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why are all men assholes? (Indeed)
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They aren't. Not all of them at least. Sure, a pretty good percentage of them are total and complete wastes of air who take advantage of and hurt people, but it isn't all of them.
Not to mention the fact that for every asshole guy there is a bitch of a girl. It balances.
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I MISS FERN!!!!!!11111111111
I do have a question.
Why did you steal my favorite color?
P.S.
Check out the category...The best category. Thats what all questions should be under. (Indeed)
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Woooooo!
YOU RULE AND SO DOES THAT COLOUR
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Wow! Since you're very attractive and that's all that matters, will you bear my children? If it helps, since your a women I'm sure you aren't very smart, you only have to cook. I mean come on, I'm a guy. I'll teach the kids while you cook and clean. So how about it? I promise you're the only columnist I've asked so far. But answer quickly, I am God's gift to women you know. Opportunities like me don't grow on trees. But if they did, that would be one sexy tree. (Indeed)
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You're a crackhead.
But obviously I will bear your children yes.
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I'm special. I guess you are too. But I'm more special.
And smart, emo blondes will one day take over the world.
Remember that.
Best wishes, Help4u. (Indeed)
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Well isn't that nice. We're cool. I will agree that spelling Erin the way you do is extra cool, but the basic foundation for coolness was already there.
In conclusion,
We're cool.
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Ive been using this instant sunless tanner by NO-AD. It's in color medium and works fantastically. Im currently just using it on my bod but would like to tan my face as well. But I fear considering how delicate my face is (I break out easily) Im not sure if I should risk it. Has anyone else use a tanner oh their face? Any advice? I rate. :) (Indeed)
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Since your skin is sensitive, you should probably try it out somewhere that isn't really visible, such as the skin behind your ear, or something like that.
And so you know, I just checked the NO-AD website, and they mention the best ways to use their instant sunless tanner, and mention 'use sparingly around the hairline' so there's a decent chance the stuff is mild. Just make sure you test it out and leave that one spot you tested for at least a few hours. If you don't have any kind of reaction, then you'll probably be alright. The site also recommends you use the tanner after exfoliating, so hey that might help also.
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what i'm i suppouse to do if my boyfriend and parents don't get along? age 17 female (Indeed)
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Holy delay answering this question Batman. My apologies. It is important to find out why they don't get along, because it is also pretty important that your boyfriend and parents can at least stand each other. Do your parents not like him simply because he is the guy stealing their daughter from them? This is pretty common. If it is your boyfriend who has the problem with your parents, you need to tell him to suck it up and be nice to your parents. Communication is pretty key here, talk to whomever it is that has the problem, and work out why there is a problem at all and how things can be resolved. Don't screw up your relationship with your parents over your boyfriend, you will eventually regret that.
Figure out why, and compromise.
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We are so emo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Indeed)
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Oh man. We are SO emo.
BUT YOU ARENT ALLOWED TO BE HAPPY ABOUT IT.
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You took Petey away again?! I mean the picture of you is cool and all but I mean come on Petey is a classic. Maybe you can do the interesting black and white picture again WITH Petey in it. Or have two pictures. Like have this picture on top of a Petey one. It would be awesome. You know it would. But Petey is still awesomer. Thank you for taking this time to read my request. And yes I did come to your column to see if you still had the Petey picture. (Indeed)
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Dude, come to my column to see my amazing advice, not my screwed up pictures. I just realized that last statement is laughable, everyone is here for the pictures that's why I need to keep making really weird ones.
I needed a change, and making fun of over-emotional camera whore kids seemed like a really good idea at the time. Petey isn't gone forever.
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my fiance and I have been together for 3 and half years until Weds. We seperated because I ask him to show me that he loves me more even though I know that he is a person that this is sometimes hard for. Because I ask him this over and over he blames me for cussing at him to much. This is not the first time we have seperated because of this, normally we comes back to me within a few days, but this time my hope is lost. I do love him very much and would do anything to try to make him happy, he means more than life to me. please tell me do you think that he will come back this time and please give me advice of things that i could do to make sure that thid never happens again. (Indeed)
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Well maybe you need to ask yourself why it is he needs to constantly prove to you that he loves you. Don't you already know? Sometimes, people have a very difficult time expressing how they feel in ways that other people find very easy. Your constant need to be reassured that your fiance loves you may be a problem with yourself rather than him. You need to talk to him and tell him, without freaking out and getting angry, that you don't feel either appreciated or loved or that he shows how he feels enough.
You have said that you love him very much, but if you constantly need him to repeat how he feels about you - is the relationship as strong as you really think it is? You need to consider whether or not this is your problem and not his, and why you are so needy for his attention. Try not to fight, but calmly talk to him and get some answers from him, maybe find out what he's been feeling while you've been getting so upset about the situation.
Don't just let the relationship slip away, either. Pursue him, find him and get talking, because if you don't try to work things out calmly, the relationship will just end or you'll end up just swearing at him some more.
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my boyfriend is over protective. How do we deal with the fact that he doesnt want me getting a pap smear becasue he says that he doesnt want any other guys looking at me (Indeed)
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Oh, dude, you drop that fucker like a rock. Who cares what his opinion is, seriously. This is a situation that angers me because really - it is absolutely none of his business. Let's go over the many many many many reasons why that is overall really fucking stupid:
a) Not all doctor's are male
b) they don't get satisfaction out of it
c) it is a medical exam, something you HAVE to do
d) it is your body, not his
e) he doesn't get a say
f) he doesn't get a say
g) he really, really doesn't get a say.
Would your boyfriend really prefer you get cancer? Or not have doctors find some disease in its early stages that could take your life away so that you can avoid having a male doctor do his trained job which he does everyday (if it even is a guy, and there is a pretty nice chance it won't be)? Your boyfriend is a controlling asshole. Either he realizes that he doesn't get a say, let alone allow himself to be okay with it, or move on. Or lie about it. Whatever makes you happy with the situation. Tell him it is your body and not his and that having a pap smear is not an enjoyable frivillous experience that is like cheating on him. He is stupid if he thinks that.
Sorry to knock your boyfriend so much.
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Hey guys its xo_sherry_ox and umm i went to my column and it got all crazy looking and I want to know if it looked like that to other people. So can you visit my column and see if its weird or anything..thankss i'll rate (Indeed)
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looks fine.
The end.
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hello. i have this ugly giant mosquito bite on my eye lid and i was wondering how to get it to stop swelling and get smaller. without using chemical products. thank if you can help.
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Wow, ow. I realize you don't want to use chemicals, but uh, you need to. SO, for chemicals-- you need to take some Benadryl, which I believe is an antihistamine and might stop the swelling. I don't recommend you touch it, because that will only make it worse. Then I'd consider applying something to the effect of hydrocortisone cream, because it will stop the itching and you won't be tempted to touch it.
Without chemicals? Well, just don't touch it. Consider putting ice on it, which might help bring down the swelling. If your eye gets really swollen to the point that you can't see or you find it really hurts, you might do damage to your eye and you should probably seek some form of medical attention.
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THE PICTURE.
It is SO GHETTO. (Indeed)
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That's because it's of you.
Ya ghetto bastard.
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ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work?? (Indeed)
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It depends. Usually, not a good idea. If you feel like there could be something potentially great between the two of you, then I don't know if you'd be able to let a small parttime job get in the way. If you date someone from work and break up (which is likely), and the break up is messy with hurt feelings, work will become a tense and awkward situation. You might end up with you or this guy leaving the job to avoid awkwardness or confrontation or your boss might just fire one or both of you. Sure, you can date, but make sure it is worth the whole new complicated situation you'll have on your hands as a result and if your relationship ends (if you even get to a relationship) make sure you guys don't leave the relationship hating each other.
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How can I treat pimples at home? (Indeed)
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Well, there are a lot of methods that don't actually do anything. The best thing you can do for your face is avoid touching it - your fingers are so greasy. Make sure you wash your face once a night with some kind of facial cleanser.
As for pimples you already have, don't pick at them, because they will take longer to heal and you could end up getting scarring.
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When you go to the doctor just to get meds. for the flu or something...do they still weigh you? I know they do when you go in for a physical or a check-up but what if you just have the flu? (Indeed)
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Ehh it depends. If you haven't been to the doctor's in a while, I find they will measure your height and then weigh you. So, unless you were just there last week, they're probably going to weigh you.
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I am a sophmore and I am best friends with two juniors. One male and the other female. WE are the best of friends, nothing could separate us. Laurel (the female) and I became best friends because we both love george (the male). Laurel always said how george was never going to want to be more than a friend and how she couldn't compete with his best friend (me). I also told her that he bluntly told me he wouldn't have a high school relationship with me but he could spend the rest of his life with me.
Just a couple days ago george asked laurel out and this surprised me, and now I am hurt. ( i also have a boyfriend that I love, too) Our friendship had gotten outta whack and the three of us got into lots of fights recently and I decided (after they got together) that nothing would be able to go back to the way it would so I stopped being best friends with them.
Now I have no one except my boyfriend. I want to go back and be their friends again, but I don't know how to go back without making it awkward for them since they both know I like him.
What should I do?
and who do I really love
my boyfriend or my best friend. (Indeed)
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Damn that is a complicated situation. There are a lot of possibilities here. The first - George changed his mind, and how he feels about Laurel, and has found that he cares about her as more than just a friend. There is also the possibility that he had cared about you very deeply, but because you have a boyfriend, realizes that he not only stands no chance, but would not want to try and come between the two of you. There is also the possibility that George is waiting for high school to end before sorting out how he feels about you, which is somewhat understandable, but has found Laurel to be more, this sounds awful, convenient.
In order to find any peace of mind here, you need to talk to George. Laurel will probably not be that informative, because she is most likely going to feel she needs to be defensive towards you, because she knows that George at least, at one point, care deeply for you. So approach George, or write him an email, just make contact. Find out, straight from him, what is going on. I know it seems strange and awkward, but at least if you find out his motives, you'll be able to put your mind at ease and see what you need to do next - stay friends? Move on? If you think about it, if you never find out for sure by asking George, you've pretty much lost the friendship anyhow, so awkwardness and fear of jeopardizing your friendship aren't a huge issue anymore. Maybe George has moved on from his feelings about you, because it happens, so if you find out, you can have some peace of mind and continue your relationship with your current boyfriend.
As for who you love, your boyfriend or your best friend, that is something that I can't really accurately evaluate. I will mention however, that the person you care the most about should be the one who is there for you as support when you most need it, the one who knows you the best, even times when they know more about you than you, and it should be the person that you know, deep down inside of you, that if you had never met, your entire life would be drastically, drastically different.
If they both live up to those, which is entirely possible, then you will have to evaluate each of these guys carefully and what it is about them that makes you love or simply care about them.
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i thought i should ask a guy for their opinion .. ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth! (Indeed)
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Well for starters, I am definitely not a guy.
You can't really tell at this point if he likes you, to be honest. I recommend you keep talking to him on a regular basis, because someone you haven't spoken to in a very long time will never really stay interested in you.
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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long. (Indeed)
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You can either ignore him, or tell him to fuck off because your beliefs are your own, not his. A party is supposed to be about enjoying yourself with friends, it has nothing to do with alcohol, drugs or sex. If this guy gives you a hard time again, just tell him that you don't tell him what to do with his life, get the hell out of yours. Your decisions are your own, and you live with the consequences of your decisions. He has no right to make you feel unwelcome just because you are clearly more intelligent. You could ignore him, but I think it might be better if you just tell him straight that you don't give a crap what he has to say, his opinion holds no value to you, and you can do what you want, just like he can.
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