ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work??
lostsoul_forever answered Sunday March 20 2005, 8:27 pm: Well, if you really like him and he really likes you, then go for it. But that thing about asking permission from your boss, that's just weird. Really, really, really, really wierd. It's like someone is always telling you who and not to date. That's just messed up. It's not like you and that other worker are going to be making out like teenagers in the bathroom or anything. But I say if you truely like him then go for it.
neonxspork answered Sunday March 20 2005, 5:59 pm: It`s all personal opinion. Some people think its wrong and others think it`s fine. I, personally see no problem with it. Seeing as though this job probably isnt where you will work the rest of your life. Go for it! [ neonxspork's advice column | Ask neonxspork A Question ]
_eMiLy answered Sunday March 20 2005, 3:46 pm: Well people always say it's a wrong mixture, work and relationships aparantly don't go together. You're up for a challenge though, right? =P You should definatly try to prove whoever said that wrong and go for it.
Give it a shot, what's the worst that could happen?
Go on a friendly date or something and if it goes further then go with the flow.
Hope I helped&good luck
♥Em [ _eMiLy's advice column | Ask _eMiLy A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 1:39 pm: No its not wrong to date somebody from your work.. And i dont think you should have to get permission from anybody to date somebody from work thats kinda stupid.. i think it should be nobody's business as long as you keep your dating and your relationship outside of work and not do things while your working.. but i hope i helped much luv dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
FernGully answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:51 pm: It depends. Usually, not a good idea. If you feel like there could be something potentially great between the two of you, then I don't know if you'd be able to let a small parttime job get in the way. If you date someone from work and break up (which is likely), and the break up is messy with hurt feelings, work will become a tense and awkward situation. You might end up with you or this guy leaving the job to avoid awkwardness or confrontation or your boss might just fire one or both of you. Sure, you can date, but make sure it is worth the whole new complicated situation you'll have on your hands as a result and if your relationship ends (if you even get to a relationship) make sure you guys don't leave the relationship hating each other. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday March 20 2005, 12:49 pm: it should be perfectly fine to go out with sumbody from work. thats how it usually works. most relationships, if both of them work, are in the same field. so it should be perfectly fine. and about the "big boss man", thats your employer. aka- the boss. and i dont think you need to ask him if you two can go out, that doesn't make sence. i hope i helped [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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