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not good enough for my boyfriend
So basically I told my bf that I feel like Im not good enough looking for him and how i feel like nobody could be attracted to me. *this was all an online convo* and i asked "know what i mean?" and he said yeah..then made some excuse that he had to go do his hw. This gets wheels turning in my head..if im not attractive to him, how can this last?? :( help me
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u should never show ANYONE that
you think your unatractive theyll just use it against you when your in a fight.honestly what makes you feel unatractive?remove all unwanted hair, get a better
more hotter way of dressing loose weight is you need to and bear in mind that you are pretty and better than a lot of other people.have a cute hairstyle and always dress in stuff that match.
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He might just think that you are just trying to break up with him slowly and easily. He may just be confused.
THINK ABOUT IT,
Bowen
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Love goes way beyond looks. He could love your personality more and that could be what hes really attracted to.
Also,maybe he didnt mean it that way.
When you said know what i mean and he said yeah.... perhaps he was meaning it like I also have felt like I am unattractive and I am not good looking enough for you.
Guys are like that. They dont know how to properly express their feelings.
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Hon... don't tell him you feel unattractive and don't ask his opinion! That's conversation to have with your closest girlfriends so they can boost your ego. Your boyfriend feels put on the spot and like your fishing for a compliment. He already likes you and I'm sure he wants to be with a confident, happy chick. So be your happy, confident best whenever you are talking to him!
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Well maybe he`s attracted to your personality.. it can work and he`s a guy maybe wasn`t paying attention to what he said.. Ask if thats how he really feels and if he would like to stay with you even tho he doesn`t think your attracted.. He can still like you and everything.. Don`t freak out yet til you ask him yourslef.. ♥ Dez
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You don't have to be pretty in order for someone to like you. You could maybe ask him what he thought of the way you look. But chances are, if you weren't good enough for him, then he wouldn't be with you.
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because you should not be loved for your physical appearance, but rather for who you are; there there does not need to be a physical attraction for there to be love. don't think too much about it, because if you were blind, would attractiveness matter to you? so yeah anyways, it will last if both of you can help eachother see that even though you've heard it a million and one times, its personality that counts and not looks. hope that helped and good luck
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if hes going out with you, then you are good looking enough.
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