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I am about to be 19 years old and I lost my virginity when I was 15. I Did not bleed ever during sex ever but it just happened to me while i was getting fingered by my boyfriend. He asked if I was a virgin even though this wasnt the 1st time we did this so I dont know what he meant. He said it was maybe normal and maybe popped my cherry cause I was too tight. I was also a bit intoxicated. No pain, and went away after I cleaned myself up. What could this be? :( (link)
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That's normal. I'm assuming you haven't had sex or very much sex since you were 15. Your hymen doesn't "pop or break". It just stretches, so since you haven't had sex in awhile, it probably just went back to normal.
Usually if your boyfriend is too rough while he's doing this, it can cause you too bleed, even if there wasn't any pain. So it might just be him.
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Lets call him 'nick'.
I met nick years back when he was with my friend. Apparently there was a 'thing' between us then. I dont remember and I only found out about this 'thing' recently. I just remembered thinking he was really cool and we got on well.
Years later and im in a relationship with nicks best friend. Were on the brink of splitting up. So through my boyfriend ive seen nick a few times, not many.
When im with him he barely looks at me, and I basically have a huge crush on him. I feel like a teenager. He is normally very confident, even my boyfriend has commented on how awkward he is around me. He either likes me or really doesnt.
My boyfriend has always made comments on how alike me and nick are, but I barely know him myself.
For some reason I have been thinking about him more and more. I always fantasize about him.
So the advice I really need:
How do I tell if he likes me too?
Should I say something to him?
Should I ask why he acts weird, or just tell him I like him? (I can say this when my boyfriend leaves).
Why am I so attracted to him when I barely know him?
Anything else .... thanks for all replys. (link)
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So you and your boyfriend are on the brink of splitting up?
It's hard to tell when someone likes you, especially when you don't know them that well. It can all just be subtle clues, but even those don't even mean that someone likes you. Ex. Staring at you, if he's around you a lot, ect. But those don't always mean someone likes you.
You shouldn't say anything to him until you and your boyfriend are broken up. Firstly, it's wrong and second, because he is your boyfriends friend so your reputation is at stake and he might not think that highly of you, especially when he doesn't really know you.
As for being attracted to him, it's just life. You're going to be attracted to many different people, even when you're in happy relationships but obviously, you're not supposed to act on them. So when you and your boyfriend aren't together, feel free to pursue him.
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well im female/19.
Me and my ex boyfriend are still in contact were still friends, and well we have them conversations where we always talk about the past, like we bring up memories and our sexual experiences together..
we've spoke about us having sex again, he was the last guy i had sex with to be honest.. and well we both want to do it would it be wrong? cause inside it's something i really want to do and i would o it over and over again, like i know it would be just sex but since he's my ex we both know what we like, and I have that feeling that by us having sex feelings would be there he once said it himself..
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I think it'd e wrong if he was in another relationship or you were in another relationship. If that's not the case, then it's not exactly wrong.
Although if you still have feelings for him, then don't do it. That could just lead to disappointment and heartbreak. But if you are just in it for sex and looking for nothing else, then it's fine.
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Hey I don't know what to do. I am torn in half, not knowing what to do! Ok let me explain. I am 10 going on 11and I am going into middle school. I have 2sets of friends. The first set of friends have been with me for 5 years, Ariana and Ariel. Ariel introduced me to Ariana on the first day of school in my new school. They were my first friends in my new school. At first Ariana thought i was going to steal her best friend. After a month she relized I meant no harm and took me in. Although i was part of the group, i felt like a third wheel. they had knowwn eachother scince the day ariel moved into her house right across the street from ariana. Then in 4th grade, I was in a class without Ariel or Ariana. I had started to hang out with Elaine ,who I'd also known scince the first day of school but wasn't really close but now was in my class, and Laura , Elaine's best friend. Again I felt like a third wheel. In the beginning in 5th grade my older sister had snuck out and gotten drunk. She got arrested. My mom told me and I started crying. My mom told me she would only be gone for a day and I calmed down. I went to school and tryed to control myself. I accidentally let my tears fall in class and rushed to the bathroom. There in the restroom were Ariel and Ariana. They asked me again and again what happen but I wouldn't budge. They eventually said that they wouldn't let me leave until I told them. I did. They slap sweared they won't tell anyone yet the next day ally was telling everyone what happened. I asked her who told her and she said Ariel. I was furious. I stopped talking to them.elaine found out from other kids and only told laura.The day after that Ariana's mom dropped by and said she had to pick up Ariana's jacket that she left here. When my sis opened the door she was so surprised to see her she HUGGED her which is rare scince she doesn't hug anyone. Q:Hmm why would she come then to pick it up when I told her about it weeks ago? A: Ariana told her MOM. They both told someone when Elaine and Laura didn't tell ANYONE. The whole thing blew overand set 1 apologized a million times. Now it is back to the way before but now I have to pick between set 1 and2. Before you think I should choose set 2 listen to this: during the time I was furious at set 1 I was giving set 2all the juicy info on how much I hate them. After a while, I calmed down and told set 2i didn't mean what I said about set1. 2 months later, I hear word that Ariana got tp. She told me on their doorstep was a paper that said love ally. She said that she was framed because that week she was in France. Half a month before I hear that elain tells me she was going tping and she was going to put a paper that says love ally on the person she's tping doorstep. I asked her who she said i don't them. Why would Elaine tp Ariana when I was convinced they were the mature ones and the kids I should be friends with?why did she lie to me? Why would Ariana and Ariel also tell people?? HELP!! Ps. Elaine and Laura sort of make me jealous but they don't try to. (link)
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Well that was a lot to take in.
Basically, this is just a bunch of stupid drama. A lot of girls can't keep secrets so if you don't want things to get out, then don't tell anyone.
You don't need to choose between them. If they aren't good friends and you don't believe you can trust them, then don't hang out with either of them anymore. If you think you can forgive them and move past it, then continue being friends with whoever you would like, just don't tell them your family secrets.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. We're very in love and getting our own place soon. We both work full time jobs and he talks about wanting to marry me all the time.
For the last two weeks I had been staying at his apartment pretty much 24/7 but yesterday when he went to work I went home because I felt weird knowing that his parents knew I'd been there so much and I didn't want them to think I was living there and using him. He begged me to come back over last night and I didn't (because I wanted to show his parents I wasn't living there ,his parents pay for his apartment which is outside their house).
I explained all of that to him and he was okay with it after some convincing. Then tonight after I got off of work I waited around for him to get off because I was supposed to go back over to his place. He texted me a couple hours later "I just got off work and I'm heading home!" Immediately I got angry.
I don't understand why he always goes straight home and it makes me mad when he does because it makes me feel like he doesn't want to do anything he just wants to go straight home.
I'm always the one driving to him but he never wants to drive to me so it takes me an hour and a half to get to work and an hour and a half to get back and if I go to his place another hour which takes up a lot of gas even though I have a hybrid. I fill up pretty much every week because of it and it's costing me a lot of money too.
Whenever I ask him to come my way he says "I don't have enough gas for that" or "It takes a lot of gas to do that" and I feel like there's a double standard. It's okay to him for me to use lots of money on gas to see him but not okay for him to spend a lot of money on gas to see me?
I feel like I shouldn't really be mad but it always upsets me when he says that. Especially since he only lives ten minutes from his work place and pretty much everything else for him is really local where as he's 30 minutes away, one way and my job is 90 minutes away, one way.
It's not just that either. I often get angry when he works days I have off or when he has days off that I work. Today I got home around 6 and he got home around 8 so I was already thinking wow it's already 8pm I probably shouldn't go over there it's too late now unless I stay over since I have to work tomorrow and he has the day off.
He also won $1k a month ago and blew it all on an ipad mini and his car and I felt as if he should have saved part of it towards his share of wherever we move into or towards a cheap engagement ring and I'm still mad about that though I haven't told him that.
How can I not be so clingy? I'm just so in love with him that I want to be his world 24.7 because he's mine and I know that's wrong and selfish...
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I wouldn't consider you clingy. It's normal to be a little upset when he has to work days your off and vice versa. It can be frustrating.
As for the driving and gas problem, you need to speak to him about that. It uses up a lot of your money so he does need to play an equal part in that. You don't need to lecture him or anything, but tell him he needs to meet you half way. Just sit down, have a talk with him, without pointing fingers that this is all his fault, because it probably won't end well.
Obviously you guys are young, and he hasn't exactly learned the value of money yet. Although it's kinda hypocritical to spend his money on an ipad instead of gas to see you. Anyways, bringing that up probably won't solve the problem. I just understand why you're frustrated.
I think you need to express your feelings, and make sure he hears them. You don't need to be demanding, but make sure he knows you're serious.
Because if he keeps these things up, it can ruin the relationship.
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I sucked my bf'z dick nd he waz sperming in my mouth so can I get pregnant I swallowed half of dem (link)
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You can only get pregnant when you have actual sexual intercourse, not oral sex.
You should probably educate yourself about all this before you become sexually active..so that you don't have to ask questions like this.
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My friend and I is 13, and we girls. She once got sexually abused by her brother in law, but eventually it got sorted out, he then started again, and then it got sorted out, but now I have a feeling he's started. She used to tell me everything but now she's become so quiet and doesn't want to tell anyone what's wrong. I know that if I ask her she'll say no so I just wanted to ask what are some signs that a 13 year old girl is getting sexually abused?
She cuts herself, has tried killing herself and is bulimic If that helps. (link)
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When she's cutting herself and attempting suicide, there is something wrong.
How did it get sorted out?
You need to tell an adult before it gets worse. They'll figure out what to do and where to go from there. You're a good friend for worrying about her but you need to tell somebody because you don't want to lose your friend.
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How do you know if a 13 year old girl is bulimic? She told me she is but I'm not sure if she's lying or not because she isn't losing weight. So what's signs/sympotoms is there that she is bulimic? (link)
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People who suffer from bulimia don't always lose weight. Sometimes they are even overweight and don't lose much.
There's not really an outward showing when someone has bulimia.
These are some symptoms..
Being preoccupied with your body shape and weight
Living in fear of gaining weight
Feeling that you can't control your eating behavior
Eating until the point of discomfort or pain
Eating much more food in a binge episode than in a normal meal or snack
Forcing yourself to vomit or exercise too much
Misusing laxatives, diuretics or enemas after eating
Using dietary supplements or herbal products for weight loss
So that's why you can't really tell when someone has bulimia.
Either way, this can be life threatening. So even if you don't know if she is telling the truth, you should tell somebody.
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ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and he isn't a virgin but i am. and i wanted to know that he really loves me and he didn't just want to get in my pants so i decided not to give it up to him in the beginning. now we're at 10 months and i feel like sometimes i wanna give it up to him and sometimes i don't because im scared that im gonna regret it. my real problem is that im scared that he's gonna leave me or have sex with someone else because hes waited so long without having sex (link)
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Well you're not ready and you know you aren't. I mean if you're scared you're going to regret it, then you know it's not the right time. When you're ready, you'll know and you won't be scared or think about regrets.
Guys can live without having sex. So if he left you because you weren't giving it to him, then he is a really bad choice of a guy. Relationships don't work without trust. You don't trust him. You want to be with someone you know won't leave you or have sex with someone else. You don't have faith in him that he wouldn't do something like that.
So I think that is a big issue.
Wait until you are ready to have sex, not because you think he might leave if you don't give it to him. You won't enjoy it that way.
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My ex admitted that he liked me, and I kind of figured that he did. Honestly, I don't wanna get back together with him. I kind of did a bitch move the other day where I guess I sorta led him on. So our group of friends decided to go to his house to play but they were all guys (I'm the type who has mainly guy friends) and they all wanted to game. It was pretty late in the night and I was gonna game with them later, so to boost my energy, I said I would take a nap first. My ex decided to slip into bed with me 5 minutes later and I was half asleep and was like WTF. He put his arm around me and being the stupid drunk girl I am, I let him cuddle me. It sort of turned into a makeout session when he leaned in and kissed me. The next day, he was expecting me to be more intimate with him but I didn't want to, so now he's really pissed because he doesn't get what he wants. Idk, I kind of feel bad for "leading" him on like that and now he refuses to talk to me, but rather says bad things about me to others. What should I do? (link)
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Well next time you're around him, I wouldn't get drunk.
You were drunk, how could he expect to be intimate with you the next day when all you were was drunk? He was stupid enough to set himself up for that.
Anyways, he's immature for talking crap about you. So just let that be and cut him out of your life. You don't really need a guy like that in your life anyways.
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I was at a waterpark today with my friend -one girl, one guy-and I jokingly pointed out a cute boy that was standing by two other guys.. so my -guy- friend went over and said, 'Dude, she likes you.' ... and his friends laughed and said, 'THAT girl??!' and they did that dumb 'gag' hand gesture where they point down thier throat and pretent to throw up. The worst part was, I think, was the fact that I later found out one of the guys was the son of my dad's co-worker/best-friend... it just lowered my self esteem even more later on, when I was getting out of a pool and they started splashing me with a lot of water and yelling at me.. so I kinda lost it and flipped them off and hid in the restroom--more info-- im a middle schooler, blonde, very skinny, and short short hair.. and I have depression. :( so I guess the question is, how do I deal with this? I haven't had a boyfriend for almost two years, but every time my friend trys to set me up, she ends up with the guy, and every time one of my guy friends trys to, they come back saying guys thought I was.. ugly. (link)
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You're not ugly. You're 13 years old and these boys are around your age correct? They are so immature at this age. That's why it's not good to date at a young age because the relationships don't last and boys don't take anything seriously.
Stop having your friends try to set you up. You don't need that right now. You need to focus on you and how you feel about yourself, not what other people think.
You'll see this when you get older. You'll see that not everything is about looks, or at least it shouldn't be. You'll find a guy who likes you for you, not because of how you look. There are girls who are considered gorgeous who can't get a good guy because they are brats and there are girls who are considered not that attractive who have the happiest relationships.
So work on your self-esteem and don't take what other people say too seriously.
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hello I am an almost 13 year old girl and in 4th grade I was not popular and he (I will call him blue) was the second most popular guy, everyone liked him, he was athletic, cute, smart and nice. so one day my friend comes up to me and says "yesterday after school blue told me to tell you that HE LIKES YOU!" so i just go no no no your wrong why would anyone like me?! i'm not pretty, i'm super shy and not very smart. but i guess he still likes me! so then in the summer we hung out a few times then in 5th grade end of the year he asked me out. the summer we hung out once. just once. I miss him so much and i'm going into 7th grade. in MN where i live middle school is going into 6th grade and i haven't seen him in 2 years! i don't know if I should text him just to tell him how i still feel even if he doesn't feel the same or not. my friend texted him about a week ago saying i miss you and he said i cant wait for high school when we get to see each other again! i just miss him so much so any advice if i should text him or not? thanks. xoxo (link)
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I'd say go for it and text him.
But I don't get the "we love each other but don't know how to tell each other" How do you know he loves you when he hasn't told you?
Just text him to say that you miss him. Don't tell him how you feel until later in the conversation. You don't want to freak him out. If he doesn't feel the same, then it's not big deal.
So yeah, text him.
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Ok so... there's this girl I like. But she happens to be my best friend. So i think i'm friend zoned. But she's been giving me signals that have made me think differently. Like whenever she's around me she always gets as close to me as she can like when we watch movies she scoots over as close as she can. She also touches me a lot and grabs my hand (not holding it) whenever she wants me to come with her somewhere. She also wants me to go anywhere she goes and when were in a big group of friends she's always next to me. Theres many more things she's done that makes me think she may like me but those are the big ones. So I asked my other friend who happens to be her best girlfriend if she thinks she likes me. Her friend told me that she doesn't think she likes me. So i'm very confused... Do you all think she likes me? She flirts with a lot of guys but she doesn't do the stuff that she does to me. I don't feel comfortable telling her I like her yet only because I don't want it to ruin our friendship. I don't want things to be awkward between us... What should I do? (link)
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She's either really friendly or she likes you..or is at least a little bit interested in you.
Maybe be a little flirty with her and see how she reacts. If she flirts with other guys, then she might be a flirty girl and it also means you're not the only guy she has her eyes on. Which is probably why her friend told you that she doesn't think she likes you.
So I'd say start being a little flirty and see where it goes from there.
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so found out a guy is about to ask me out and i sorta like him but im not quite there yet. But my sister has been texting him and told him that i like him, which is sorta true. But i also feel bad for him because he is from a broken home. I am 14 and a girl from C.A. (link)
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I don't think him coming from a broken home has anything to do with you dating him. Feeling bad for him just in case you reject him or something? Just don't think that way.
If he does ask you out, you need to be honest. You don't need to say yes. You need to figure out how you feel and if you're ready for a relationship. It's that simple. If he's a good guy, he'll understand.
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Hi, 20/M
Me and my girlfriend (all but name) have been going through a rough patch recently.
I saw some messages on her phone at like 1am from a guy that she was introduced to at work. He sent her a pic of herself, and sent messages like "I'm not the type of guy that has sex with just anyone". I told her that I saw them, and it really upset me. Not only do I find it to be inappropriate to be texting someone else at 1am, but what really upset me was that I left hers, because she claimed to be too tired, at 12am.
We spoke and she apologised, and she said she didn't see it like that and understood why I was upset.
There is also this other guy, who is the boyfriend of a mutual friend. We went to a BBQ a while ago, and I kept telling her that he was flirting with her. I then saw messages from him, on her fb, at 1am, with him telling her that "she's cute".
Again, we spoke about this and she said that she didn't really it as a problem, and she didn't see it as flirting.
I'm worried that because our relationship status is not public (people just think we're friends), when she is nice to guys that flirt with her, may give the guy the wrong impression i.e. that she is interested, when really she says that she doesn't know the difference between flirting and someone being nice.
It feels now that she has really taken on board what we've spoken about before. But do I have anything to worry about? Is it inappropriate for a girl to be like that with another guy? My friend says yes, but my girlfriend just happens to get on better with guys than girls (I also get on better with girls than guys).
What also confuses me is that sometimes she will say "I can't just stop talking to them, thats rude" or "He helped me with my job application, I can't make it look like I was using him" which to me sound like excuses.
I just don't know what to think. Am I being paranoid, stupid, and jealous? Or are her actions inappropriate? I of course want her to have friends, but why am I being so paranoid when it comes to these two guys? Is it just because it happens to be that they were flirting? Or am I going to carry on being like this with every guy friend she has?
I should reinforce that our relationship is fine apart from that. She loves me, and I love her. She hasn't physically cheated on me. It's just this messaging. (link)
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I'm just confused on the relationship being private.
You are right that it's not appropriate to be talking to another guy at 1am.
This problem happened to me before. My relationship with my boyfriend was very complicated because I had moved out of state for college. So we weren't sure where we stood. Other guys would talk to me and compliment me and I was always oblivious to when a guy was interested in me. Only because I've realized that it didn't seem right to me to assume a guy with flirting with me or was actually just being nice. So my boyfriend saw the messages and I had to figure out how to make sure the boundaries weren't crossed.
If she's showing you and working on this, then you should be able to trust her. Whatever reason why you're relationship is private, that could be a big reason why you're insecure about this. So that should be figured out.
She also needs to make it clear to the other guys that she's not interested in that way.
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I am only 10going on 11and I have the worries and stress of an average teen! First off we are NOT poor! My mom is a doctor and my dad is a pharmacist. They don't have to pay for childcare cause my dad works when my is off.i have literally clothes that would be considered " babyish" for a 7 year old. I have very little clothes. Please don't think I'm a spoiled brat who is complaining when she doesn't get what she wants. In 2nd grade rumors were going around because if my clothes.everybody expet for my 2 friends looked at me like a was a monster. This has been going on scince then, but I try to ignore it. I am willing to pay for it from my own $but my mom says I have enough clothes. Am I crazy for wanting more clothes??am I ungrateful? According to my mom I am. HELP??? (link)
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Well just because you aren't poor, doesn't mean that your parents can afford to buy you new clothes.
There are some parents who maintain a comfortable income to pay the bills, mortgage, car payments, groceries, debts, ect.
In this economy, it's hard even for people who have good jobs.
I don't think you're a spoiled brat. I just think you're not old enough to realize the problems parents can have and afford.
You shouldn't care about what other people think. You're only 10, you don't need to stress out over clothes. When you're older, it won't matter.
So just be grateful for now.
I'd say talk to your mom, maybe see if you can get a couple new outfits. If she really won't let you get new clothes, then just let it be until you can.
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17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing. (link)
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So you obviously want to wait until you are ready. You don't want to have sex, but then again, you do.
Just wait until the right time comes. Be prepared, and ready, with the right guy.
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I really don't know what's wrong with my mom. She won't let me shave because she said that "you can barely see it on my skin" which all my friends tell me they do. And I want to shave so I can wear skirts and strapless tops!
Also my mom won't let me wear makeup! EVERYONE at school does! She said that " I don't need it, plus I'm in 7th grade" but I know I'm pretty and don't need it but I dont even want as much makeup as everyone. I just want colored lipgloss and eyeliner because my eyelashes are already long. How can I convince my mom to let me wear makeup. (my dad already approves) (link)
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You should talk to your mom about the shaving thing. I think 7th grade is a good time to start learning how to shave. Plus, it's good hygiene. So just sit her down and talk to her. Don't be like, "Everyone is shaving" or "Dad said I can!" Leave dad out of it. Just explain your reasoning, and hopefully she'll let you.
You're in 7th grade and you want to wear strapless tops? I can understand tank tops but not strapless.
Anyways, as for the make up, you should probably start slow. It's dumb to start doing someone just because everyone else is. My mom didn't let me start wearing make up till I was in high school.
Well it went like this..
7th & 8th grade I wore light colored eye shadow.
9th grade I just wore eyeliner on my lid.
10th graded I wore lip gloss and started wearing eyeliner on both top and bottom.
11th I wore mascara and foundation.
That's probably how I would have it if I had a daughter. Make up can screw up your skin so that's why it's better to start later.
But definitively talk to her about shaving. If you really do want to start wearing make up, don't start with eyeliner. (You'll look back and be grateful) Start slow and maybe let her pick what you can start with.
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21/m with 22/fm
Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. At the beginning everything was great; we spent alot of time talking or together so we got to know each other fast and fell in love in only 2 weeks. Lately (or for the past couple of months) she complains that I never talk to her and she misses talking till 4 in the morning like we use to; and since then we've become alittle distant. We're together like 10 hours out of the day (including sleeping for like 2 or 3) but we get on each others nerves alot so you can say we're both not satisfied with this. We love each other and are always there for each other in the good and bad times; it's only been a year and a half but we've gone through alot.
My question is have you girls ever had this probably with a boyfriend you thought was your soul mate? Or your boyfriend that is now your husband?
I know it's a stereotype that men don't like to talk very much so did you just put up with it or did it hurt your relationship?
What I really want is just to make her happy but talking about the same crap everyday doesn't make me wanna talk "how was your day"? "Same annoying girl anoyyed me" or about our money problems.
Men can answer to if you have something useful to say (link)
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I've had this problem with my boyfriend before. We've been together for almost 2 years.
We ran out of things to talk about when we weren't together because there was never anything new going on or we spent the day together.
I couldn't put up with it. When he didn't feel like talking, it made me feel like he didn't care. I know that's not true, but it just felt that way. So it ended up hurting our relationship.
In the beginning of every relationship, you talk all the time and you love it and you always have something new to talk about. And if you didn't, talking about nothing and flirting was good enough. But once you spend a lot more time together and have been dating for a long time, you don't do that anymore. So she's comparing the relationship to how it used to be. She misses the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship.
So to solve this problem, me and my boyfriend don't hang out all the time. We do our own thing and hang out other days. Find new things to do together, it will help show her you care. Talk about memories you've had together, and when you're not with her, send her a text to let her know you're thinking about her.
Talk to her about this and hopefully she'll see that spending a lot of time together can end up ruining a relationship. So spending some time apart doing other things can help give things to talk about especially when you miss each other throughout the day.
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So my bf broke up with me about a week ago saying he wasn't really ready and wasn't that interested he said we were friends for now but he blocked me on IG and doesn't respond to my kiks and he didnt defriend me on xbox. Then today, his cousin texted me and said to take him out of my bio (one of my back up IGs I haven't been on and I had him as a friend) he doesn't like you anymore. And all if this has made me so depressed to the point that I wanna kill myself because he really loved me and showed me that he cared and he changed my life and I really loved him. I really want him back so badly and i want him to talk to me but what should I do? Thanks.
(Btw: we were together for 3 months :/) (link)
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What should you do?
You try to move on. He doesn't want to keep in contact with you and you can't change that. Who knows why he's going out of his way to try to unfriend you on everything but you just need to forget about him.
You can't make someone want you back and you can't make someone talk to you so these are your options..
You can keep waiting around and hoping maybe he'll talk to you and respond to your messages, but that most likely will push him even farther away and you'll end up even more upset or you can do your best to move on with your life.
Dating is about learning. I'm assuming it was a good relationship and you enjoyed it. So it's a good memory and you should treasure it, but don't dwell on it and hope that it'll come back. You'll end up finding someone who will want to be with you just as much as you want to be with them. This guy isn't the right guy for you, so just let him go and find someone new.
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