we love each other but don't know how to tell each other.
Question Posted Wednesday July 31 2013, 10:42 am
hello I am an almost 13 year old girl and in 4th grade I was not popular and he (I will call him blue) was the second most popular guy, everyone liked him, he was athletic, cute, smart and nice. so one day my friend comes up to me and says "yesterday after school blue told me to tell you that HE LIKES YOU!" so i just go no no no your wrong why would anyone like me?! i'm not pretty, i'm super shy and not very smart. but i guess he still likes me! so then in the summer we hung out a few times then in 5th grade end of the year he asked me out. the summer we hung out once. just once. I miss him so much and i'm going into 7th grade. in MN where i live middle school is going into 6th grade and i haven't seen him in 2 years! i don't know if I should text him just to tell him how i still feel even if he doesn't feel the same or not. my friend texted him about a week ago saying i miss you and he said i cant wait for high school when we get to see each other again! i just miss him so much so any advice if i should text him or not? thanks. xoxo
lightoftruth answered Saturday August 3 2013, 11:41 pm: I'd say go for it and text him.
But I don't get the "we love each other but don't know how to tell each other" How do you know he loves you when he hasn't told you?
Just text him to say that you miss him. Don't tell him how you feel until later in the conversation. You don't want to freak him out. If he doesn't feel the same, then it's not big deal.
So yeah, text him. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Thursday August 1 2013, 12:26 am: Seconding Zane. I'm double your age, I just fell in love with someone, and it's totally about personality.
Yes text him. Don't start out with "I love you" start out with "I've missed you" and then tell him why you miss him. What you miss about spending time with him. See if he says the same kinda stuff, that he misses you too and that he can't wait to see you.
If he says the same kinds of stuff you do, tell him you still like him.
Xui answered Wednesday July 31 2013, 8:49 pm: Liking someone isn't about looks, This is were some people are wrong. Personality speaks louder
Also, How do you know if he likes you? Did HE tell you? I wouldn't always go by what someone else says as people lie and make up rumors all the time. Talk to him in person but never assume [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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