how can i get my guy to take more control in our relationship when it comes to intimacy? it seems like whenever we do anything i have to make the first move. i mean once i make a move hes into it... but he wont do ANYTHING unless i do it first... is it cause hes scared hell offend me or what? so why and how can i change it? thanx
Thats called Respect!!! Just tell him you`d like for him to take charge instead of you all the time.. Tell him you want him to suprise you every now and then.. ♥ Dez
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how can i get people to love talking to me?
Just be yourself..! Theres nothing else to it.. ♥ Dez
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does it hurt to have sex the 1st time for girls?
will the guy leave you?
and im to scared to wear tampons so do you think it will hurt?
dont be a bitch.
i rate high
Some girls think it hurts some don`t.. Majority of females think sex for the first time hurts a little bit.. It seriously isn`t something we can`t handle at all or make us cry.. If the guy goes slow and everything you should be fine and in probably no pain cuz your mind will be set on him..
If this guy really cares for you then NO he will not leave you.. Just make sure its something you don`t regret.. Thats why some people wait til their married other then religion.. But if your scared about that then i`d suggest waiting til then.. Also make sure you have sex with somebody you love and care dearly for and make sure their the same way towards you..
Tampons aren`t painful unless you put it in wrong.. Follow directions on the box and make sure to be relaxed.. ♥ Dez
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i don't know how it happens, but every time i'm close friends with guys, they get a crush on me. does this always happen to everybody or am i just doing somthing wrong? how am i supposed to act in order to eliminate this possibility?
Hey hun..
I understand what you mean.. majority of my friends are guys.. And most of em have a cruch on me at the beginning then we eventually talk about it and tell them i don`t like them no more then frinds.. I figured its because i ain`t like most girls i can roll with the guys be girly and still have fun with the guys.. I think tellin them you just want to be friends is the only way.. Maybe try not to get so close at first with them which might be hard i understand.. ♥ Dez
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I was on Depo provera for 4 years - I stopped getting my shots about 8 months ago. I was having a period every 5 days for 3 days length. I had unprotected sex twice while I was on a "period" they have now stopped it has been 3 weeks since I have bled at all. My nipples are slightly sensitive but they have not darkened like they did when I was pregnant before. Is there a chance I could be pregnant? If so I would only be a couple of weeks pregnant , would symptoms be starting already?
No you most likely aren`t pregnant since you had sex on your period.. And that shot takes a year to get out of your system.. So i think you have no worries and i don`t think you`d have symptoms so early.. ♥ Dez
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this.
Yes this is a mistake.. Even tho you plan on doing it in the future it still a mistake.. Think about your life ahead of you..How are you going to support this child with out a highschool education.. I mean you can`t get a decent job with out that.. And if you just have a child with some random guy then you won`t have a daddy in this childs life and probably no child support to help you out.. i`m mean sice your parents *don`t love you* then most likely you`ll get kicked out and have no where to go.. No money no family and no help.. And baby`s take more love then you`ll recieve.. So think about that.. ♥ Dez
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i am in my late teens. i dont know if i am suitable for this site but im going to ask anyway. rite, i cant remember if i put a tampon in the other day. their is no string. now i am after having intercourse and dont know what angle it could be at(if theirs one in their at all)is it true that a salt water bath will just get it out by itself? thanks, concerened
I`ve never heard of that.. I`d go see a doctor cuz i`d think salt might give you an infection or something.. If you seriously think there might be a tampon inside you see a doctor soon as possible.. If you leave a tampon in for a long time there is a possible chance of TSS.. ♥ Dez
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i had my period yesterday..is ok to take like one advil or aleve everyday to reduce cramp pains?
Yeah tHATS OKAY.. Maybe ask your doctor first hun.. but i`d think it`ll be alrite.. ♥ Dez
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i like this boy. i don't know if he likes me. he's cute, smart, and funny. i like this boy so much. i don't know what to do or say. can u please help me. i will rate high. thanks
sincerely,
someone
Whats up?? thats a good beginner!! ♥ Dez
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I liked this guy soooooooo much for like 2 years..and one of my so called "friends" told me he liked me and that he was gonna ask me out and i was SOOOOOOOOOO Happy..but a few days ago my best friend called me and told me that everything that my other so called friend told me was all a lie and i was bawling my eyes out forever..I like him sooo much and i dont know what to do
Well forget this so called friend...! gosh thats mean.. Ummm how about you mentioning that you like him or ask him out yourself.. ♥ Dez
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im haveing trouble desideing what to tell my grandma i want for xmas any ideas?
ill rate
How about gift cards!!! there great.. Get them for a Cd store,clothing store.. resturant.. Shoe store.. ♥ Dez
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Okay this morning I woke up And there was CRUST around my Belly Button what does that mean?????
Is is anything serious??
No hun i don`t think its serious just clean it better.. Use alcohol and a q-tip for the inside.. ♥ Dez
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if yu have stretch marks around like yur arms and some on yur waist .. what does that mean? is there any way to get rid of them WITHOUT buying something?
Sorry hun they don`t just go away.. Id suggest palmers coco butter to make them less noticeable.. I know you didn`t want to spend money but it was a suggestion.. ♥ Dez
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So basically I told my bf that I feel like Im not good enough looking for him and how i feel like nobody could be attracted to me. *this was all an online convo* and i asked "know what i mean?" and he said yeah..then made some excuse that he had to go do his hw. This gets wheels turning in my head..if im not attractive to him, how can this last?? :( help me
Well maybe he`s attracted to your personality.. it can work and he`s a guy maybe wasn`t paying attention to what he said.. Ask if thats how he really feels and if he would like to stay with you even tho he doesn`t think your attracted.. He can still like you and everything.. Don`t freak out yet til you ask him yourslef.. ♥ Dez
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So I am 15 years old and I am 5'3 I currently weigh 215 lbs. I would really like to be about 140 by the first of June ( you know summer time )
I work out maybe twice a week for about an hour at a time. I don't drink and pop at all and I replace school lunch with a salad. Is there anyway possible to loose 60-75 lbs in 6 months? I would even be satisfied with 50. I really want this. I work alot and don't have alot of time for working out for such. And I have alot of dairy in my regular diet. I rate 5's!! please I would really appresheate all your help.
Just stick to what your doing.. work hard and try to fit in more exercise if possible.. best of luck.. ♥ Dez
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i asked my ex bf if he loves his gf more and if they have a better relationship than him and i did.
his response was "nah, i feel like shes my best friend."
What does that mean?
He NEVER called/considered me his best friend!
She gave it up on the 2nd night they hung out(cheated on her bf)
Ummmmm I think he means she`s better.. Sorry but thats how`d i`d take it hun.. ♥ Dez
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So i have been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and a half and it seems like recently things have been a little dull..any ideas and how to spice things up in the relaltionship and make things more exciting?
How about being more flirting.. Going out and doing something new.. talk about something new.. ♥ Dez
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i've been with my boyfriend for over a month and he still hasn't kissed me? i'm his first real girlfriend so i don't think he's ever kissed anyone before. he also still has braces and he's really insecure about them. he desperately wants to get them off and talks about it all the time. do you think maybe he could be waiting for that to happen? that would suck. how can i hint that i want him to kiss me without coming right out and saying it (that would be weird!)?
Well since he`s insecure about the braces that probably makes him uncomfortable and since your his first girlfriend so that makes sense.. If you really want a kiss make the move yourself.. He probably won`t mind just be a little nervous and maybe even suck at it the first time but he`ll get better.. best of luck! ♥ Dez
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Did Steve from Blues Clues die????
Huh** i watched his last show he went to college.. His cousin is takin care of blue.. ♥ Dez
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Okay I started my period a few months ago and I'm only using pads. I'm SO scared to try to put in a tampon and I don't even know why! I'm afraid I'll do something wrong and hurt myself. My mom keeps telling me to try one, they are way more sanitary blah blah blah. Can someone PLEASEEE help me? I don't really know what I'm asking, I guess just I need tips for how to put a tampon in for the first time. Thanks! I rate for only GOOD answers!
The directions are on the box hun.. Um follow those but really try to relax when you do it or it won`t be very comfortable.. ♥ Dez
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