns them in, she must plan everything out. What she wants to take all with her and when she's going to do it and everything. But she needs to do it soon. The quicker, the better. Those are really the only consequences I can think of. Other than that, I'm sure your friend will live a happier life since her abusive parents will be out of her life. =] I hope I helped, and good luck to your friend.






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MELii

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i think i'm bi. i'm turned on by girls very much, && i always think about making out with them, && i get SO turned on if i see girls make out on TV or other things. i flirt with my friends alot, but they don't think of it as more then a joke. && i'm starting to like this other by girl that i'm friends with. but i have a boyfriend. how do i tell him/my friends. i've always denied that i'd be anything but straight. && i'm afraid i'd loose them. && it would be so random to tell them :\, any advice?

Well my friend actually just recently told me their bi also, and nobody cared at all. We were all just sitting there at lunch and they went," I'm bi" and we all were just like," alright " and we just talked like it never happened ( he also has a girlfriend and she didn't care whenever she found out he was bi either ). I mean if you do lose your friends over that, then obviously they're not very good friends to begin with. Friends stick by friends no matter what. And you just need to be honest with your boyfriend just let him know. It'd be best to be by face, but if you get too nervous a note could always work or over the phone. But about the girl that you like, is she straight? If she is, then I'd suggest not telling her. It'd only cause awkwardness and everything =/ but if she's bi also or something, then tell her you like her =] I hope I helped..






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