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My ex started liking me again
My ex admitted that he liked me, and I kind of figured that he did. Honestly, I don't wanna get back together with him. I kind of did a bitch move the other day where I guess I sorta led him on. So our group of friends decided to go to his house to play but they were all guys (I'm the type who has mainly guy friends) and they all wanted to game. It was pretty late in the night and I was gonna game with them later, so to boost my energy, I said I would take a nap first. My ex decided to slip into bed with me 5 minutes later and I was half asleep and was like WTF. He put his arm around me and being the stupid drunk girl I am, I let him cuddle me. It sort of turned into a makeout session when he leaned in and kissed me. The next day, he was expecting me to be more intimate with him but I didn't want to, so now he's really pissed because he doesn't get what he wants. Idk, I kind of feel bad for "leading" him on like that and now he refuses to talk to me, but rather says bad things about me to others. What should I do?
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Well next time you're around him, I wouldn't get drunk.
You were drunk, how could he expect to be intimate with you the next day when all you were was drunk? He was stupid enough to set himself up for that.
Anyways, he's immature for talking crap about you. So just let that be and cut him out of your life. You don't really need a guy like that in your life anyways.
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You learned something and thats good...so next time you may be in the vicinity of your ex, not on purpose...just make sure you are not under the influence of anything, drinks or drugs. You need a clear mind to not let things go any further.
Let him say what he's gonna say and pay it no mind. There's nothing you can do to make it stop. Making threats only lowers your level of maturity as well as "playing mind games" with another person. You are better than that. We all do the stupid stuff in life. As long as we learn from it is whats important. So have a mental plan of how you will act if someone tells you the nasty stuff he says about you.
His words can't have any effect on you that you do not allow. You will only have a problem with it if you entertain his statements in your mind or agree with them. If you don't you'll be fine.
He's actually doing you a favor. Anyone who chooses to believe him right off the bat rather than get to know you, is not worth your time as a friend or more. And lastly, forgive yourself for doing something you kinda regret. It's okay. As long as you have learned from it.
Good luck dear.
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Put your foot down and tell him it's over and to back the fuck off. If you want people to get the picture then you need to grow a backbone. Sometimes being nice just isn't good enough. Don't invite him over, Don't answer calls/text and don't initiate contact. Tell him no!
If he hopped in bed while you were drunk then clearly he had intentions of taking advantage of you.
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