Question Posted Thursday November 17 2005, 7:40 pm
i think this guy is cute but im afraid to tell him bbecause im scared he wont talk to me im really afraid of rejection so what should i do should i tell the guy or keep to my self.
helpingbuddy01 answered Sunday November 20 2005, 6:47 pm: flirt with him a lot, and then get your friend to tell him... thats what i would do... if he doesnt talk to you after he finds out, it prolly means he likes you too... [ helpingbuddy01's advice column | Ask helpingbuddy01 A Question ]
xOx_BRUN3TT3_xOx answered Friday November 18 2005, 9:46 pm: try finding out who he likes and if he likes you then tell him !!
samanthaxx answered Friday November 18 2005, 7:29 pm: I think you should SO tell him. If you like him then he is probably pretty nice. If he does ignore you than he isn't worth your time so it will help you move on! But who knows he could end up feeling the same way. But maybe first, you should hang out with him a little, just so he isn't overwhelmed :)
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday November 18 2005, 8:49 am: Maybe just walk up to him and ay you look nice today.. Sayin he`s cute kinda sounds like he looks like a stuff bear or a puppy.. You aren`t going to get rejected if he don`t compliment you back don`t take it worng.. Just say it and walk away like nothing.. play it cool.. ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
sillyrob answered Thursday November 17 2005, 11:31 pm: Are you so nervous that you stuttered while typing? Anyways, just talk to him. Not doing it is way worse than doing it and failing. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
sunnyville answered Thursday November 17 2005, 10:07 pm: If I were you I would keep it to myself let the guy be the one to tell you he likes you.Some guys just make the girl think he likes her just so she could fall for him like other girls,and just want every girl to like them which is pretty sad.Others just may want only friendship or just flirt,and nothing else.I know this guy who is a player,has a heart of a rock,I see girls who are friends,like this same boy,and he really is disgusting,thinks he's all that but frankly he is just pathetic,and needs to get a life instead of playing around with girls,they know they like the same guy,play with him not like friends but more than that if you know what I mean,he, and those girls aren't even worth it.As I was saying tell a friend or someone you're cool with to ask him if he likes you.If he shows signs he likes you talk to him,and become friends with him first then you'll see how thing go from there. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
hco_babe answered Thursday November 17 2005, 9:54 pm: tell him!! if he wont talk to you, hes a dick and hes not worth your time. that is really rude! there are better guys out there. hopefully he wont stop talking to you though, and the two of you can get together sometime.
MELiixMARiiE answered Thursday November 17 2005, 9:41 pm: Well first I might want to try and get to know him. And you shouldn't be nervous about that, cause if your ready to tell him you like him, I think you'd be ready to talk to him. Just get to know him awhile and let him get to know you better and let him see if he develops feelings for you at all. And then after awhile I'd tell him then. So then he can see how he feels about you and where you guys stand and everything. Cause even if you two weren't two date, you could still be friends and that'd be better than nothing, huh? =] Just whenever you tell him be like," Hey I need to tell you something I've been wanting to tell you for awhile now. I like you.. alot. I don't know how you feel back but I just needed to tell you and please don't let this make everything awkward between us. I would not want to ruin the relationship we currently have over this if you do not feel the same." But if you already talk to him and everything, then sure tell him =] I mean, nothing ventured, nothing gained. You'll never know what'll happened =] I hope i helped!
bubblesamin answered Thursday November 17 2005, 9:37 pm: Dear Afraid,
I think since your way afraid of being rejected you should have your friends talk to his friends and have them ask if he likes you then if he does go for it girl!!!! But if he doesn't remember your young there will always be someone else!!!
queenhearts answered Thursday November 17 2005, 9:14 pm: Tell him you like him. If you don't then you won't ever know if he likes you too. Don't be scared if he won't talk to you. Sometimes the idea of having someone like you..scares them so they try to avoid it. If he doesn't like you, then you'll find someone better. Just be nice around him and act like nothings happened if you tell him. If you don't want to yet. Try being friends with him! Get to know him...go to a movie together and bring friends! Flirt with him and then he'll get the hint. Don't be afraid of rejection though. You will miss out if you're afraid. If you take a risk, something good might come out of it. Rememberrrr, even if he doesn't feel the same way...there's somebody out there that will! [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
Teza answered Thursday November 17 2005, 9:07 pm: Do you just want to tell him he's cute or ask him out? If you just tell him he's cute, he will still talk to you. I mean why wouldn't he? It's a compliment and people love those. If you want to ask him out, I say you should get to know him better and talk to him more. I mean I don't think he will reject you if you guys flirt and talk a lot and he gets to know you more. There is no need to keep it to yourself. Guys love hearing they're cute or hot. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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