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pregnant sister
my 17 yr old sister is 8 weeks pregnant adn i kno shes not ready to be a mother and i dont kno how to help her get prepared! wut should i do?
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just be there 4 her no matter wat bcuz there will be times when she will just need a shoulder 2 cry... n do not judge her 4 this bcuz chances r she prob. already feels bad enough
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You could look up online or get some books that have advice in them straight from other teen mothers. Also when the baby comes you should be there for her as much as possible. Any help from you will be much appreciated by her expecially if the dad isn't there.
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No one is ready to become a mom.. But I'm 17 and my daughter is 1.. But all you can do is tell her you will always be there for her.. Make sure shes comfortable and has what she needs... Dont do too much for her because then she will feel like she cant do anything for herself... I hope I helped
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be there for her and help her 100% and dont even once remind her of being a young unprepared parent. She'll cry herself to sleep a few nights, she'll realize her own situation. be easy on the poor girl.
hope i helped
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well no one is eva prepared all you can do is be there for her and help her wiht what eva she needs.
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I think the best thing u can do is give encouragement. Hope everything turns out fine!
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It's really good of you to be concerned about your sister at this time, first of all, and right now the most important thing you can do for her is be there for her. Is the father of the baby involved at all with the pregnancy? If not, then she'll be glad for you to help her out as she gets morning sickness if you're around, or just plain spend a little time with her if she seems lonely. Hopefully, she isn't smoking/drinking/using drugs during the pregnancy, and if she is maybe you could try to help her stop, as that could kill or hurt her growing baby. The thing is, there only so much you can really do for your sister right now. That she got pregnant before she was ready was a choice she made, so don't think that you can help her with every aspect of having a baby - this she needs to learn on her own.
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Look it up on the internet... u can learn a lot that way... keep in mind tho... no one is ever ready to have a baby... its just sumthing that u learn along the way...
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What ever you do dont get on her nevers and do what shes says..try to be there for her when she needs help with something! hope i helped britt
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There is nothing you can really do. It's all up to your sister. If she was responsible enough to have sex she needs to deal with the consequences - mostly on her own. It's nice of you to want to help but this is something she needs to do. Plus I think it will hit her more when the baby is actually born. In the mean time maybe you can recommend some parenting classes to her. Or buy her some books about becoming a teenage parent.
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Tell her to drink heavily, and use her stomach as a punchin' bag... It'll kill the baby.
Be there for her.
Do what she says.
Make things easier for her.
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Just be there when she needs. Ask if she needs anything. Im sure any effort will be greatly appreciated. ;D
need ne thing else ...JUST ASK!
hope things work out!
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Just look at ways to take care of the baby online or get a parenting book or parenting tips or something, just help her through it and stuff
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i think i would tlak to ur mom bout it and try to get an experianced person to help couch ur sis through this! just be patient
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