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Okay, I know that every guy is different and it's difficult to tell whether they really like you or are just like that naturally. But I really need to know about this guy because I'm so confused on them and I'm afraid that he may break my heart later on.

Anywhos:
This guy who is a senior(i'm a junior)is really nice, funny, and friendly. I somtimes see him looking at me across the lunch table, but then I'm not sure if he was looking at me. Then at a little school thing (it's where some bands from the school come and perform and people come to watch and socialize and whatever) he came and I automatically began flirting with him although I don't mean to(I just act like myself and I guess my friends consider that flirting?) and he has this flirt radar on him so he probably knew. He picked me up once although he dropped me (but than I wasn't holding on as he started spinning) and he denied that I was heavy (although I think I am but then he told me not to say that) and we arm wrestled, played the hand game slide, and some other hand game and he (i think jokingly) looked at me like a boy with a crush on a girl when we were just sitting across the table and it was kind of akward so I think I looked away (I dont know why or if I even did). Anywhos and before he left, he gave me a hug and picked me up a little and left...does it sound like he likes me or not?

I know that it was really long but can you please help me out? And please don't say "Just ask him then you'll know" or any direct confrontation ooorr getting together alone since my mom thinks I'll get stoned or something. So whatever you guys say, remember that I will not do any direct confrontation & if you guys will say something about getting together alone, I can't and will have to have friends with me

heres my opinion.i`ll keep it simple.i think he likes you.if you like him back,go for it.if you dont,then i`d keep the friendship you have with him,because it sounds good to me.good luck.=P

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okay so, i just got back from vacation almost 3 week tomorrow. So when i got back i weighed myself. 125.5. During my presence back at home i've been eating less just a fruit for breakfast but then i've eaten alot of lunch and dinner. a little bit less then normal. Last night i weighed myself i weighed 119.5, i've lost about 6 pounds in 3 weeks, non-diet. is that normal? also there are little bumps around my armpits area like pimples sort. please tell me whats happening. i've also been having diahhrea.

your body may just be reacting to your change in diet.its not used to the way you are eating,so it has to get used to it.i think you will be fine,but if you are still worried,talk to your parents or doctor.good luck.=]

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Okay me & my boydfriend have been going out since 9/22. The relationship is great, we both love each other and everything.

But, when we makeout .. He moves his tongue way y too fast. I just want to tell him to slow down! I don't actually want to tell him verbally, how do I give him a sign to slow down while we kiss?

when you kiss him,just hold back a little bit.go slow but make it enjoyable for him.in my opinion,the slower the better.so play with his hair and kind of disract him a little bit.also try kissing his neck and his face to take his mind off your tongue a little.play with his lips using yours.do this and you will make your kissing more enjoyable and you will get it the way your comfortable with.good luck.=D

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There is a Taking back Sunday song that i wanna know what it is...
Here are some of the lyrics...

the truth is that you could slit my throat and with my last gasping breath id apologize for bleeding on your shirt

Taking Back Sunday:

"You're So Last Summer"

She said,
"don't, don't let it go to your head
Boys like you are a dime a dozen,
Boys like you are a dime a dozen"
She said,
"you're a touch overrated,
you're a lush and I hate it
but these grass stains on my knees
they won't mean a thing"

And all I (all I)
Need to know (need to know)
Is that I'm somethin you'll be missin
(is that I'm somethin that you're missin)
(maybe I should hate for this)
Maybe I should hate you for this
Never really did ever quite get that far
(maybe I should hate for this)
Maybe I should hate you for this
Never really did ever quite get that...

I'd never lie to you
Unless I had to
I'll do what I got to
Unless I had to
I'll do what I go to, the truth
is you could slit my throat
And with my one last gasping breath
I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt

And all I (all I)
Need to know (need to know)
Is that I'm somethin you'll be missin
(is that I'm somethin that you're missin)
(maybe I should hate for this)
Maybe I should hate you for this
Never really did ever quite get that far
(maybe I should hate for this)
Maybe I should hate you for this
Never really did ever quite get that...

Cause I'm a wishful thinker with the worst intentions,
This'll be last chance you get to drop my name
Cause I'm a wishful thinker with the worst intentions.
This'll be last chance you get to drop my name

If I'm just bad news, then you're a liar(x8)

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what are some stores that you can buy like plain black sweat pants at
or like any color.

im 14/f and i want to wear them over like sports pants after a soccer game just plain ones with nothing on it.

i checked some websites.and i found some cute ones:
[these are just examples.]

http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=Basics&product%5Fid=2030439753&Page=2

http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryID=564&sidenavTrack=apparel.pants.knits

http://www.daisymaze.com/prodinfo.asp?number=100561&aitem=29&mitem=91&dept=6

http://store.alloy.com/browse.do?categoryID=1035&sidenavTrack=apparel.knitbottoms.pants

http://www.target.com/gp/browse.html/ref=sc_pgb_r_12_0_14260441_2/601-6311094-1418526?ie=UTF8&node=16429991

theres a few.hope it helped.=]

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how do you make out i know this might sound weird but i would like step by step instructions so that i will be thought as a good kisser.

make sure the moment is right.then:

1.as you`re leaning closer to your partner,open your mouth slightly.

2.when your lips meets,play with theres for a couple seconds.[ex. its hard to explain,but try to get there upper lip in between your two lips and open and close your mouth a few times.]

3.when you`re ready to use your tongue,just gradually slip it in there.one way that works great,is after you get it in there,start to wave it.also,play with their tongue.

4.if you know any tricks with your tongue that you think will make it more enjoyable,go ahead.

5.if you really want to make it hot,[if youre a girl]start playing with his hair,and run your hand up and down his neck.

6.if youre a guy,put your hands on her face,[awkward if she has her hands on ur neck]or more preferably around her waist.you can also put them on her shoulders,back,or anywhere else you can think of.if youre really into her you could always grab her butt,but idk if that would be good.=]

7.when you are done,dont make it an awkward time.just smile at each other and enjoy the moment.

8.if you continue making out and are moving on to other things [like i mean going farther as in the bases],just make it enjoyable.

good luck.=]
&& hope i helped.
you can always IM me at dinoxthunderx.

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i love you

i love you too!

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hello. i was thinking of getting a skin change of color. i really admire micheal jackson. it turns me on when he says "ah-hee-hee-hee" i also would like to be like dr. phil so i want to become a man & shave my head. what shoudl i do?

lol alex.all you have to do is get some bleach and put it on ur skin! as for the dr phil thing,i hear there are new at home formulas that can take care of tht.the names are hair be gone and man be turned.and practice your eh hee hee hees.i admit,they turn me on too! lol.good luck.!ilu alex

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Lately, I can't log in to MySpace. The page loads and everything, but when I give my information and click 'log in' the page just loads forever, and doesn't do anything. It's not my anti-virus or firewall or anything, because it's disabled. Do you have any suggestions?

i no this sound weird.but try clearing your cookies.i had the same problem and as soon as i cleared them,i logged in fine.=P

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I have a friend who I talk to online almost every night. Last year we were alot closer and we sort of hung out in school. But he doesn't talk to me that much. Like over the sumer, my bff and her brother had a combined party with each of their friends. Well my friend was one of the guest's brother so I asked if he could go to so he did. But he didn't talk to me! Hes also a pervert, I know that but i don't know why i like him so much. Like one day we were talking and he asked me to senior or junior prom, but we are sophmores. and I once told him that I wanted to go to a haunted house soon and he suggested we go together because he knows i'll be terrified and hanging all over him. And he talks about me to my friend amanda alot.

Does he like me? Or does something sound odd?

if he asked you to prom then i think he likes you.guys act different around their friend,so if he ever starts acting weird,dont worry.its not you its him.but ya,i think he likes you.good luck.=]

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i have a guy friend who wants me to dye his hair for him. i just don't know is it ok to just use one of those boxes that are like meant for girls? or are there specific dyes that you are supposed to use for guys hair? thanks!

i asked my brothers g/f about this one,because she is a hair dresser.she said it is perfectly fine to use womens hair on mens hair.but if your friend is concerned,they make hair dye specifically for men too.so you guys has nothing to worry about.

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Thursday i'm getting my wisdom teeth removed and i'm not sure how many days I need off work to recouperate. I've got Thursday, Friday, and Saturday scheduled off already, but i wasn't sure if I needed Sunday off too since I always work Sunday mornings. I have to have days scheduled off in advance because its really hard to find someone to fill in for me.

If anyone has had this done before, please help me.

Thanks

my brother recently got his wisdom teeth pulled,so i asked him.he said that he was in work the next morning,so you should be fine.it should be enough time,but they may still bother you a little.good luck.=D

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What are some good excuses to get a guy's number or screen name that you like?

tell him that youre thinking of having a party soon and you need his info. so u can invite him.

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ok so i know this is probably a weird question but i was just wondering this.
Does a woman's breasts only contain milk when she is pregnant or after she has a baby or do they always contain milk even before all of that stuff.
For example...if my boyfriend was sucking my breasts would milk come out like it would for a baby?
I was just wondering--just looking for some answers.Thanks.

no your body doesnt start producing milk until you have conceived a child.

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I'm going to try to say this without sounding gross, but its' pretty much impossble. I have two weird sores below my vagina. I've noticed them before, a few years ago. Every once in a while they get opened up or something and burn so bad when I urinate. The one hurting right now is a little less than an inch below my left outer vagina lip. It is really red. The other one is below it, but apparently not opened. What are these things and why won't they truly heal or go away? Why haven't they disapearred over the last year or two, maybe even three? I can't remember when I first discovered them. I may have even had them since I was a kid. So I really really really don't think it could be an STD, plus, I've never had intercourse OR oral sex. I've never let a guy touch me and I've only been kissed once. I DON'T want to go to a doctor or even talk to my mom... They'd probably want me to show them but that's way too embarrassing. I'm a very private person... So if you have any clue what these sores could be, please please tell me!

i`m sorry to say this,but i think you should go to the doctor.dont show ur mom if you dont want to,cuz thats way embarrassing.but doctors deal with and see these kinds of things everyday,so dont sweat it.if you really care about yourself,then you will go to the doctor.it could be serious.but i will do some research and c what i can find out.good luck.=]

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well there's this guy in my social group so we're always hanging out, ive liked him for about 3 months. and in the past month he's kissed me 3 times and recently i talked to him and asked him where we stand coz i dont wanna be friends with benefits. he said that he really likes me but the timing is wrong and that by winter he'll be ok and that if im still up for it he'll ask me out. im sick of waiting and im not sure if he's just using me. i want him to ask me out soon before he changes his mind or something. is he just using me? and how to get him to ask me out sooner?

it seems like he just needs a little bit of a break.i think that he really does like you.if he didnt then y would he kiss you or tell you he did?if hes really worth it,then hes worth the wait.just be his friend and dont let anything between you change.i once waited for a guy i really liked and it was so worth it.so it will be for you to.good luck.and feel free to IM me at dinoxthunderx.=D

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and he's very mean to me ,usually.
Other times hes nice.
But im going to Kill him with kindness
and ignore most of his casual conversation.
Is this a good idea?

ps dont ask why i like him if hes mean, i just do lol

you are deffinately doing the right thing.after a while of you being nice,maybe he wil like you back.and believe me,later on he will appreciate you being so kind to him.good luck.=]

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hey i was wondering if you knew who played this guitar piece. its on an episode of parental control on mtv and the guitar plays, pauses, plays pauses real quick in between. Its in the episode where Justine [girl with black hair and blonde highlights] has the boyfriend with the blonde flippy skaterish hair. I would really appreciate this. thanks.

i`m not really sure,but i`ll look online a little more,and i promise i`ll get back to you.sorry i wasn`t a big help.=[

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Well I wrote on the fabric bookover and it leaked through I guess and got on my book. It was in sharpie. Is there anything that could get it out?

you could try going to a store and getting "goo-gone."it helps me all the time.if it doesnt work,get back to me and i`ll c what i can do.=]

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there is this girl i know who makes her pictures look flawless perfect face and she really enchances herself without enhancing the rest of the piture does anyone know how she does it

xoxo
thanks so much

there are programs that come with your digital camera sometimes.and also programs you can download.but one i know of is photoshop pro.you have to pay for it,but you can make photos look awesome.good luck.=]

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