Question Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 11:19 pm
i've been with my boyfriend for over a month and he still hasn't kissed me? i'm his first real girlfriend so i don't think he's ever kissed anyone before. he also still has braces and he's really insecure about them. he desperately wants to get them off and talks about it all the time. do you think maybe he could be waiting for that to happen? that would suck. how can i hint that i want him to kiss me without coming right out and saying it (that would be weird!)?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday December 4 2005, 7:58 pm: Well since your the first real girlfriend, that means he's probably inexperienced and is afraid he won't know what he's doing and will be bad at it and you'll like dump him cause of it. Sometimes, hinting does no good. Boys don't usually get hints half the time.. so I suggest just going for it. Just whenever you two are alone sometime, just go and kiss him. ;D I hope I helped.
knowitallkid answered Friday December 2 2005, 7:29 pm: It may be weird but you should kiss him, he probably feels like he's gonna be bad at it, so then you wont like him anymore or anything like that. Or just talk to him about, dont hint, just straight out tell him. [ knowitallkid's advice column | Ask knowitallkid A Question ]
hypergrl4eva answered Friday December 2 2005, 7:05 pm: If you think he's nvr kissed anyone before maybe he's just nervous...if hes always talking about his braces tell him you think there cute and you don't mind them. Also you can make the 1st move instead of waiting for him to come to you! Hope I helped!! <3 [ hypergrl4eva's advice column | Ask hypergrl4eva A Question ]
MissJessicaPaige answered Friday December 2 2005, 3:04 pm: Well, since you're his first real girlfriend, he probably doesn't know how to act and when to do certain things. Maybe he's just waiting for the right time to make a move. ((Before and/or after he gets his braces off)) Now, for dropping little hints you could be like,..."So,...((dude's name))have you ever kissed anyone before?" And tell your girl friends because they're usually alot better at dropping hints rather than the hint dropper person...((you in other words, that both you and i can understand! lol))
Give him some time, IF your his first real girlfriend, hes not going to just come right out and kiss you. Hes probably super nervous, and if he's insecure about his braces, than he might just be waiting to get them off, but you never know. Yeah, it would be weird if you said "Kiss Me Already"..heh. But If it's after a while and you realize that hes just not kissing you for some reason, then YOU should go for it! :)
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday December 2 2005, 12:47 am: Well since he`s insecure about the braces that probably makes him uncomfortable and since your his first girlfriend so that makes sense.. If you really want a kiss make the move yourself.. He probably won`t mind just be a little nervous and maybe even suck at it the first time but he`ll get better.. best of luck! ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Kristen03 answered Friday December 2 2005, 12:19 am: That's a tough one. It depends on how you are with making the moves. You could just hug him one time, and look in his eyes, and let it happen. I don't really think he would turn away, but who knows. [ Kristen03's advice column | Ask Kristen03 A Question ]
luckybutt32 answered Thursday December 1 2005, 11:52 pm: he may be waiting for that yes. but he may also be uptight if he isnt experienced. sometimes girls are afraid to take the lead and make the move because of fear of rejection and labeling as a whore. well nowadays throw that out the window. kiss him lonnnng and hard and moan a lil and when he hears that he will want to kiss u over and over and over again. or............email him tell him your feelings. men tend to be more open on emails and instant messenger then in person. he might tell u he wants to. [ luckybutt32's advice column | Ask luckybutt32 A Question ]
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