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i wanna have sex but i dont wanna lose my vcard
17/f
I have the urge to have sex but I don't want to lose my v-card. IDK, I'm pretty desperate for it and I kind of hate how I'm always fantasizing.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Well honestly hun, take it from a Romance Rep, sex if for a couple who love each other! You're not old enough to buy any toys yet. Most companies (mine included) require you to be 18 years of age to order products. If someone older than you bought you a toy, then they would be charged with "distributing to a minor" and could spend some time in jail, pay a large fine, or both. My advice is until you turn old enough to buy the toys, your finger(s) will have to work. You're body is going through the hormonal changes and it's normal. Just don't do something you will regret later! Your "v-card" is something you can only give to 1 person, so why waste it!?
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So you obviously want to wait until you are ready. You don't want to have sex, but then again, you do.
Just wait until the right time comes. Be prepared, and ready, with the right guy.
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I am a 18 year old female who still hasn't swiped my v-card either. I want to everyday haha. All the time when I home alone haha. But seriously I think about it this way I've waited so long, why not wait until the right person comes along. I'm not saying wait until marriage, I'm just saying wait until he is what your looking for. And if you do decide just be safe. And masturbate, we all do it so don't be ashamed.
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Right, but you've not asked for any advice??
You've done well to keep it, I say save it for that special someone. If you're always fantasizing try to put that energy into something else like getting a good career or something, to distract yourself from it.
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I understand what you mean. I'm 17 years old as well but my bf and I have been together for a year and a half. I would say buy a dildo of some sort. Now.. I know how awkward it is.. Trust me I do. But no one has to know and you can keep it hidden. You can also redeem yourself of your urge to have sex without losing your virginity. I hope this helps
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I THINK I know what you mean. You 'want the trip but none of the baggage'. And we all know, teenagers can be pressured to do stuff. but if you really want to have sex, please wait until your wedding night. Then you'll be ready. (or at the very least until you find the right guy. One you're positive is a keeper)
--hope I helped.
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