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Hi, my name is Angela. I'd like to think I'm a friendly person and I've had my share of experiences and knowledge.
My friends tell me I'm great at giving them advice (most of the time) and I like to have fun while I'm at it.
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does anybody know where i can buy some of that new fantacy perfume? b/c i smelled it the other day and it smelled really really good and i want some... thanks ill rate high!
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Well where did you get a sample? That place might be doing a promotion meaning if you buy the perfume you get a ton of free goodies. I'm not sure if Saks or Neimans has it but I'm sure somewhere like Nordstroms has it.
my boobs are just so big.. they just dont fit in my a cup anymore.. my bras too big.. what do i do..
Uh hopefully you won't need a breast reduction for a B cup ;)
It looks like you're growing out of your A cup and into a B cup (obviously). I would try going to Victoria Secrets and try on a bra in the Body by Victoria section. Be sure to ask for help for a perfect fit. I like Body by V because their bras offer a comfortable mold (yes, mold) and it offers great support. You won't have to feel like you're busting balls just by putting on a bra. Of course if that doesn't work out for ya, you can always switch to a B. Keep that in mind next time you got lingerie shopping.
To figure out your true frame and bra size follow the instructions below:
1. Use a measuring tape (inches) and measure your back right below your breasts.
2. Add 5 inches to that number, that is your frame size. If its an odd number, round it up to the next even one.
3. Now use the measuring tape and measure your breasts. Pull the tape around your back and across the front around your breasts. Now subtract that number from your frame size. If you are 0-1 you are an A, 2 you're a B 3 you're a C 4 your a D and so forth. This should clear things up about your bra size.
do any of u do dog agility???? jw, i do and it's great.
I've always wanted to but never bothered to find out about it and now my puppy's old, cranky, and overweight. :P We're getting a new cooton soon and we're hoping to get him in some shows. I've never seen a cooton do an agility course though, lol.
I truly love him but he's too high maintence. How do I just tell him easily but can we still be friends?
Some boys just want a Louis Vuitton leash and chew on it too. That is a no no.
Just playing, I assume by high maintenance the boy needs constant reminder that you still love him unconditionally which gets on your nerves, understandably. Since you've already made your decision that it just won't work out, you need to let him know why it's not going to work if you haven't already. If you did try and fix the problem and let him know already, then just go right ahead and drop the bomb.. in person.
There's no easy way to put an end to it but it'll stop trouble from arising out of it if you tell him out of the bottom of your heart. This means honesty, straight-to-the-point, and the verdict. If he tries to cut in or defend himself just let him know you want to finish what you're saying. Remember, you need to make sure that he foresees this coming and your reasons why because the shock of it can quickly turn to anger and that always leaves a scar. Of course break ups are never easy and there is always a chance for reconciliations and friendships. You shouldn't do this though, if it'll just end up hurting you and/or him more.
13/f
(sorry this is really long)
Yesterday I went to Cedar Point with one of my really good friends for her birthday. She introduced me to one of her guy friends, let's call him Fred. So at Cedar Point there was Me, my good friend named Emily, Fred, TK and two other people. Well..Emily said that Fred told her that he really likes me. There may have been some signs..but I'm not sure like exactly how guys flirt. So..Since it was Halloweekends at Cedar Point we went through lots of haunted houses. a.)Fred always let me hold on to his arm and he held onto mine when we went through them.
b.) As humiliating as it may seem, I tried running from this freaky guy and I tripped and fell (lmao) and people started laughing. Fred told everyone to stop laughing and like stood up for me.
c.) Fred rode on every single ride with me. (Until yesterday I had never gone on a rollercoaster and he kept insisting that I go on every ride with him.)
Are these signs?? Because when people ask if he likes me he doesn't deny it..and Emily said that he wanted to ask me to be his girlfriend. It's not that I don't trust Emily or anything it's just that..y'know..friends mess around with you like that!
Any help is greatly appriciated =]
From what I observed, it seems that your friend Fred is interested in pursuing a close relationship with you. What gives it away is the haunted house. Even if haunted houses are ritual with your friends, he comes along and uses it as an excuse to physically contact with you. Basically he's strapping on the white knight in shining armor big time and is probably counting the points he's scored with you. He goes on to defend you with his big, strong words and takes you on an adrenaline pumped afternoon with him. It's good that you spotted these flags going up everywhere. There is a possibility that Fred is just a nice guy but it looks like his actions were earnest. Freddy's worth pursuing anyhoo, even if he wasn't looking for a cat at the other end of that tail ;)
You know when you link sn's? How does it all work... Like i have a new sn so i linked it.. But how can i make a pro for it because it always ends up going back to my other sn! and how can i put up good away messages and stuff?!! IM SO CONFUSED...:( lol
To change the profile of a linked Sn, you'll have to sign onto your linked screen name. If you go to My Preferences, it has a secton called away messages on the bar to your left. Click on it and adjust. :)
How much do tanning salons cost to go?? Thanks!!
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=Juicygirl&t=&skip=20
About halfway down, it gives you whatever you need to know about tanning. If you need more info, let me know.
Can anyone recommend a good type of shampoo and conditioner? Like the company, and which kind to get?
I love Kate Spade :)
Has anyone every used the ab swing? Does it work? How does it work? Please help me asap.
Did some research for ya ;)
http://www.nbc4.com/doesitreallydothatarchive/2846533/detail.html
is there anyway to amke your butt get bigger???
This website should explain it in a nutshell. http://exercise.about.com/cs/butthipsthighs/f/buildingbuns.htm
Basically it's genetics and it can't be changed. I've heard about jeans coming with butt pads though ;)
i babysit one 5 year old girl and one 7 year old boy every tuesday, and i dont know what to do with them. they only can watch tv or play video games for a total of 1 hour and 30 minits. the girl always wants to play barbies or computer games with me and i can tell the boy gets kind of bored. could someone help me come up with some crafts or games i can play with both of them? thanx i rate high
I'm glad you noticed the boy is feeling a left out and want to address the problem fast. Here is a website filled with ideas: http://www.kidsturncentral.com/crafts/jenicraftindex.htm
The ones I'm finding good are fancy dinnerware, peanut people, nature bracelet, and pie plate tambourine. The others are a bit too messy or inappropriate for a 5-7 year old (either too elaborate or too many uses of the stove or scissors which the kids are bound to want to help).
Another idea is giving each kid 3-5 different colored crayons and asking them to draw whatever they want, but they can only use the crayons given to them.
www.amazingmoms.com also offers great ideas. Go to the K-5 section and the Quick and Easy section for great ideas.
Remember that going outside is important to their physical development. Give em a ball and play along, making sure they're both included. Here are some adorable outdoor games I've found: http://childparenting.about.com/cs/kidsgames/a/gamesindex.htm
You might want to get the parental ok (and any supplies you need) before you get started on these activities. Remember activities that seem dangerous or too hard for them to understand, you're probably right. There are plenty of activities to choose from. Have fun ;)
If your vagina isn't used to a lot of things wouldn't it be common sense if it got irrated, like from toooooooooo much perfume, soap and things like that?
Perfume!? Don't use antiperspirants, deodorant tampons, and powders with talc or perfumes or other feminine hygiene ingredients, because it can be irritating. When using soap, use an gentle, unscented soap around and near your vagina but not inside as it will cause painful irritation and itchiness, making it worse.
If you have an unpleasant odor coming from the crotch area, there could be several causes: bacterial vaginosis, trichomonas vaginalis (vaginal infection), yeast overgrowths, and more. You should get a physical exam to check for any problems, and if there are any residing, you treat it instead of hiding it under perfume. ;)
EDIT: sillyrob has a good point, but just because it isn't a person doesn't mean it needs to be bathed regularly. ;)
13/m sorry its so long
there is this girl danielle that i really like and have liked for a while i thought i was over her for a few months then some kids at school said some guy hit her and i got so mad that i faugt him but its more then that i faught him got arrested broke a cars mirror of and dented the car getting sued to fix the car got a 2 day out of school suspendion broke my knuckle and other stuff and i dont know if she relizes everything i did for her and i dont know if she does but doesnt wanna talk about it or just is to shy to tell me if she likes me i think she might but i dont know for sure if anyone knows how i can tell if she likes me let me know
thanks
mike
That's exactly it, she doesn't know. Were you really doing it in her best interests or in yours? In this case, it isn't all for her. In fact, most of it was probably for you. It's never easy to get over something old and onto something new. When you fought it out with some kid, you were releasing some of that heart break and angst against her (yes, her) onto someone who probably had nothing to do with her. This is just you, telling yourself that these feelings are still very real. If it was just a buddy, would you have jumped into conclusions over something that a few kids were saying (most likly trying to provoke you since they know your attraction toward this girl)? She's most likely going to think that you are just another silly kid getting in a physical fight, since she did not ask you do cause physical harm on him. And if she does think this is all because of her, she's probably feeling pretty damn guilty right about now. Say you did this out of total self-sacrification, do you expect her to give up something to you? This is not meant to drop a bomb on your shoulders but to help you come to a realization. You can keep trying to get rid of these feelings by keeping in constant motion, but you are literally coming back to where you started from. This is not going to give you the satisfaction you're looking for, nor will it let her know how you're truly feeling and you're going to keep circling in your thoughts until you do something about it. Whether it's gratitude, her affection, or closure you're looking for, it can't be done by sitting in front of her house. Think about my suggestions or even sit on it. Do whatever you like, because I cannot decide your next ACTION for you.
Is there any way to make your hair grow really really fast? i want my hair to grow longer really fast. thanks
Unfortunately, there is no way to make your hair grow faster. Your hair grows about half an inch each month, which varies seasonally. Factors affecting hairgrowth are your hair care products, and poor diet, illness, medication, emotional stress can actually slow down the process. Studies show that most of the "hairgrowth miracle serums" are basically just a bunch of crap that does not work. "All sorts of conclusions were drawn from what seemed like reasonable observation, but was more often than not just pure conjecture based on COINCIDENCES. "
Continue with regular shampooing/conditioning, take your daily dose of vitamins (more won't help you), and just don't stress about it and it'll grow out before you know it. Besides, you can enjoy the low maintenance that short hair offers and it makes it easier style your hair in ways you could not with your longer, harder-to-manage hair. You won't even miss it ;)
Here is a website included with hot styles for any cut: http://hair-styles.net/short.htm
I absolutely love Alyssa Milano's pixie?? cut on this one: http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/tip3912.htm
A shag has always been hot on Meg Ryan and it just might work for you.
If you find a style you like, you can print a picture of it and take it to your hairdresser to work some love.
My girlfriend and I have been in a very seriuos relationship for about a year and a half. She doesn't really have many other friends other than me and hesitates when turning to her parents. (I am 17 she is 16). This leads me to one problem. When she needs to turn to someone, I'm the only one left. I love when she turns to me with her problems. It makes me feel like I help her out, but a lot of the time I don't know how to give her advice. The latest thing is that she's been under a lot of stress. She baby sits a metaly disturbed child who threatens her and she is taking advanced placement classes in school. I want to help her manage her time but it's hard to give her advice on a situation I've never been in. Please help me help her.
P.S. Any general advice to give her in the future is much appriciated.
Your girlfriend/boyfriend should also be your best friend. It's great she turns to you for advice and trusts that you can offer her support. Support does not mean you can always solve her problems for her. You can't always have the answer to everything she faces because there are always some things that she has to do on her own. When you're at a loss of words and you don't know what else you're supposed to do just remember to be the one to believe in her and let her know that you will be there for her. That is the most important role a best friend can offer.
As for her advanced placement classes, maybe she's got a lot more on her plate than she can and should handle. If she wants to continue taking those courses, by all means do so, but switching into some stress free courses (such as yoga) can really take a lot of pressure off of her. Since policies differ from state to state, I would suggest finding out how she can change her schedule. You should encourage her and let her know that she should take it slowly and it's not important how many advanced placement classes she's taking when it's damaging her health. I've seen many kids take this route and it really hurts you more than it helps you in the end. No one is born a workaholic but they can be made into one. As for the disturbed child, just tell her to get her paycheck and get out of there!
hey I know this is a really stupid and weird question, but ok i'm making a new screen name, and it's gonna be mangotango59. how should it be: MaNgOtAnGo59, mAnGoTaNgO59, or mangotango59? also, should i add anyletters or anything in between the words like mangoXXtango59 or oOmangotangoOo59 or something? also, if you have anyother good screen name ideas, then that'd be good too!
I'm feeling it, it's very Samantha of Sex and the City, cocktails, great sex, and all.
what's a virgin?
A person who has not engaged in sexual intercourse. This word is broadly defined. It really depends on your definition of virginity. Some people believe you lose your virginity only if you have had sexual intercourse. Still others believe the line is crossed when you have oral sex or touching your partner's genitals.
wat are some good things to do for a birthday party for 13 people only but if its only girls thats about 6 please help i dont know what to do
i rate 5s
Well what I found helpful in the past is a party that keeps you moving, literally! Try your local skating rink, bowling alley, bungee jumping, etc. It lets you goof off and just have fun with your friends. Plan, but don't overdo it. Some of the best parties I've seen in the past were simple, and planned only 1-2 days beforehand. Overdoing it just put's a lot of negative pressure on you and your buddies and in a way makes just having fun seem like it has to be squeezed out of a toothpaste tube.
Relax and don't worry too much about it. All you really need is shelter and tons of food. ;)
i have a question for the guys:
do you like it better when a girl just straight up says i like you? or would you rather just ask the girl out yourself because i really like this guy and he knows who i am and everything but im afraid that if i tell him that there will be an awkard vibe and he wont like me back and things wont be the same. what should i do?
My boyfriend and I had a heated debate about this just the other day :P
Most men like when a woman has enough confidence to make the first move instead of getting mixed signals. It takes the pressure off of them which in our society is a fresh breath of air. A friend of mine brings up that although it's sexy when a woman is confident, it's a turn-off when they are the first to make a move. Apparently it's a threat to their masculinity.
Personally I find it very sexy when a girl is not afraid to speak up ;)
okay i have few questions....
how old to you have to be to legally have sex?
even if you have a condom on can the guy ejaculate while still inside the girl and not get pregnant? also even if you withdrawl before ejaculation... can you still get pregnant even if you have a condom on?
i rate please answer
There's no "legal" age to have sex. The only thing i can think of what you're trying to say is statutory rape. It is a CRIME committed when someone of or over the age of consent, 18 (differs depending on state) has sex with someone below the age of consent, it is considered statutory rape, even if both parties consent. STATUTORY RAPE IS NOT THE SAME AS RAPE. Rape is some form of sexual intercourse against the will of the victim or by a threat.
Condoms offer less than 99.8% protection against pregnancy and can protect against some STD's, so it is possible to get pregnant even when using a condom. There is some chance that a woman can get pregnant, even if her partner withdraws before ejaculation since a small amount of semen leaks out during sexual intercourse. Abstinence is the only way to be 100% safe ;)