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kyle some of the friends i used to hav don't talk to me anymore so idk how i should talk to them because i want to be there friend again what should i do? (link)
ask them y da dnt talk to u no more or call no moreor even keep in touch at all


whats bipolar mean? (link)
well it means that sometimes, SHUT UP DAMNIT, your happy and, i love flowers, sometimes, I WILL SO KILL YOU, your mad, you just change without warning.


Next weeek theyres gunna be a party and theyre gunna be weed and regular cigs there and i wanna try it and ive been meaning to try it with osme of my good frends but my other frends sed theyre not gunna like me as much i guess if i do it i dont no wat to do
CONFUSED (link)
DoN'T SmOkE! ...it dosent make you look cool or whatever...just..people who smoke..are just...SttUpId!!


I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help (link)
Put signs up...charge like 5 an hour..and just be really sweet and NOT shy! GoOd LuCk


Yes. It's another one of those Dating complaints. Although I know there are way too many of these, I'm afraid I'm going to have to contribute.

I'm currently dating a young man who is five years older than I am. (I am fourteen and he is nineteen, if that helps any.)

No one really knows that I am with him. I haven't told my friends nor have I told my family, of course. I don't want to be forced to break up with him just because my family believes the age difference is too much. *shrug*

Anyways...One of the problems in our relationship is...we have never met. We're dating over the internet. And, although this may seem silly and (that I know personally and who knows him personally and has met him) and ever since the first time I talked to him, I found myself attracted to him. He asked me out and we've been together ever since.

Of course...It all seems rather...odd. I've never had an internet relationship, before, and I've never had a relationship this serious. I've actually thought about my future with this guy. Marriage, kids, etc.

I really don't know that much about him, though. And he's hesitant to tell me very much.

Should I get out of this relationship? Should I ask him to tell me more about himself? Is there something that I need to do? I'm confused...And I know I don't really have any specific questions. I just need advice.

Thank you. :) (link)
If you honestly like him you shouldn't get out of the relationship. Tell him you feel like you don't know a lot about him, and ask him some questions. And if you know someone that knows him have that person go with you to meet him. You should meet him, if your planning your future I think you might wanna meet him first lol. Hope I helped!


do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol (link)
Blonde!!XoXo, HaY :o)


im not fat or anything..i just have the little fat on my stomach, ya know, like it just a little fat sticking out right on my stomach. Beside crunches, what can i do to get rid of the fat..what other stomach exercises are there..?
THANKS! (link)
Try getting some workout videos or something to help you loose that fat. Also, eat healthier! Good Luck! xOxO, HaY :o)


how can my friend get rid of camel toe?i kno its stupid but it serious (link)
dont wear tight clothes


im never allowed to go to warped tour cuz im "too small" i'll like always be short and its not fair cuz i really wanna goo! (link)
im 4 11 and a half and im 16 (haha) and i go to warped tour . size shouldnt matter . show ur parents ur responsible and wear heels around the house to make urself look taller haha


well my friend went out with this kid for 1 day, but then they broke up cuz they lived too far away from eachother. now i like him and i live the same distance and i dont know if its right to like him....? help please...!?! (link)
Okay, never let guys come before friends...#1 rule! i think you should get over him...sorry girl


I need some help with planning an awesome and unforgettable 21st birthday party.I want this to be different from other birthdays because it is a special birthday.Any help would be appreciated!!Thanks! (link)
How about....if he is a drinker and a partyer..then get a stripper and order up a round of drinks. If he is a good boy then..hmm..maybe a cruise to Bahamas. XoXo, HaY


My parents both smoke... i dont like it at all and i know its killing the both the both of them! I dont want them to die and i dont want my lungs to suffer from it.. what can i do to tell them that they need to stop! I rate high.. please help me! (link)
I feel the same way! But, there is like a 90% chance that they won't stop. But, you can give them literature (facts) to read and tell them how you feel that you love them and try to stay out of the area that they are smoking in! Good luck...XoXo, HaY


Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas? (link)
Just be your-self. I am your friend! :D Just strike up a convo. with them and just ask them what they like to do! Good Luck, XoXo, HaY


how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help (link)
Hmm...you wash them in cold water and then you lay them flat to dry!! XoXo, HaY


hey i need a new sn bc ppl i dont no ims a lot so i need a new one but i can never think of a new sn
i like ole miss i playing baseball for our school team the indians and i like the braves
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what if you like someone that is your friend? But you dont want to screw up the friendship. What should you do?
redpepper2002 (link)
well i had the same problem, i liked someone, and we are, well, at least i think we are still friends, but i asked her out and it didnt go so well, man i dont know what kind of realationship u have with this person, but even if u think she likes u she might not and if u ask her and she doesnt, it might mess it up, but even if u think she does, make sure, if not it will screw it up, i know from experience, sorry man, if u need more help, just ask another question. Chad


I'm trying to lose a little weight and I'm hungry right now. What are some healthy snacks I can eat? (link)
How about some lowfat yogurt, toast, or some low carb snacks!


where is a good website to find free html backrounds? (link)
how about www.google.com then type in HTML background!


My dad smokes a lot every day and it really bothers me and my mom and brother but mostly me. We all tell him to stop and he's always like "I will tomorrow or next week or after this and that"
And I always have to remind him to open the door or window when he's near me while he smokes...I mean he doesn't do it 24-7 and he knows when to draw the line sometimes, but it bothers me and I know he's ruining his health...not to metion I think he's ruining mine too! I suddenly can't run laps at school without me stoping breathing and it bothers me b/c it never seems like he cares...my mom stuck to her word about quitting after our cruise and I know its addicting but I want him to stop should I like hide his cigarrets from him or throw them out? What should I do? Plz help I will rate! (ps...it's embarrassing when he leaves his smokes out with the ashtray b/c my friends don't like it either :o!) (link)
Call 1-800-222-TIPS


well im 13 n my bro has a friend thats 16 n when ever like we r around eachother he smiles at me n i blush rele easly n well i kinda like him but he wouyld never go out w. me.. but like my bro invited him to worlds of fun n well he kept walkin by me n siting w. me on rides.. n well he came to our new house to help us move n i came in n he just smiled at me again n its rele confusing cuz idk if he likes me or what....

i rate good (link)
he was smiling at you, thats polite, mabey he likes you, you should wait for more signs




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