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The name's Emily.
First off- thanks for actually reading this!
I love to give advice
I will always try to anwser your questions.
But try to not to rite lk dis
I know my favorite topics says "Love life, nutrition, and friendship", but I'm intrested in tons of stuff. ASK!
I don't care about rating..so be warned...I'm not necessarily always going to give you the anwser that you want to hear. But I do want to help you!
And I would tell you more, but that's not whats important here: let me help you!

peace.

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im 13/f. I really like this kid. We went out before but we broke up because he thought we need to take a break. Its the summer and I still can not get my mind off of him. I told him how I felt but he blew it off like he didn't care. What should I do to try to get over him?

Ok, if you're srue he isn't intrested anymore, then you should not keep trying, that just scares guys off. If you are just natural and cool around him then he'd be less threatend and more likely to become more intrested again.

However...you're much too valuable to just wait around for some loser to like you again. So here are some tips on getting over him.

Stay active. Make plans with your friends and have fun! If you are busy and distracted then you will think about him less, and eventually get over him.

You should also keep in mind that there are more fish in the sea. I'm not saying go out and get a new boyfriend just for the heck of it, but notice other guys. It will help you to remember that's he's not the center of the universe.

If you still can't get over him, then remember this: You are thirteen. I don't feel like middle school relationships are all that special. You will have plenty of oppurtunity to date other people. xoxo!

Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only.

Girls (unless they are very shy) love feeling like she's the only person you notice in the room. In that, there's plenty of ways to let her know you like her. Just show a lot of intrest! Talk to her whenever possible and mabe ask her if she wants to do something outside of school. Then you would be able to ask her out withought her being surrounded by friends.

As for flirting/body language. Well, like I said above, show a lot of intrest in her. Tell her she looks pretty....kinda lean in when you talk to her. It doesn't take much.

Most girls I know (including myself) find it fustrating when a guy isn't straightforward. It's so annoying to know a guy likes you but is too chicken to ask you out! You should be honest and tell her that you think she's all those things that you used to describe her in your question! Why beat around the bush?

Oh, and by the way, I'm glad you don't like asking people out through your friends..it's lame..never do it!! good luck! hope I helped!

What do u think about onions? Tomatoes? liver? Pickles? Cottage Cheese? mushrooms? Celery? and last but not least olives?

I think that you have too much time on you're hands. However, I do hate pickles, mushrooms and olives

there is this guy i just CANNOT get out of my head
he has called me a few times in the past days and now he is all i can think about
but he dosn't live near me he lives like 2 hurs away and every time i think of him i can't help but smile and i get butterflys every time i talk to him on the phone
its just so hard to have him so far away when i want him to be right next to me
what can i do to get him out of my head until i can see him????
ohh and by the way....i absolutly adore you you are one of my bestest friends and i love you more than my right hand!

Well if he likes you and doesn't have a girlfriend then i'd say keep up the phone calls so you can stay friends when you're not around each other.

But you don't need focus about him all the time. Try to keep yourself busy, active and having fun so you aren't always missing him. Btw, it's not a good idea to explain every thought that happens to go through your head about this guy to your friends..they will get bored. LoL

And I absolutly adore you and love you more than my right AND left hang!!!!

I am 14/f and i'm 5'6" I hate being tall so much. I'm going to grow more and i bet I'll end up like really tall. I don't really knwo for sure, but to me most of the pretty people are short. i am so self concious about it!! I wish i could be 5'4" and stay that way for ever. I think about it every day and it makes me really sad. How can i get over this. i'll rate high

Honey I am 13 and 5'11" so I don't wanna hear it!! haha just kidding!

Ok well i used to always hate being tall...but I realized it has atvantages

1) It's eaiser for tall people to be heavy but not look fat

2) Long legs are a GOOD thing

3) People always ask you if you're going to be a model (even though I woulden't..it's nice!)

4) you can see over things

5) You can reach things

Well i hope you get the idea, because I could go on forever.

Also, I know it's annoying when people say, "Oh my gosh! You're so tall!" but eventually they will catch up with you and you won't stand out.

So, if I haven't made you feel any better and you still want to be short...this I hope this is a comfort...you sound really short to me!!!

xoxo

Hey. Well, for anyone who lives in Maryland or has been there before, what do you guys think of Maryland because I live there, and I was wondering how other people (especially those in others states) feel about it. Like do they think it's fun or boring. Also, could you also tell me that people from other states say about Maryland?

well I've visited there and I LOVED Tyson's Corner!!!

how do you know if you're a true christian? i mean, i believe in God and that Jesus died for our sins and i go to church and pray every night, but i also lie frequently and stuff, and sometimes i feel like, intimidated by God?idk,its weird. but sometimes i get scared about like, revalation and stuff and i feel like theres a chance i wont go to heaven, even though i deffinetly believe in God and im not sure if i'm really a christian. can someone help ?
thanks

You sound just like me...and I'm a strong christian as well. Honestly, God understands that we are not perfect and only human and expects us to act as such. If you defiently believe in God, you're good! You have a problem when you're not trying to be a good person at all. The fact that you feel a little guilt is a good sign..even though there's not a reason too.

i want to loose some weight in my thighs, waist, and butt what are some things i could do to do that?
thanks for the help..

much love*

one word..pilaties

Here is the deal.. Lately I've been thinking alot about if god is real or not.. I don't know if I should believe it.. I mostly think that life was created by mostly scientific reasons.. The bible could really be made up from along long time ago..Nobody really knows right? Has anybody ever been touched by god? If I do not believe in god what would I be?

Look, I'm a strong Christian and sometimes I am skpetical about God..it's a lot to try to understand. But I think God could have created all the scientific reasons that started the world. Does that make sense? In the Bible they say that it took seven days for God to make the earth..but what's seven days to God? He could have..created evolution! Ah..it's confusing!

I guess you'd be an atheist if you don't believe in God..

Before you make an informed decision, I'd suggest attending church for a while (if you don't already) talk to a strong christian you know...or read the bible.

Also, I would defiantly say I've been touched by God. I'm not sure how to describe that..I pray and I get anwsers!

ok so sunday the 14th im going to nashville shores (tennesse waterpark) for my friends 14th birthday party. It's a guy, girl party and everyones wearing a bikini including me. But the thing is i my thighs are huge. The bottom part of my swim suit is like a regular bikni bottom. i was thinking of wearing shorts to the waterpark and stuff but im pretty sure you cant wear the shorts on slides and i doubt anyone else would. i dont know waht to do!! im stuck is ther anything i can do>?

Ok, I'll start with this tidbit: EVERYONE thinks their thighs are big. I'm sure you'd look fine in what you're planning to wear, however, if you're uncomfortable:

You can get some board shorts to wear over your bottoms, I've done that at a waterpark and it worked out great! They're made to be worn in the water, and I saw plenty of other people wearing them.

Or if you're uncomfortable about wearing a bikini cut, then you could try just some more modest bottoms like these below..they still look cute with a bikini top!

http://www.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1246&itemID=45542&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=

hope I helped!

Anyone have any sweet ideas for Mothers Day? I did something really great last year and now i need something better..but i have no idea as to what could be better. if anyone can help i'll appreciate it.

Uh...my mom really likes Talbots. I got her something from there last year. And yes, flowers are good. Does she drink tea or coffee? Mabye you could get her her favorite or a fun new tea and a really pretty teacup or mug. Movies are good too. Hope I helped!

I have very oily hair. Thing is I wash it everyday, so I don't know why this is happening. Anybody have any ideas or ideas of products I can use to reduce the grease. Thx in advance & I promise to rate.

Actuallly, you should try washing it less. Try only washing it every other day and brush you're hair a lot.

i know its more than one question - but its all the same topic so i just put it on one.. sorry.

1) if i reject a question - does it go to be public?
2) if i ask a public question [ like this ] - is their like a maximum number of answers?
3) is their a maximum number of favorite columnists you can have?

if you can answer all 3 - automatic 5.

no, no, no

Okay, so it's almost summer time and I would like to look good in a bikini. I'm 14 years old and about 4"10. But I'm not sure which exercises to do. What exercises should I do for:

Thighs?
Stomach?
Love Handles?
Upper Arms?
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Calves?

Running is defiantly the easiest way to lose weight or just get more fit. However, it's good to balance things out. I'd alternate running with going to your local gym and doing weight machines. If you're not sure what you're doing when you get there then ask someone who works there or take a friend who works out with you.

Also, the exercise pilates is a wonderful way to get fit. it really tightens your thighs, stomach hips and calves! I use it and it's amazing. What i love about it is when i finish, I feel MORE energized, not worn out. I would suggest the tape Pilates for Dummies..it's wonderful! (but it still would be good to alternate this with those exercises above.)

is there anyway to take off waterproof mascasa without having make-up remover?

dumb question, but i made a mistake without reading it was water-proof. lol.

No, there isn't. Well, there might be a way but it's really not good for your skin to not use a makeup remover if you wear makeup. But if you only wear mascara and want an easy way to remove it, then get something like clinque's eye makeup remover. And mabye baby oil would work for you, but there's not a way to remove it withought SOME kind of help.

Hi, I'm 14 and female. Just wondered if any of you could help me out:
One of my guy friends is kind of obsessed about his body and weight. He is somewhat short, 5'3", and weighs 150lbs.. I don't think that he looks fat; yet he is convinced that he is. He wants to lose weight to impress a girl in one of our classes. I've tried to tell him that he doesn't need to worry about his weight, and he looks fine, but he is stubborn and won't stop talking about it. He says he doesn't eat anything for breakfast anymore and he has cut back on a lot of food. I'm really worried that he might start starving himself or end up becoming annorexic. I suggested that he ask his doctor what kind of fitness plan(s) he should try, and he says, "no, they'll just tell me to excersize,".

Should I back off? Should I help him? How do I help him? What should I do?

Thanks, I'll rate you with a comment or two if you post!

Is he KIDDING? If he's not willing to exercise then he's not willing to loose weight. Cutting back on food alone won't do anything! And you should tell him so. Defientaly don't ignore it. If he's trying to impress a girl then tell him stuff like, "You're just going to be skinny with no muscle and she'll be grossed out!" (Which by the way, is true) If he refuses to listen to you, and starts acting unhealthfuly, then tell someone. Not eating is NOT the way to go.

I would like to know how to stop my boyfriend from always grabbing me in the wrong places?

I would tell him to stop.

If he keeps doing it then he's a jerk who's not respecting you the way you deserve.

I have crush on this really cute boy named Dan.I've heard rumors that he likes me.I want us to be together but I don't want to tell him that I like him.What should I do?Oh,and I'm 14 and I'm obviously a girl.I'm from Singapore.

Don't use a middleman!!!! It makes guys uncomfortable when you start sending messengers asking him out and such. Either ask him if he likes you straight out, or if you're too shy for that then make sure you stay good friends with him and don't make him freak out. If he really likes you then he'll ask you out when he sees he's comfortable around you.

how can i gain wait? im 15/f i have a fast matabolism and i cant seem to gain weight past 100. my mom said that if i dont gain weight than she is going to take me to the hospital for crazy people....no offence ok.....and i dont know what to do....i dont even know what foods fatten people up....can you help me? my mom is mean. lol. just because im skinny and shes not doesnt mean that she has to be mean to me.....so does anyone now any fattening foods

Well If you're trying to gain weight, eat a lot, but don't let it be too unhealthy. Don't start eating burgers 3 times a day to look healthy, because you really won't be. Just keep eating normal meals and snacks. As long as you're not starving yourself, it's not your fault!

ok i keep getting these emails from Chase saying my chase bank account has been violated...the only problem is I dont have a chase bank account. Im not even old enough to have a bank account! IM 13! I suspect phishing becuase I got like 6 emails from them at the same time once saying someone tried to acsess my account, and then the first one I got from them saying my account has been violated, they spelled "been" wrong. I have yahoo, and i flagged all the emails I got. What else can I do? I have gotten a phishing email before, from someone claiming to be from eBay. ♥♥&heart;s

Ignore them, they're just trying to get you to respond and give away real information. Is there a way for you to block certian emails? Oh and tell you're internet provider.

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