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i need help with my boyfriend
I would like to know how to stop my boyfriend from always grabbing me in the wrong places?
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I would tell him to stop.
If he keeps doing it then he's a jerk who's not respecting you the way you deserve.
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just tell him to stop! its your body, not his. he make think he can control you becuase your his girlfriend, but he seriously has no right to touch you. tell him ou feel uncomfortable and really dont like it. say it in a mad tone, not like your joking it around.
alwayss.
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Well just tell him not to grab you in the wrong places say you don`t fell confurtable!
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Tell him to stop grabbing you in the wrong places.
Don't say it like you are playing. Say it in a serious tone so he will know that you are serious.
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well you should be more specific. Is he grabbing you innappropriatly? like you feel uncomfortable when he does or is he grabbing you in places that doesnt make you feel horney??
if he makes you feel uncomfortable: Then tell him straight up the four letter word guys hate to hear.. STOP. easy as that and if he keeps doing it say it again. and if he still doesnt stop.. smack him accross the face.!!! and if he keeps doing it break up with him. Please dont fall into a trap that you feel the need not to tell him NO because you want him to like u.
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just be honest with him && tell him to STOP! that you dont lyke it && that its not right. just sometimes guys dont get the hint espically if they are teenagers!! hope that helps.
~XoXoXo~
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Tell him firmly to stop. Or if you're not good with communication, kick him in the privates every time he does it - he'll get the hint!
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Start hanging out in different places! Hehe just kidding. Seriously though, the other columnists are right, you have to talk to him. I am not sure how old you are, but if you are teenagers, he probably is a bit clueless as to what is ok and what isnt. To make matters more confusing, some girls think something is acceptable while other girls find it insulting.
When you talk to him, its important that you dont "attack" him, so to speak. Dont put him on the defensive and make him feel guilty, or he might become stubborn or argumentative. Just sit him down and gently explain what you feel uncomfortable with.
If it continues make sure he understands that you consider his actions a sign that he does not respect you. It should be clear to him that you will not continue the relationship in this way.
Anyways, good luck.
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Explain to him that you are uncomfortable with being touched in those places. It's important that you tell him as soon as possible so that you can stop feeling uncomfortable.
Remember, if he doesn't stop, he's just being perverted and you need to get rid of him.
-TheTeenGirl
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He needs to learn to respect you when you say NO.
If he doesn't slap the crap out of him.
If he doesn't respect you enough to listen then you really need to reconsider the relationship. :)
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