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Friendship help
Hey I don't know what to do. I am torn in half, not knowing what to do! Ok let me explain. I am 10 going on 11and I am going into middle school. I have 2sets of friends. The first set of friends have been with me for 5 years, Ariana and Ariel. Ariel introduced me to Ariana on the first day of school in my new school. They were my first friends in my new school. At first Ariana thought i was going to steal her best friend. After a month she relized I meant no harm and took me in. Although i was part of the group, i felt like a third wheel. they had knowwn eachother scince the day ariel moved into her house right across the street from ariana. Then in 4th grade, I was in a class without Ariel or Ariana. I had started to hang out with Elaine ,who I'd also known scince the first day of school but wasn't really close but now was in my class, and Laura , Elaine's best friend. Again I felt like a third wheel. In the beginning in 5th grade my older sister had snuck out and gotten drunk. She got arrested. My mom told me and I started crying. My mom told me she would only be gone for a day and I calmed down. I went to school and tryed to control myself. I accidentally let my tears fall in class and rushed to the bathroom. There in the restroom were Ariel and Ariana. They asked me again and again what happen but I wouldn't budge. They eventually said that they wouldn't let me leave until I told them. I did. They slap sweared they won't tell anyone yet the next day ally was telling everyone what happened. I asked her who told her and she said Ariel. I was furious. I stopped talking to them.elaine found out from other kids and only told laura.The day after that Ariana's mom dropped by and said she had to pick up Ariana's jacket that she left here. When my sis opened the door she was so surprised to see her she HUGGED her which is rare scince she doesn't hug anyone. Q:Hmm why would she come then to pick it up when I told her about it weeks ago? A: Ariana told her MOM. They both told someone when Elaine and Laura didn't tell ANYONE. The whole thing blew overand set 1 apologized a million times. Now it is back to the way before but now I have to pick between set 1 and2. Before you think I should choose set 2 listen to this: during the time I was furious at set 1 I was giving set 2all the juicy info on how much I hate them. After a while, I calmed down and told set 2i didn't mean what I said about set1. 2 months later, I hear word that Ariana got tp. She told me on their doorstep was a paper that said love ally. She said that she was framed because that week she was in France. Half a month before I hear that elain tells me she was going tping and she was going to put a paper that says love ally on the person she's tping doorstep. I asked her who she said i don't them. Why would Elaine tp Ariana when I was convinced they were the mature ones and the kids I should be friends with?why did she lie to me? Why would Ariana and Ariel also tell people?? HELP!! Ps. Elaine and Laura sort of make me jealous but they don't try to.
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Yep, stupid drama.
Girls bond with other girls by sharing secrets. Even Elaine told someone, even if she didn't tell everyone. And you behaved just as badly as everyone else when you were giving out all that juicy info.
You are all a bunch of rotten teenage brats, if you ask me. But I'm grouchy and old.
Whatever. Google "first world problems".
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You're 10.
Too young to be on this site-it said so when you signed up. Or did you lie?
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Well that was a lot to take in.
Basically, this is just a bunch of stupid drama. A lot of girls can't keep secrets so if you don't want things to get out, then don't tell anyone.
You don't need to choose between them. If they aren't good friends and you don't believe you can trust them, then don't hang out with either of them anymore. If you think you can forgive them and move past it, then continue being friends with whoever you would like, just don't tell them your family secrets.
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You are really blowing this one out of proportion, I can understand being annoyed because they repeated something you didn't want said, but this is why you never say something you don't want other people knowing.
Seriously, You are 10. This typical middle school drama
If you don't like them then make new friends. Sometimes people aren't always what we think they are. An between middle school and high school you are going to see people come and go in your life. It's the way it goes, Be friends with them if you want but keep your business to yourself
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