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guys/friends/reputation
ok...i admit it,i kinda have a reputation fer being kinda slutty...but i dont do stuff...
even tho i'm kinda slutty...all these guyz expect stuff frum me n they obsess ovr me n it bugs me whenevr they do that(some try to touch me)...how do i get them 2 stop being perves and get them to lyk me for who i am???
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honestly when u start to mature you'll be able to tell what kind of guys are after ass... and what kind of guys will like you for who u are... have a im not puttin up with BS attitude with the guys that try to treat you like that... and just dont talk to guys like that... trust me there are guys out there who will like you for who you are...
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i understand how your feeling .. i was being named as a slut for a while .. i had three boyfriends and jumped from one to the other verry quickly .. well im sure first of all your very pretty so you shouldnt have to be ashamed of that .. maybe dress down some .. you dont have to wear such flashy outfits that show skin and that are so tight you can barely breathe (even tho you gotta love those outfits sometimes ;]) .. if any of your guy friends ever try and touch you and your not comfortable just smack them and you know if they keep insisting they dont respect you ... be yourself around them .. dont try to flirt to much and DONT BE BOY CRAZY ! ahh thats the worst .. be YOURSELF and if guys still try to touch you or do things with you they obviously DONT RESPECT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE .. so they arent your true friends or good guys - and also DONT hook up with guys if your not going out with them or planning on it because that just leads to trouble .. i hope i helped xoxo
<33 alyssa
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Well...you brought this on yourself. You say you have a rep for being slutty, and you don't do stuff, even though you're kind of slutty. Face it. If you're wearing slutty clothes and acting slutty guys aren't going to like you for who you are, becaus the way you present yourself says a lot about you. If you're wearing slutty clothes, a guy is going to think your slutty, so you brought this on yourself...figure it out
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Well the way you represent yourself could be a problem..it could be the clothes you ware or the attitude you carry-its a good thing that guys are attracted to you but its never a good thing when guys try to touch you or expect too much from you!! Tell them that you are not like that, but first you need to convince yourself that you are not like that, you said it yourself that you have a reputation for bein kinda slutty so what can u do to change that??-be yourself by all means but change the way you carry yourself.Be comfortable in your beliefs-but do not let guys walk all over you be independent and self assured and gusy will like you for who u are..Guys dont get that just because u dress or act like u want it doesnt mean that u dont..so let them know tell them NOOOO and if they continue get up and walk away u could end up getting raped or something and believe me its never a good thing-good luck tell me what happends hope i helped *Sam
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Not to be rude but try not to act or be so slutty..and find a guy whose right!
x0x JamieLynn
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Hey, i know what uu mean , i kinda use to have that problem. You gotta just be yourslef and you gotta reconize that GUYS ARE JERKS! and if they can get anything out of you they will try. Gurl you can not let them see your ground, you are prob a beautiful girl! i would say maybe wear more clothes that are less revilin`. And tell the guys that if they don't like how you dress they better bounce cause this is how you are and this is how you'll stay and you will always be yourself!!
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eh well; how are you slutty tho? to get the guys too like you for who u are..just be yourself; drop ur reputation..maybe if the way u dress is the problem..maybe just cover urself up a little..n if ur hanging out w/ a guy just talk to him about ur interests and his life; instead of letting him go to the subject of making out n sex. hope i helped =)
x00o gina <3
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first always remember to ignore it... maybe you can make a statement by becoming less slutty, try wearing less revealing clothes, and hangout with people that...well...dont act slutty as well. if they keep at it, get aggressive, and tell them to step off....and...if u must push them away.
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-sAveD
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Okay.. well for one...Whenever a guy trys to do stuff with you.. tell him no.. and that will give him the vibe that your not only getting into the relationship for the sexual things. And when a guy that your don't like trys to touch you or it bothers you tell him to stop.. don't just let him do it.. that will give people the slutty impression. Also look at the guys you usually date.. are they all alike.. If so try to go for a different type.. the kind who wo't just base everything on looks and get to know you. And when you get a boyfriend.. don't rush into things with him or he will get the impression that your easy. And about the guys that obsess over you just ignore them.. don't give them attention.. or that will make them stick around longer and not get over it..
Hope i helped
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xoxo
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Just tell them that you aren't that kind of girl .. and that you are actually very respectable! Tell them to F*** off because it's not right to just use someone because of their rep. Tell them that you actually have a personality, and they have to deal with who you really are and not what people think of you.
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u need to tell them straight up...how u feel if they r really ur friends then they should respect u and stop doin it...if they dont stop then u dont need 2 be hangin out with them cuz they only want u for ur rep. hope this helps!!:]
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