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Question Posted Sunday July 25 2004, 7:12 pm

im the jelous type and my bf and i got mad at this one girl for the same reasons and we both used to be best friends with her, but now hes not really mad at her. he says hes just happy to ignore her. but i have a feeling that they're going to be friends again because they go to the same school and i dont. i trust him...but also i think im going to lose him. he told me he checks out other girls and all and then he wonders why i think im going to lose him. i love him so much and i just cant help being jelous, but i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not.

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LilD answered Monday July 26 2004, 11:42 am:
You should talk to him if you feel that you are going to loose him i know just how you feel so my b/f and i did the same we sat and talked about it.Turns out he feels just the same.

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xobabyxthang answered Sunday July 25 2004, 10:35 pm:
You should tell him how you feel when he checks out and flirts with other girls and you're fears of losing him to those other girls

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HollyAnn2282 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:20 pm:
Yeah I think you should talk to him. But being jealous is a totally normal thing! And guys checking out girls... HA you can never stop them... But you can do the same too! Theres no harm in JUST looking. But I think you should tell him how you feel! Hope everything works out for the best and good luck
-holly-
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Hello180 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:04 pm:
He probably still likes you, though not as much as you wish he did. I know that no matter who I'm with I always check out other girls, nothing serious, just looking, it's only human nature, but if I'm really into a girl, she's the only one on my mind. Tell him how you feel, try to hang out with him more, and most of all make sure he's happy. Maybe he feels a little weird around you too.

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Sara8047 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:53 pm:
Talk to him about you being afraid to lose him and if he understands he'll tell you. But maybe if you forgive this girl everything would work out well and you wouldnt have to worry about him cheating on you..

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:38 pm:
If there's something bothering you involving your boyfriend, you HAVE to open your mouth and tell him what it is.
TELL the boy that it bothers you that you check out other girls, and all that stuff.
Your worry is totally valid. I mean, if my guy was going to a different school, and told me he checked out other girls, I'd get pissed...Lol.
I hear about so many problems that could be fixed just by opening up and telling the other person what the problem is...don't become part of that. This may be fixable.
Hope I helped - good luck!
-Siren =)

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texangirl01 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:37 pm:
well there is no point in going out with him if you dont trust him girlie! if your dating.you should be dating somebody you can trust and always count on. But i really wouldnt be jealous over his friends...i mean if they are friends again then thats cool...that doesnt mean that he is going to treat you different...and if he starts to then just tell the boy

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xoxBrittny52xox answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:35 pm:
Okay really a good thing 2 do is talk 2 him in just a nice way nd say look i really love you but im scared im gunna lose u bcuz ur goin 2 the same girl with (wateva her name is) n then basicly tell him how u feel nd maybe you cud work it out
Hope I Helped

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spoiledx3shortii answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:34 pm:
Don't worry... of course boys check out other girls.. its just the way they are.. theres no way to change that.. but if he begins to act strangly towards you than you may want to talk to him about this other girl.. but until then don't worry and trust that he will do the right thing!
RaTe Me!
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Sparklezz0588 answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:33 pm:
Honey, you can never change the ways of men. They will always check out other girls. It sucks I know but its in their genes. But just because they do that, doesnt mean they are going to act on it. You need to learn to trust him and trust that he will do the right thing.

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**Beanie** answered Sunday July 25 2004, 7:23 pm:
If he is telling you taht he has checked out other girls then its time to let him go!

You can't be in a relationship wiht someone tha toyu dont trust and you obviosuly dont trust him. The sooner you break it off the easier ti will eb to get over him. I knwo you may think you like him a lot but look at what you jsust said. 1. he checks out otehr girls. 2. you are extremely jealous. and 3. you dont trust him.

I think that although u like him it will be better fro the both of you if you just let him go...

I'm sorry and i hope you feel ebtter pelase rate me!

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