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have to choose


Question Posted Saturday July 24 2004, 1:48 pm

Im a 15 yr old girl and there was this guy that I dated for four months last year and I never totally got over him. I am currently dating his best friend and I really like him. Last night my ex told me that he wanted a second chance, and that he changed. I think I want to give him one, and I like both guys. Theyre best gfrirnds and I don't want them to stop being that just because of me. What should I do?

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sxyxbabii answered Sunday July 25 2004, 10:52 pm:
ok i know EXACTLY how you feel.. i think this is prolly like the hardest decision any girl has to make with 2 guys.. if i were you i'd be single until you figure out exactly who you want not just both.. its wrong to like or like want to go out with both of them while going out with one fo them.. its not fair to them and its not fair to you.. so if i were you i'd just take sometime for yourself.. i know it sounds stupid and its lke why would i be single when 2 great guys are out there for me but trust me.. if you want whats best its to just be single until you figure out exactly who you want

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Sparklezz0588 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:57 pm:
You need to decide who you want to be with more. Which one are you always thinking about more? Maybe you should make a pros and cons list for both guys.

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BritNeenIcOle answered Saturday July 24 2004, 9:29 pm:
Always making your self happier before any guy maybe if you tell your curent bf how u feel hell understand and if he doesnt then hes not worth your time at all hope i helped

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HollyAnn2282 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 8:06 pm:
I think you need to talk to your boyfriend right now. But see I've had a lot of guys say that they've changed just because they are jealous of the other guy so they want you to still like them and want to steal you from them.. Be careful guys can be such dicks sometimes! Just be careful that you dont make the wrong choice by dumping the guy you like now going for the other one then things dont work out. Good luck hope everything works out for the best
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selectopaque answered Saturday July 24 2004, 4:04 pm:
Maybe you should take a break from both of them for a short time. Tell the new boyfriend that you just need some time to figure things out. Tell the ex boyfriend the same thing, also tell him to prove to you that he has changed. If he really likes you and has really changed, then he will find some way to win you back.

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Roxybabii922 answered Saturday July 24 2004, 3:49 pm:
Do what you thinks best, go with the guy that you think will make you happier, go with the guy that you think will have the longest lasting relationship with, go with the guy that you can see yourself with in the long run...

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