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does it hurt to have sex the 1st time for girls?
will the guy leave you?
and im to scared to wear tampons so do you think it will hurt?
dont be a bitch.
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it hurts a lil bit.. and if you to really love each other he probley want leave you.. but you should think about it.
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well i learned if you have sex w/a guy in college it hurts less than with a hs guy because they are more expirience even if they are still a virgin or whatever.
and tampons dont hurt and shouldnt hurt unless its your first time. sometimes it take a while to get the hang or it
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no,no,and no
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Some girls think it hurts some don`t.. Majority of females think sex for the first time hurts a little bit.. It seriously isn`t something we can`t handle at all or make us cry.. If the guy goes slow and everything you should be fine and in probably no pain cuz your mind will be set on him..
If this guy really cares for you then NO he will not leave you.. Just make sure its something you don`t regret.. Thats why some people wait til their married other then religion.. But if your scared about that then i`d suggest waiting til then.. Also make sure you have sex with somebody you love and care dearly for and make sure their the same way towards you..
Tampons aren`t painful unless you put it in wrong.. Follow directions on the box and make sure to be relaxed.. ♥ Dez
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It varies by girl as to whether it will hurt or not. Some have pain while others do not.
As to whether the guy will leave you, there's no way of telling. If he's just after sex, chances are once he gets it, he'll be gone. If you're in a committed, long-term relationship and you're both ready for that step, chances are he'll stay.
Tampons generally shouldn't hurt. I would try a smaller tampon with a plastic applicator the first time. Many brands have teenfit or slimfit tampons that would work. If it feels uncomfortable, it may not be in correctly.
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Well, I'm still a virgin, but from what my friends say about it, IT HURTS. But everyone is different, so it might not hurt for you, but may hurt for someone else, y'know? Depending on what type of guy you're dating & how far into the relationship can also vary your second question. Honestly, no one knows if the guy will leave you, but there's a chance. Wearing tampons doesn't hurt. Well it didn't for me, but it might for you. Again, it's totally different, you might be completely opposite of me. But I'm not completely sure. But the first time you try a tampon it's very discomforting, and unusual because you're not used to having something in your vagina pretty much all day. But you just get used to it after a while!
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Gotta be honest. It hurt my first time. I also bled. Didn't feel so great the second time either... but then it clicks or something and its great. Hope that helps.
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Sometimes it hurts. I've met girls who claimed their first time didn't hurt at all.
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It will hurt to have sex for the frist time trust me but if you dont want it to hurt let him stick it in when he is not hard...... Some guy will leave you but if it is with a guy you love then no he will not leave you... I dont like wearing tampons but they dont hurt..
you friend,
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Hi There,
Knowing when the time feels right is a personal decision, whether you're in a relationship or up for something more casual.
So how can you be sure that you're ready? Whether Admittedly there's no one-size-fits-all when it comes to sex and relationships, but there are ways that you can feel more confident about the choices you make.
Sex is a choice. It is not a compulsory subject. Whoever you're with, it means any kind of sexual activity has to be a joint agreement - something you both consent to rather than something you are doing just because you feel you should.
Whatever your outlook or experience of sex, even if you're still a virgin, it's always wise to be prepared. Nobody will assume you're expecting sex. If anything, having a condom at the ready simply shows respect for yourself and whoever you might strike lucky with.
Not just with your mates, but the person you're thinking of sleeping with. The closer you are to each other, the easier it is to talk openly. Don't duck out of the conversation if sex is on the cards with someone new - if anything, it makes that chat more pressing.
Sex isn't just a physical act. A level of emotional intimacy and trust is involved whether you're in a long-term relationship or not. So be clear about your feelings and expectations, and negotiate boundaries. It won't guarantee that the sex will be mind-blowing, but it will minimise the chances of feeling let down and used later on.
There's no need to pretend you know it all, and if you're considering sex for the first time it's only natural to have questions. If those questions can't be addressed with your partner, put sex on hold and find out together. It's better to wait until you're ready, than to rush in and simply hope for the best.
All the best
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Everyone feels different for the first time. If your hymen isn't broken, it might hurt a little but you should feel good. The guy won't leave you though. If you moan, that would be a turn on for him. All guys understand that sex for the first time might hurt a bit, but don't worry. Using tampons is not painful at all! When you get them, just read theinstructions how to put them in right. It won't hurt & you won't even feel them.
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It hurts so bad the first time. Don't listen to anyone that says it doesn't hurt that bad, because believe me, it does! If the guy loves you, no he won't leave you. Tampons don't hurt at all.
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In my experience if you are confident enough in yourself, then sex will be how you want it to be. If a guy leaves you after having sex with you- good ridden's to him- he was an asshole anyways.... and there is no use spending time on assholes.
It didn't hurt to have sex the first time for me. I was with a guy for 2 years and we didn't have sex- a lot of messing around though. I think maybe that's why it didn't hurt the first time. Also, I used dildos before having sex- so maybe that helped to.
Tampons are wayyyy better than pads. If you need to use tiny ones and work up its worth it not to be sitting in blood all day. They come in very small sizes, and they've been around a very long time, so they have some history. People wouldn't use them if they hurt, but it's a matter of personal preference.
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I'm not a bitch nor am I going to act like one. Every girl is different, some it hurts, some it doesn't, but if it does hurt the pain is small, kinda like a pinch, and then as time goes by it get way better, no pain. The guy won't leave you unless he is a big fat jerk, and in my experience guys don't leave, just make sure you are old enough and mature enough to have sex, personally I won't until marriage, thats just me, and its not only because religion but other things as well. Tampons don't hurt unless you put them in wrong, and even then that can be corrected by taking it out.
So in conclusion, sex usually doesn't hurt, guys don't leave, and tampons are perfectly fine to use, no pain, just be sure to put it in correctly.
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