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hello i posted a thread called how to get your name and everything said about you taken off topix on a topix forum called topix editor and somebody starting saying things to me upsetting and i dont have an email address to report it so can you report that thread for me and get it deleted please and the reason is somebody is talking trash to me remove it thank you (link)
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Hi there,
You don't need an e-mail address. There is a link beside EVERY post that says "report abuse."
Click that link and do what it says.
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hi, im the one who asked about the advice but i need to give u the full story.
well about two months ago my boyfriend broke up and i was so confused at first to be honest cause i didnt see it coming until he texted me that night saying hey there instead of his normal hey beautiful so he called me and broke up with me and then texted me two seconds after saying this was just a break and normally why believe a guy when he says that but he isnt like most guys so i believed him. but then the two after that i bugged him and i know i shouldnt have but i did and i regret it. so then i kept texting him on and off cause i didnt understand why he would break up with me.
so the reasons he gave me were he didnt have time ( which he was busy with volleyball, track & school so he can get into a d1 school), things faded & i was more serious than him but that didnt make sense cause we were on the same page in our relationship and even talked about it.
so then i decided maybe he needed time cause i had questions and he just couldnt answer them and they were such easy questions but whatever so i gave him a month off and then texted him about three weeks ago and have been talking but sometimes he doesnt answer. then he told me he was mad cause i insulted him the few weeks after he broke up with me and i did but i didnt mean it, i was just angry so i apologized and he said thanks. i just dont know what he wants outta me.
well hopefully that helped. sorry its long
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Hi there,
That does help a lot, actually.
I know this would be hard for you to see from his point of view, and I don't know if it will help now even if you were able to. Even if this situation isn't going to work, perhaps what you learn from this, will make things better next time.
From what you have written, I think it is safe to say that there is a major piece missing from this story if there is any hope of fixing things.
If what you have presented is all there is, then what you have here is, at this point, pretty much him screaming "LEAVE ME ALONE!" at the top of his lungs. Not verbally, perhaps, but by his actions.
There is only one reason I know of that a guy will not contact a girl he likes for an entire month, and that is if he isn't sure she likes him.
You have put yourself out there by letting him know you are interested, and he has very clearly let you know that he is not interested.
The reasons he gave may have been valid at the time. Many guys feel very overwhelmed, especially if the gal wants to spend every moment together. It sounds like he didn't feel like he was as serious about the relationship as you were.
He told you this, directly, which is rare for a guy to do by the way. The problem here seems to be that "...we were on the same page in our relationship..." wasn't true.
You may have thought the two of you were on the same page, but either that was a misunderstanding, or something in the relationship caused him to turn the page.
This business of bugging him when you knew it would annoy him, then following that with a few weeks of insults, would turn a break due to time issues into a permanent goodbye.
Once you lose respect for someone, it is almost impossible to go back to the way things were.
I know you apologized, and he may well accept your apology, but that will not undo the hurt that your words may have caused.
I don't know if you are ready to hear this or not, and I am sorry to be the one to say it, but from a guy point of view... this relationship is over.
He has made it pretty clear that whatever was there has been broken beyond his ability to continue being with you.
Perhaps there will come a time in the future where things will be different... but that would be way down the road judging from what you have said.
If you give me an idea of the questions he couldn't answer, I could probably give you an idea of what he was avoiding saying by not answering them.
You end your question by stating that you don't know what he wants out of you... well, it sounds like he wants nothing at all from you. When a guy doesn't contact you for a month, it isn't playing hard to get... it is him moving on with his life.
Whatever happened, you may never know. That is the worst part of things like this. Sadly, you just have to move on and leave him alone. Nothing good will come of continuing to contact him when he doesn't want the contact.
If you haven't already, that is a sure way to kill any feelings he might have had left for you.
I am sorry.
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Everytime I try to update my football manager 2010 game to version from the original to v10.3 this error pops up.
Error creating update file - C;\Program Files (x86)\Sports Interactive\Football Manager 2010\tools\editor\data\format\database ui\citty ui.xml
Error 0x000004c8 - this requested operation cannot be performed on a file with a user-mapped section open.
Any body else have this problem, if so could you please help me (link)
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Hi there,
As it turns out there seem to be three common reasons people are getting this error message.
1) Anti-virus software interfering with the install. This goes double if you are running AVG anti-virus. Disable the resident shield protection and try again.
2) You are in Windows Vista, and you didn't run the patch as an administrator. Right click the patch, and run as administrator.
3) Use of the wrong version of the patch. There are different downloads for boxed versions and digitally purchased versions. Re-download the patch here:
http://community.sigames.com/showthread.php/192934-ANNOUNCEMENT!-Patch-10.3-Released!?p=4906237#post4906237
... and make sure you have the right version.
If none of these work for you, there is a dedicated support forum for the game right here:
http://community.sigames.com/forumdisplay.php/4-Football-Manager-Forums
I hope your frustration ends soon.
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so ive been talking with this one girl on here who was giving me advice and she thought it best that since i want my ex back that i try to get him back. we had a good relationship and dated for 8 months and he broke up with me 2 months ago and one of those months i gave him some space to thing about things. so i texted him once and he answered we had a long conversation and it was good. then i texted him again and he was out of town and said that he couldnt talk which i understand cause im always busy when im out of town. and then i texted him a few days after that which was probably fast? and he didnt answer.
i hate giving up and i know he is playing hard to get but idk how to get past that. like do i just leave him alone again or wait a few weeks and text him again. i dont wanna seem annoying to him. im not desperate at all cause i can be without a man i just want him back.
hopefully you can help (link)
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Hi there,
As a guy, I can tell you something about a male perspective on all this.
Guys don't play hard to get like girls do. It isn't that they never do so, it is just that they do it in a different way if they do it all.
You don't mention why you broke up. That is the missing piece here that would keep people from giving you better advice.
If you would write something to my inbox and explain it all, I will be happy to give you a guy's opinion on what is going through his head.
There is more to the story of why he is being this way, but I can't really say more until I know more.
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I have some Books which is Very Informative but these have some mistakes in many chapter. i want to Correct them but the new book price are very costly so can I convert these pages?
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It is hard to tell exactly what you are wanting here. I have read your previous questions, and each time you ask something the goal seems to change.
If you have had books printed, and do not with to have them re-printed, issue an addendum to the book. This small booklet will contain all the corrections for your book.
In the future, make sure you get a "proof" copy from the book publisher before the press-run is completed. This way you can make any corrections BEFORE the rest of the copies are printed.
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I've been with my boyfriend for five years. Last year we broke up but then got back together 5 months later. We've almost been back together for a year. We broke up becos I felt unappreciated, there was no romance, and it got so boring that I was going crazy. It's actually worse since we've gotten back together. There's never any thank yous or appreciation shown when I do things for him. He helps me out financially so I feel indebted to him. I'm afraid of making the wrong decision if I leave. Where do you draw the line? (link)
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Hi there,
You know, the funny thing is that this is so typical. The problem you describe is practically the reason couples therapy was invented.
Please understand that anyone here can only go by the information you have provided. With that in mind, I have the following thoughts:
Couples therapy. This is obviously something you feel you need to be happy, and something that obviously isn't important to him. Only one way to fix that, and that is to talk it out in a moderated setting.
He helps you financially, so you feel indebted to him... but not appreciated? He is paying for things. Typically this is how men show appreciation.
As for the lack of romance, well, 5 years is certainly past the honeymoon phase. There is a huge difference between the day to day business of maintaining a relationship and the initial "getting to know you" phase.
If you are expecting first date romance 5 years or more into a typical relationship, that isn't likely to happen.
It can happen... but only if you BOTH agree to make it work, and then work at it every day.
It isn't something one person can do. Trust me on that one.
It is very tempting, when reading what you written here, to think: "What a princess mentality!" The only thing that gives pause to that idea is that you are willing to leave the money.
As for where you draw the line:
Simply put: You draw that line wherever you aren't happy.
If his line in the sand and your line don't match up, one or both of you are doomed to be miserable.
The thing to remember is that a relationship is work. It can be very much like a job, in fact. When you are unhappy at work, you can try to fix the reasons for your unhappiness (that would be couples counseling in this case) or you quit, and find another job.
In your case there must be a reason that you got back together. You don't mention love... you just mention that he gives you money. As that is the only reason for being with him that you mention, my suggestion would be to break it off.
If he actually loves you, and is just bad at showing it (very typical for men and women to show this differently) then, with you only being worried about the money, it would be doing him a favor if you left.
If you do love him, and just forgot to mention that here, then couples counseling is really, seriously, the only hope you two have.
You mention things getting boring... well, that is likely to become more so with time. If you can't handle it now, believe me... that 10th year will be worse.
See, when you talk with him, you may be saying some of the same things that you are expressing here. If he feels like you are just with him for money, which is what your question indicates, then of course there is no romance!
Who is going to be romantic with someone who views them as a checkbook?
If he has gotten this vibe from you, it will not be easy to fix. Even if that isn't how you meant it, once he gets that idea in his head you are going to have to prove that it isn't true.
Again, it is time for some help. A good counselor will help you two to reach a common level of communication. As soon as you get there, you will know right away if you have any future together.
I wish you both all the best.
P.S. If you are as unhappy as you state, then don't be afraid to leave... you would be doing him a favor. Nobody wants to be with someone who thinks of them as unappreciative, boring and unromantic. You don't want to be with someone like that, right?
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so i want to visit my friend in virginia tech, but i live in new jersey. my mom won't let me drive down, so i was hoping i could take a train or a bus. can anyone help me find an affordable route from a friday to a sunday that leaves after 4pm on that friday? thanks! (link)
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Hi there,
You didn't say where in New Jersey to start from so I picked Newark. The nearest bus terminal I could find was Roanoke, VA.
Here is the current Greyhound fare:
Departing: Sep 3, 2010
From: Newark, NJ
To: Roanoke, VA
Miles: 485
Departs: 10:10pm
Arrives: 09:35am
Depending on how you book it, it will cost between $89.76 and $115.00
Best I can do by train:
Departs: 7:05 AM
Fri Sep 03 2010
Newark, NJ (NWK)
Station News Arrives: 4:05 PM
Fri Sep 03 2010
Clifton Forge, VA (CLF) Clifton Forge, VA
Clifton Forge
(CLF)
Station News PT9H Duration: 9 hr, 0 min
For $243.00.
This is what I was able to find via the web just be going to their sites:
Amtrak:
http://www.amtrak.com/
Greyhound:
http://www.greyhound.com/
These places have people who specialize in getting you where you need to go. Please consider calling them, as they have far better tools at their disposal than anyone here will. :-)
The numbers:
Greyhound fare information: 1-800-231-2222
The Amtrak Service Representative line: 1-800-872-7245
If you get an automated help system at either, just do what it says to talk to a real person, especially at Amtrak. They have great people who will really try to work it out for you.
1-800-872-7245
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I need to know what to charge individual and group participants for entering in a talent showcase? (link)
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Hi there,
The fees are usually based on the prizes and the venue if you are renting the location.
Typically you would consider the cost of the trophies/ribbons for the expected entrants, add that to the rental costs involved, if any, then you have your number.
Important to note that if you are charging for entry, you should make sure everyone gets something to take home.
Kinda like a car show... everyone gets a trophy for showing up. It is part of the process in paid events.
Your local trophy shop will be able to help you figure it all out. Give them a call, or better yet stop by so you can SEE the trophies in question. Don't be shy if you have NO idea what you are looking for.
Just tell them your budget, and the kind of event, and they will figure the rest out for you.
Happy event planning!
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Um, I have an Xbox 360 Elite console... the old one, not the 250gb model, but I want to get that model. My question is, I have about 7 games I bought from the Xbox live store(Like Assassins Creed and Halo 3 and Devil May Cry 4) I was wondering, if I give my old Xbox away, does that mean I will lose those games? Or is there a way to transfer them to my new Xbox. (link)
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Hi there,
Microsoft has a tool designed to do just what you want. It is called: "The Xbox live license transfer tool."
http://www.xbox.com/en-us/support/systemuse/xbox360/licensemigration/
Just go right on over there and follow the easy instructions when you get your new console.
Make SURE you do this BEFORE you give your old console away.
Enjoy!
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hey i found the you linked to me and to contact the topix adminstrators i need an email address so that i can contact them and ask them to delete and rebuild topix and if they did i would not vist their website ever again so please post me a link to where i can make an email address up (link)
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Hi there,
Just go to yahoo, hotmail, gmail or wherever and create an e-mail address. Once you have finished with your business, you can delete the e-mail account.
Whatever happened to you on topix must have been really bad. You have asked dozens of questions about this.
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Hi I'm in high school
and I have friend who is 26 and I love her she's getting married next year and I haven't seen her in along time I asked her about the wedding and she said only over 18 could come I really don't understand she was laughing so it must be a joke or not she never comes to my gatherings so is this a right friend for me or just give another chance? (link)
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Hi there,
This question was asked twice, but we can only show one of them on the site.
Please see the answers on the other copy here:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=585139
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I moved into a 4 bedroom apartment this year for college. I have my own bedroom and 3 roommates. The roommates have been living here for a long time and are good friends. They are 3-4 years older than me, which makes it hard to relate to them. I get along with them just fine. I go out with my other friends that are my age and when I come to the apartment, all I want to do is sit in my room and relax by myself. Should I feel bad that I'm not spending more time with them? I mean, we go out to dinner every once in a while and say hi in passing, but I don't feel like sitting with them in the living room when I could be sleeping or doing my homework... (link)
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Hi there,
You know, there are a great many people who would really like to have you as a roommate. Why? Simply because you aren't in their business 100% of every waking moment.
I have been the inbound roommate and been the one to agree to let someone room with me and the one recurring theme through all of it is that there were never any issues like what you are afraid of.
As long as you aren't being deliberately anti-social, all is well.
This is something you should discuss with your new roomates, but I think you will be surprised at their response. Pleasantly surprised. :-)
Every batch of people is going to be different, of course, but if you had to pick a way to be for maximum happiness in the typical rooming situation, your chosen way to be would be my top pick.
Take care. Oh, and it was nice to hear someone going to college actually doing homework! ;-)
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I had a nightmare that i was laying in a casket thirsty. this nightmare was so creepy. i'm scared that this is foreshadowing thati will die. but don't plenty of people have weird nightmares liket his that mean absolutely nothing at all? i'm scared haha is that a stupid reason to be?? I'm re doing my room and i liked this ruffly one and my twin says not to get it cause it looks like a dead girl's blanket so when i took my nap i was trying to figure out what would look good in my new room and maybe thats why i dreamt that? also, i began to think that i might be bisexual and i keep talking to this one guy who my sister likes and i'm scared that she'll find out and i commented a bisexual girl's picture on facebook saying your so pretty girl (link)
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This is certainly nothing to worry about. I had a recurring dream when I was little that involved me falling to my death. Nothing happened, still here. :-)
Not the slightest thing to worry about. Dreams can often be the brain misfiring because of a chemical imbalance. Example: There is this one aged cheddar cheese that I dearly love... BUT I know that if I eat it, that night's dreams will be absolutely insane. I still eat the 5 year old aged cheddar. ;-)
As for the sexual issue in the dream... you know what, I doubt there is a person alive over the age of 12 who hasn't had a dream that involved something the very thought of which would make them blush.
Doesn't mean a thing.
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18/f
So me and my boyfriend have been dating just over 3 months and it's going relatively smoothly for the most part. Well last night I find out that one of my newer friends dated him a while back which is totally fine until she told me something bout they're ending. She thought they were fine and everything and had no problems well one nght he got off work and went over to a girls house not telling anyone where he was going or anything. He's 3 years younger than me so his mom was def wondering where he was at this point. Once they got him home him n his ex talked n he dumped her for the girl whose house he was at. It turned out he was "talking" to one girl while dating his ex so it was almost like he was dating 2 ppl at once until he decided who he wanted more. He has never told me this and never told me anything close to it. I've always asked him why his mom never let's him stay out at night and obviously this is why but he never told me. His ex who is also my friend told me not to ask bout it because she slipped when she started telling me it anyways. I don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart but now I just feel like I can't trust him as much. I want to hear it from him but don't know how to go about it because i always thought he was never hiding anything. Ugh please help!! :( (link)
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My goodness, what a situation to be in!
I am sorry that you are tangled up with someone like this, but, if it helps at all, you aren't alone.
This is a very common thing that men and women both do. To give it a name, I call it the used car shuffle.
Just like someone will trade in a used car on a better (in their mind) model, or in some cases an easy car to get into, if you understand me, whenever they are able to.
This guy traded one girl for another. Sad as I am to tell you this... you will be next. It might not be today, or this month, maybe not even this year... but sooner or later, he will move on just like he did before.
People who do this are really not people you want to be with. Consider: He is still with the old girl while he tries out the new girl to see if she gives him what he wants.
The old girl, gets the diseases the new girl has as a parting gift from him.
There just isn't any winning when someone thinks this way.
Please think carefully about this decision.
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Well im 13 and i still have not started my first period, ive had some REAL cramps about a week ago and they hurt so bad! It was on the first day of school an di was in Career Managment. Its lasted for a day or so. Well i have boobs and hair down yonder' and discharge and i have had all this (plus armpit hair) for almost 3 years now and i still have not gotten my period... Me and my friend are in a contest to see who will start first and she is sure it will be me. I hope it is me, even though shes a few months older she just started developing boobs and has not gotton pubic hair or alot of armpit hair like i have. Shes really jealous. I try to encourage her about it and make her feel better. I dont want to feel like a bad friend to her though by thinking i will get it first. But is there anyway to make it come faster? I want to tell her about it and use it myself... I just really want some help. By the way we are in the 8th grade. And what do i do if i start in the middle of class??? (link)
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You know, just something to think about here:
Every woman I know would laugh at this contest of yours... why? Women generally hate their period. It is usually painful, a bit messy and very limiting as for what you can do at certain times.
Please try not to be in such a hurry. I was discussing this question with my ladyfriend and she mentioned that: "Oh she thinks she wants it, but once she gets it she will hate it and wish it never came."
I guess Peeps covered everything else.
Take care, and enjoy the time you guys have left without having to worry about this stuff.
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hi im kayla and i have a really important question!.. can a guy go to jail for being 20 yrs of age and dating a girl who is 14 turnin 15 right before he turns 21 can he go to jail an is that ok cuz to me it sounds fine as long as they dont do anithing are they wrong for this?? please answer as soon as possible .. thanx i would really appreciate it !!!!!! (link)
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Something that wasn't pointed out earlier is this:
It is hard to prove a negative.
In other words, if someone THINKS you guys are having sex, he will end up in jail unless he can find a way to prove that he didn't so much as talk dirty to you. It just can't be done.
You also have to ask yourself why he isn't with someone his own age. There are very limited reasons why a man his age would be risking the rest of his life to be around you.
He knows that if anyone calls the cops, his butt is gone, possibly for several years... so why is he risking that?
Please think about that. I have seen a number of people here end up in awful situations after being used by their older partner.
Take care, and please think this through.
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Can somebody tell me about Tennessee State University. Is it a good college? Is it hard to join a sport like track there? How is the college life? Classes hard? Thanks I very much appreciate it. (link)
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There are people, as Peeps mentioned, at the school who have the job of helping people like you find out if the school is a good fit for you.
Having done this myself, back in the day, please consider going old-school and picking up the phone.
If you are close enough to tour the campus, that is the best way to go. They will have someone take you around and get the feel of the place.
If this isn't the school for you, they may even have alternate suggestions based on what you felt was missing there.
Good luck!
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My teeth are horrible. I didn't take care of them when I was a kid, didn't drink much milk when I got pregnant and now I have one rotted out and the other top teeth are starting to do the same. They also hurt. It will cost a lot of money to get them fixed and I do not have that kindof money right now. I am very self concious about it and I won't even smile anymore. Is there anything I can do to make them look a little better until I can get the money to have them fixed? I want to be able to smile again! (link)
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There is not much you can do about this problem without professional help.
The things that you CAN do now would be to stop any behaviour that got you herein the first place.
There may be teeth that are salvagable now, but if you don't take better care of yourself, they will not be when the time comes to have them fixed.
If you are in a low income situation, there may be help for you at a rate you can afford. Check with your local medicare office. If your pregnancy is recent, WIC may be able to refer you to another agency which can help you.
I wish I could give you better news, but I can't and I am sorry for that.
I know somone on this site that had terrible teeth. Went in and had full dentures done and told me that it was the best thing she ever did.
Just another option to consider.
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Ok iv got this problem where my back and neck will get stiff and soar like a sharp pain and the only way to make the stiffness to go away is to pop my neck and back but I constantly have to do this several times a day my question is does anybody know what my problem is is there a doctor in the house??? (link)
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Here is the problem with cutesy titles... I wouldn't have looked at this question, had I not had to handle an abuse report on the user that gave another answer.
Having VAST experience with what you describe, I would like to suggest something:
Find yourself a good chiropractor!
This is really important. The key word here is GOOD. A bad chiropractor can, very easily, make you wish you hadn't been born. Worse yet, about the only way to recover from such a thing is to then find a good one and pay him or her to straighten you out.
Having been through this both ways, there is one word you should keep in mind: "References!"
Ask for references. If they don't wish to offer any... leave!
People who find a good bone cracker will tell anyone who will stop long enough to listen. This means it is REALLY a bad sign when they can't offer you several that are willing to vouch for them.
Take care, and I certainly hope you get yourself straightened out.
P.S. Peeps is right on the money that this could be something more serious. A good chiropractic office will be the first to refer you to a clinician in the appropriate field if your symptoms bother them.
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can you get pregnant if yu swallow sperm from giving a guy a blow job? (link)
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Nope, not possible.
However, it is a good idea to keep in mind that you can get any sexually transmitted disease he has. Oral herpes or genital warts in your mouth would really be a bad thing to have to carry around for the rest of your life.
Just something to think about.
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