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Dumpig him
I truly love him but he's too high maintence. How do I just tell him easily but can we still be friends?
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Tell him straightforward. If you attempt to avoid hurting his feeling too much, you can (and probably will) mislead him.
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"[Insert Name Here], I believe that we would be better off as just friends." That tends to work a lot.
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A man should never be high maintence...women are to serve men.
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You have to sit him down and look him in the eye and break it off. Just do it in as nice as way as possible since he'll probably be pretty upset.
However, I'm sad to say that if a guy is too high maintenance, he may not want to be your friend if you break up with him. If he says he does, it will probably just an attempt to get back together with you. Tell him that you think you two need your space for a while, then maybe sometime down the road you can be friends.
Good luck. Let me know what happens!
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Some boys just want a Louis Vuitton leash and chew on it too. That is a no no.
Just playing, I assume by high maintenance the boy needs constant reminder that you still love him unconditionally which gets on your nerves, understandably. Since you've already made your decision that it just won't work out, you need to let him know why it's not going to work if you haven't already. If you did try and fix the problem and let him know already, then just go right ahead and drop the bomb.. in person.
There's no easy way to put an end to it but it'll stop trouble from arising out of it if you tell him out of the bottom of your heart. This means honesty, straight-to-the-point, and the verdict. If he tries to cut in or defend himself just let him know you want to finish what you're saying. Remember, you need to make sure that he foresees this coming and your reasons why because the shock of it can quickly turn to anger and that always leaves a scar. Of course break ups are never easy and there is always a chance for reconciliations and friendships. You shouldn't do this though, if it'll just end up hurting you and/or him more.
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