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ex boyfriends!
I have been talkin to my best friends ex boyfriend a lot lately. and i think i like him. when we were talkin online he asked for my email address and eh emailed me a picture of himself. (hes cute too!) well when i was tlakin to my friend she was like "you don't liek him do you cuz that is a nono!" and i told ehr i didn't because i ddn twant her to get mead. but i really do like this kid any idea what i shoudl do??? I'll rate if your answer helps at all!!
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You have to decide whats more important to you... a frienship ... or a relationship that might not even last... try to respect your friends feelings... look at it from her point of view... would u be ok wit is if one of your friends was dating your X... always talkin about how great he is, seeing them together... think about that and decide
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i think you should talk to you're friend and tell her that you might be crushing on this boy and if she gets really pissed you haveta ask yourself if he's worth it and if he is you should ask the boy if he wants to start up a relationship with you!! <3 hope i helped
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Alright that is a pretty big no no unless she says its ok... and I dont think she thinks its ok... maybe you can play it low for a while and see if her feelings change... if not maybe you should move on... unless you want to lose a bestfriend over a guy :-/ My moto, chicks before dicks! Boyfriends come and go but friends stay forever! GOOD LUCK!
-holly-
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I think that you should ask her if she still likes him before you do anything. The best thing for a friendship is honesty. Then you should tell her that you have feelings for him. If you want to go out w. him you should ask her first. If she says she doesnt want you to then you shouldnt because friendship is WAY more important than having boyfriends.
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If you haven't met him in person, I don't think that you can be sure that you like him. If you haven't hung out with him in real life, then how do you know how he really is? He might sound nice online, but if your friend doesn't think you should go out with him, then there must be something bad about him. If your friend just doesn't want you to go out with him because she isn't over him yet, then keep talking to him online, and when your friend is over him, go out with him. If your friend doesn't want you two to be together because he isn't nice, than arrange to meet him in person to see how he acts.
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Talk to the boy first and see if you guys both really like eachother and if its worth losing a friend over it... then talk to your friend and tell her that you talked to the boy and you both really like eachother and tell her why you like him, maybe she'll understand. But I mean its her ex they dont have a future together..thats in the past.
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You only live once. I don't know how it is for you, but I very seldom actually like someone. When someone comes around like that, does it matter if they dated your friend at one point? I know it might upset her a little bit, but would you prefer to be the one hurt? why is it better for you to sit in your room depressed then to have her a little mad at you. She could very well do the same thing to you one day.
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First of all, I think you should tell your friend the truth.
The heart wants what the heart wants, and you can't help it.
I had a friend date one of my exes - it hurt in the beginning, since I wasn't over him, but then I got over him and I thought they made a cute couple.
Explain to her your situation. She may get a little pissed, but she has to understand that you can't help who you like.
I hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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okay.. well if she still has feelings for him or something since she says that he is off limits to you then you need to respect that.. if she still likes him then you can't go out with him or you will probably lose your friend.. Don't tell her you like him.. unless she finds out herself.. and to tell you the truth you will most likely need to try to move on..
RaTe Me!!!!!!!
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I say dont do it. I can relate to your friend and its just kinda weird when there is a situation like that. Especially when you might want to talk to her about your relationship with him. If you really like this guy then talk to your friend and tell her the whole truth. If she understands and accepts it than good. If not than you may have to choose one or the other. And remember guys will always come and go but a true friend is hard to find. Good luck!
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well maybe you should talk to her and tell you that you do like him but you wont go out with him unless shes ok with it. and ask her why she says its a "nono". she doesnt have feeling for him anymore right? and if you do really like him then i think that you should atleast talk to her.
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Tell her that you think your starting to get feelings for him, but you would never do anything if she doesn't want you to.
If you really really like him, then she might understand and tell you it's ok. But if she's still not over him, if she thinks he's just bad news and would hurt you, or if you think it would ruin your friendship at all, then it's probably best to stay away from it.
Just don't continue to talk to him and flirt with him too much behind her back. If you do then she'll eventually find out and get hurt ten times more than if you tell her the truth now.
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