i thought i should ask a guy for their opinion .. ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Peachgirly answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 12:43 am: well, there is a possibility that he may still like you or have feelings for you. who knows? when your friend asked your ex bf if he would date you and then he smiled i think that means that no, i have a gf but then i would date her if i had the chance and didn't have a gf. thats what i think it would mean even though i'm not a guy. my opinion is that you should lay low since your ex has a gf now and if it was meant to happen between you two then it will happen. but then if you want to actually take action then talk to him or something or actually he should be the one to make the first move if he still wanted to be with you. xoxo peachgirly [ Peachgirly's advice column | Ask Peachgirly A Question ]
toosweet4u172 answered Monday March 14 2005, 5:17 pm: "i thought i should ask a guy for their opinion..." can you read the profile? i'm not a guy; therefore, i don't think i should answer, unless you want a girl's opinion
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haha sorry! ok what i think:
i think he may like you. i mean, c'mon, when someone asked him and he just smiled, yeah! just talk to him about it, and even though he has a girlfriend, wait for themt to break up and make your move. i, personally, really think he likes yah :) [ toosweet4u172's advice column | Ask toosweet4u172 A Question ]
MummuM answered Monday March 14 2005, 1:33 pm: I think you were suppose to send this to a different column, because I'm not a guy. But even though, I'd like to help you out with this problem. I'll tell you the truth, he likes you. He's dropping loads of hints to you. When your friend asked if he'd ever go back out with you, he smiled. There's a hint right there. Also when your friend asked about Brooke he came out and said no. But when your friend asked about you, he didn't say anything. He's probably just too shy to come out and say that he's still crushing on you. Main reason would be, because he has a girlfriend right now. But if I were you, I'd try to change all that. Since you still like him, try talking to him every chance you get, make loads of eye contact, giggle a lot, laugh at all his jokes and smile. He'll get the message that you'll still crushing on him by doing this. If you want, you could make it easy and come out and tell him you still like him. Either, tell him in person, on the phone, in a letter or over the computer. Either way, you have to tell him. You never know, something could spark back up and you guys would get back together. So, go for it hun! Don't let this chance pass you by.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
xlostangelx answered Monday March 14 2005, 11:32 am: i am a girl, not a guy. you said you thought you should ask a guy for their opinion, so sorry i couldnt help. if you want my opinion still, get back to me and i'd be glad to help. take care. [ xlostangelx's advice column | Ask xlostangelx A Question ]
rainbowsend answered Monday March 14 2005, 10:51 am: First of all, I'm not a guy. So you won't get that opinion from me.
However, to answer your question anyways...
There's a simple truth my friends and I have discovered: Boys are stupid, and girls are confusing. Us girls tend to overanalyze stuff. Boys usually say and do what they mean, and they don't pick up on hints from girls.
So in your case... there's a good chance that this guy Josh likes you. HOWEVER, he has a girlfriend. So I hope that he still likes her. If he breaks up with her soon, then it's very likely that a relationship between you and him would work. But if he stays with his girlfriend, then I recommend you forget about Josh and find another guy to like. [ rainbowsend's advice column | Ask rainbowsend A Question ]
FernGully answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:58 pm: Well for starters, I am definitely not a guy.
You can't really tell at this point if he likes you, to be honest. I recommend you keep talking to him on a regular basis, because someone you haven't spoken to in a very long time will never really stay interested in you. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
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