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What should I do?/Does she like me?
Ok so... there's this girl I like. But she happens to be my best friend. So i think i'm friend zoned. But she's been giving me signals that have made me think differently. Like whenever she's around me she always gets as close to me as she can like when we watch movies she scoots over as close as she can. She also touches me a lot and grabs my hand (not holding it) whenever she wants me to come with her somewhere. She also wants me to go anywhere she goes and when were in a big group of friends she's always next to me. Theres many more things she's done that makes me think she may like me but those are the big ones. So I asked my other friend who happens to be her best girlfriend if she thinks she likes me. Her friend told me that she doesn't think she likes me. So i'm very confused... Do you all think she likes me? She flirts with a lot of guys but she doesn't do the stuff that she does to me. I don't feel comfortable telling her I like her yet only because I don't want it to ruin our friendship. I don't want things to be awkward between us... What should I do?
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She's either really friendly or she likes you..or is at least a little bit interested in you.
Maybe be a little flirty with her and see how she reacts. If she flirts with other guys, then she might be a flirty girl and it also means you're not the only guy she has her eyes on. Which is probably why her friend told you that she doesn't think she likes you.
So I'd say start being a little flirty and see where it goes from there.
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the signs seem pretty clear that she likes you but they also could just mean she is being very friendly. don't be scared to ask her , you could miss out on something good. and if she doesn't like you then you have to deal with that , when you ask her tell her that its ok if she doesn't like you back you just wanted to let her know and that you don't want anything to change if she doesn't feel the same way.
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Well the signs are showing but dont be afraid to ask her. Dont be afraid of rejection. But if she do this with other guy friends? If she do she might me a super flirter. They are called that because they think the things they do dont hurt anyone and sometimes dont know she even doing it. So for now if she doing that to anybody else if not ask her yourself and ask if she do have feelings for you.
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The best and most stable long term relationships start out as friendships. Even marriages require the two to be best friends.
So taking it a step further will not ruin a good friendship. If she doesn't want to and you're okay with that, keep seeing her as a friend. If you find another girl who is into you as more than a friend, then focus your attention there and let your friend know she won't see as much of you because you have a romantic relationship.
But from what you say, she IS interested in wanting to take it beyond friendship. Women of any age will do that. There's isn't anymore more a person can do except to come out and say. "Hey I value our friendship but I am starting to have have stronger feelings for you and would like to explore that." If she's not saying that, she is likely scared for the same reasons you are. Someone has to go first and admit they want to go the next step. Nope, its not easy. It never is. But look at the alternative...neither of you ever say or do anything more and go on with your lives but never become a couple and perhaps life takes you both in different directions and you will always wonder if there could've been something more...and that is torture...wondering forever.
Good luck with your lady friend.
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