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ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am???

honestly when u start to mature you'll be able to tell what kind of guys are after ass... and what kind of guys will like you for who u are... have a im not puttin up with BS attitude with the guys that try to treat you like that... and just dont talk to guys like that... trust me there are guys out there who will like you for who you are...

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i want to paint my room black, and then splat paint it with bright pink. i thin kit would look awsome!!it would really reflect my wild, punk personality..im sure it would. but my mom says she will never paint my room black. i get soooooo pissed off!!!! nop matter what i do she always says no. i want the theme to be pink and black no matter what. please tell me what to do or how to get my mom to consider it!!!

please help!!

-britski-

have a little talk with her about it... ask it why it bothers her... and tell her why you want it... if u talk to her nicely maybe she'll meet you halfway

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what do i do about a controlling boyfriend? my boyfriend is allowed to mess around and talk to girls but im not allowed to talk to guys! i found this so unfair and everyone thinks he has total control over me because when we break up, and he asks me back out, i always say yes. is it because i'm weak or i'm just under his little 'spell'?

honestly a lotta girls are like that... but u need to have more respect for yourself cuz you dont deserve to be treated like that...learn to say no and keep sayin it...

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My little cousin has down syndrome, and alot of my friends always make fun of people with it and it really can hurt me, i*ve told them before and they say sorry and everything, but they keep saying stuff! What should I tell my friends? Or should I look for new ones? I dunno!!

hmmm... what i would do is pick on them about sumthing that u know they are sensitive about... and then when they ask why... be like "it doesnt feel good when it happenz to you rite" sumtimes people truly dont understand how it feels untill it happenz to them... if they continue to act this way try makin new friends

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I have crush on this fine guy...lol...and he never seems t really notice me...and we used 2 be friends in 6th grade...so he knows me, but we havnt talked for 2 years and i feel sad...What should i do?

invite a whole bunch of friends to go out to eat or go to the movies or sumthing ... invite him when hes with 1 of his friends that u are friends with so you can be like hey u wanna come too...

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i have a lot of black heads on my nose...i wash my face everyday but i just cant get rid of black heads...if anyone knows anyways how 2 get rid of them please help!!!!...thnxxxx!!!

Get a blackhead remover... im not sure what its called but you can find it near the tweezers... that should help a lot... if it doesnt make an appointment with a dermatologist and they'll give u sum prescription medicine

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i've never had a boyfriend, but everytime someone likes me and i feel like they are leading towards asking me out or anything i get really nervous and uncomfortable and i just wish i was out of the situation...i'm hoping it's just because i haven't really liked any of them, but is this normal??

Yeah thats normal... i think that you like the idea of those guys liking you... but u arent really attracted to them thats why u get all uncomfortable and wanna get outta the situation... just give it sum time and you'll run into sum1 u are attarcted too

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How can you tell if your 'cherry is popped'? I'm a virgin but can't tampons sometimes do it? Sorry if it's under the wrong category.

Im not sure how u can tell... but Tampons can pop it... the reason why they say that u cant lose ur virginity to tampons is cuz ... technically you are still a virgin cuz you've never had sex... but u can still pop ur cherry using tampons... it only takes about 4 inches

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do girls like a guy to be to sensitive or not sensitive at all

depends on the girl... sum girls like sensitive guys & sum girls like bad boiZ... be urself

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How do you get a picture in your column? I keep trying to upload a picture of me and it keeps saying its larger than 15K.

make the picture smaller in paint

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Does black really match with anything?

yup and so does Denim...

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I have been talkin to my best friends ex boyfriend a lot lately. and i think i like him. when we were talkin online he asked for my email address and eh emailed me a picture of himself. (hes cute too!) well when i was tlakin to my friend she was like "you don't liek him do you cuz that is a nono!" and i told ehr i didn't because i ddn twant her to get mead. but i really do like this kid any idea what i shoudl do??? I'll rate if your answer helps at all!!

You have to decide whats more important to you... a frienship ... or a relationship that might not even last... try to respect your friends feelings... look at it from her point of view... would u be ok wit is if one of your friends was dating your X... always talkin about how great he is, seeing them together... think about that and decide

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I dated this person 4 almost 4 yrs... I loved them soo much n then we went down hill. I don't know if I'm still "inlove" with them, but I always think about them. It's starting to get better and fade away, but they seem to already have moved on. It's only been a year!! What should I do?? Do you think they've moved on?We were eachothers first loves, and I thought first loves don't end!!!Plz Help!!

First loves do end... obviously if there is a first there will be a second... whether they have moved on or not u should try to move on... u cant hold on to sumthing forever... eventually you have to let go and continue with your life... things change, people change... life goes on :)

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my 17 yr old sister is 8 weeks pregnant adn i kno shes not ready to be a mother and i dont kno how to help her get prepared! wut should i do?

Look it up on the internet... u can learn a lot that way... keep in mind tho... no one is ever ready to have a baby... its just sumthing that u learn along the way...

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what are some ways to stay motivated at home? ever since summer hit, i jus feel like bein on here n laying around the house and not puttin pix in albums n stuff like that that i really need 2 do 2 make my room less cluttered... any ideas gurlz?

OoO u should go to Ikea ... they organizers that will make ur room look less cluttered...

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Theres this guy and he likes me and I like him..he's coming over to hang out two days from now and hes gonna ask me out...I just wanted to hang out first..but anyways whenever we talk online we have all these pauses...are there any solid topics that could keep a conversation going for more then 2 minutes? I'm scared we'll have nothing to talk about and stuff when he comes over!!!!

sometimes its easier to talk to people in person rather than on the phone or online... i really dont like talkin to people on the phone... but i go on and on when i talk to people in person... just relax and he urself... im sure you'll have plenty to talk about

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i have this friend who i only like as a friend, but he likes me more than a friend. how can i tell him that i only want to be friends without making him mad?


confused wierdo

Let him know that you dont wanna ruin y'allz friendship... and that you guys should remain friends... dont say anything like we'll see what happenz in the future cuz you'll just be gettin his hopes up for nothing ...

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hello. all my life i have been made fun of because of my muslim faith. people always say, there is bin laden, get him.they think i support the 9/11 attacks. my parents support them but i don't. please help me get through this before i go crazy.

No its not tru at all that all muslims have small breasts...

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can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period??

yeah... when ur on ur period ur body releases an fertile egg... if u have unprotected sex before that egg is realized than you can get pregnant

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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??

Just let him be... if he is Gay he will let y'all kno when he is ready...

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