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my fiance and I have been together for 3 and half years until Weds. We seperated because I ask him to show me that he loves me more even though I know that he is a person that this is sometimes hard for. Because I ask him this over and over he blames me for cussing at him to much. This is not the first time we have seperated because of this, normally we comes back to me within a few days, but this time my hope is lost. I do love him very much and would do anything to try to make him happy, he means more than life to me. please tell me do you think that he will come back this time and please give me advice of things that i could do to make sure that thid never happens again.
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Well maybe you need to ask yourself why it is he needs to constantly prove to you that he loves you. Don't you already know? Sometimes, people have a very difficult time expressing how they feel in ways that other people find very easy. Your constant need to be reassured that your fiance loves you may be a problem with yourself rather than him. You need to talk to him and tell him, without freaking out and getting angry, that you don't feel either appreciated or loved or that he shows how he feels enough.
You have said that you love him very much, but if you constantly need him to repeat how he feels about you - is the relationship as strong as you really think it is? You need to consider whether or not this is your problem and not his, and why you are so needy for his attention. Try not to fight, but calmly talk to him and get some answers from him, maybe find out what he's been feeling while you've been getting so upset about the situation.
Don't just let the relationship slip away, either. Pursue him, find him and get talking, because if you don't try to work things out calmly, the relationship will just end or you'll end up just swearing at him some more.
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