Question Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:12 pm
i have a question for the guys:
do you like it better when a girl just straight up says i like you? or would you rather just ask the girl out yourself because i really like this guy and he knows who i am and everything but im afraid that if i tell him that there will be an awkard vibe and he wont like me back and things wont be the same. what should i do?
Dakmor answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:35 pm: This may just be personal, but I hate making a move. I'd prefer it if she were to ask me out. You remember those little kid Grammar Rock videos? Remember the one with Mr. Morton, and how Mr. Morton is the subject of the sentence, and what the predicate says, he does? One of the last lines of that song is how Pearl proposed to him. I quote: "Who says women can't propose?" People always say, the guy asks the girl out. Hell, ask him out! Say that you like him straight-out! It'll make him soooo happy!
As for asking him out, everyone tells me to write a note, so I guess that works, but what I did was I asked her out on the web. As for rejection, it's the worst feeling in the world, but it's short. It's either that, or have "does he like me?" lingering above your head forever. And ever. And it'll be hell on earth. Hope I helped, good luck! [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
Juicygirl answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:25 pm: My boyfriend and I had a heated debate about this just the other day :P
Most men like when a woman has enough confidence to make the first move instead of getting mixed signals. It takes the pressure off of them which in our society is a fresh breath of air. A friend of mine brings up that although it's sexy when a woman is confident, it's a turn-off when they are the first to make a move. Apparently it's a threat to their masculinity.
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