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I like this boy
and he's very mean to me ,usually.
Other times hes nice.
But im going to Kill him with kindness
and ignore most of his casual conversation.
Is this a good idea?
ps dont ask why i like him if hes mean, i just do lol
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aww i know what thats like .. its like you can never get him to notice you know matter how hard you try .. honestly the best thing you can do is work on getting over him theres soo many other guys who would love you for you .. and will so kind he would do ANYTHING for you . just have patients :D hope i helped
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In my opinion, why waste your time with people who are mean to you? Find someone with some respect. On the other hand, I am a strong believer in killing people with kindness. But don't give him too much attention; he doesn't deserve it.
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I think it's a good idea. He may tease, but that may be his way of trying to make you laugh, or something.
Good luck with 'killing him with kindness' lol.
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you are deffinately doing the right thing.after a while of you being nice,maybe he wil like you back.and believe me,later on he will appreciate you being so kind to him.good luck.=]
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Whether or not you like someone, you need to stand up for yourself. Sometimes the kindness thing works, but you should be cautious if it is just making him angrier. No one will respect you if you act like a doormat, so make sure the kindness has boundaries where it does not cross that line. Because I don't know what "very mean" translates to specifically, I can't comment more. Let me know how it goes!
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Haha. I know why you like him even though he's mean. It's precisely cos he's mean that's why you like him. We always want what is difficult to get.
Honestly speaking, it seems like he isn't really into you yet. I don't really think it's a good idea to flood him with kindness cos from the looks of it, it seems like he'll take you for granted. When you want this type of guy to notice you, you should ignore them...in a subtle way. And get him to notice you without being too obvious.
Like for eg, talk to your frens around you and show him that you're having a good time with your frens. Laugh when you really feel like laughing. (p.s but dun overdo it, cos you'll look like a lunatic)
You can be kind to him though, but don't be toooo nice. Cos it may seem like you're a pushover to him. Help him whenever he needs help but don't offer to do more. Guys like girls who are a little hard to get.
All these are just supplementary to getting his attention. But most importantly, you should be comfortable around him and just relax and enjoy his presence. He'll definitely love you when he enjoys being around you.
I hope you get the essence of what I'm saying cos it's really very hard to explain. But do drop me a msg if you wanna clarify certain things.
All the best =)
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