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Bleeding after not beeing a virgin.
I am about to be 19 years old and I lost my virginity when I was 15. I Did not bleed ever during sex ever but it just happened to me while i was getting fingered by my boyfriend. He asked if I was a virgin even though this wasnt the 1st time we did this so I dont know what he meant. He said it was maybe normal and maybe popped my cherry cause I was too tight. I was also a bit intoxicated. No pain, and went away after I cleaned myself up. What could this be? :(
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That's normal. I'm assuming you haven't had sex or very much sex since you were 15. Your hymen doesn't "pop or break". It just stretches, so since you haven't had sex in awhile, it probably just went back to normal.
Usually if your boyfriend is too rough while he's doing this, it can cause you too bleed, even if there wasn't any pain. So it might just be him.
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Lets set the record straight about just what the Hymen is: It is a thin membrane that stretches across the opening of the vagina. It generally has a circular or oval shaped opening through which menstrual fluid can flow out.
In many instances a female can be fingered through this opening and not break this membrane. This membrane can become dislodged from things like horse back riding, bike riding, gymnastics and falling.
If the Hymen is still intact when having first sexual intercourse it will be ruptured. This generally causes a sharp pain when it is ruptured and some bleeding. It does not stretch to accommodate the penis. Some women using a tampon may rupture their Hymen and not know it.
As to your question: Most likely your boyfriend either cut you internally with his nail or a callouses or he rubbed you raw to the point you bled. IF you have had intercourse, unless your partners penis was extremely thin, your Hymen was broken. If you felt no pain then you were one of the lucky ones or you had lost you Hyman to one of the many other ways a Hymen can become dislodged.
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Your cherry or hymen is not something that can be 'popped' It is a tighter ring of flesh that is very elastic and can be stretched out but once it isn't getting regular stretching from sex or sex toys, then it can become tighter again even if once stretched out.
Think about how far it has to stretch as well as others parts of a female in order to give birth! It goes back to its usual size just fine.
The skin in your vagina is sensitive and easily scratched or torn if the guy has rough nails, callouses on fingers or if no lube or not enough lube is used. The natural lubrication of a female can be much more watery than what is needed so repeated fingering of the g spot or anywhere else is going to drag on the skin and not provide the best friction to create and build the intensity needed for orgasm plus it could tear the delicate skin. Here's a video link to a gal who teaches on this very subject.
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Your hyman may have closed itself over again. When its broken-it doesn't actually break. Its still there, just closes over again.
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